new and want to TTC boy after loss

[Annie Love]

I had a d & c yesterday after my baby boy's heart stopped beating at 13 weeks. I'm 39 years old and we want a boy so bad. We have 3 girls already. What are my best chances to conceive a boy? With this boy we lost we used instead cup, egg whites and baking soda finger and conceived 1st time w a boy and OPK to conceive at ovulation.(unfortunately resulted in fetal demise)
I want to try the same method but am worrying...could it have contributed to miscarriage? When should I start to TTC again? Thoughts? Thank you.

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh Annie I'm so sorry to read this. The vast majority of losses are just bad luck, no one's fault so please don't blame yourself.

I do not and never will recommend egg whites for anyone as I fear they can cause or contribute to uterine infection.

I would have you do natural conception using Preseed and guaifenesin instead of egg whites/baking soda. Much safer and better for conception.

After a D and C I generally recommend waiting 2 cycles but at 39 time is not your friend...what did your doc recommend??

Are you doing a sway diet?? Taking any supps?

[Annie Love]

Doc recommended waiting 2-3 cycles to build up uterine lining. I'm trying to avoid dairy and increase potassium & sodium. As for supps, thinking of EPO, maybe potassium pills, folic acid. Should I take a full prenatal instead of straight folic acid? I want a boy so bad. What else can I do in addition to your suggestions?
We bd at 20 hours after pos OPK smiley face and conceived boy, should we do that again?
Also what are your stats on conceiving boy w guaifenesin and preseed?
Instead cup to help? So desperate.
This might be my lady chance
Thank you.

[atomic sagebrush]

I'd split the difference and go with 2. 3 is overkill IMO

We use full fat dairy for blue sways on here but if you can't bring yourself to include it, that's fine, just be SURE you are getting good animal fats from other sources (like butter, fatty beef, and eggs)

DO NOT NOT NOT use EPO. We have had such poor results for blue that I am seriously considering trying it for some people as a PINK sway! I currently only use EPO for blue swayers who are on very strict keto diets and no one else.

I'd have you use folate instead since you've had a loss and I'd do 2000 mcg per day.

YES I want you on a prenatal absolutely!!!

I prefer you get potassium from foods (such as coconut water, fruits and veg) but one potassium pill per day won't kill u

We have best results for blue with 3 attempts at or after pos OPK. Even though you got a boy with one attempt before, we have had a lot of girls conceived with one attempt. So my recommendation would be one attempt night of positive OPK, again the next morning if you can (O Day) and then again the following night (O Day)

We get between 65-75% success rates depending on what sway tactics people use. Most everyone uses Preseed and guafenesin on this site. Please do not trust the artificially, impossibly high inflated success rates on other sites. They simply cut everyone out who doesn't do everything perfectly and get opposites (including everyone whose husbands won't sway) but then include everyone who gets successes even when they didn't do things perfectly and this makes their statistics unreliable.

I never recommend the Instead cup because I think it can seal the cervix shut actually leading to LOWER sperm numbers at the egg instead of higher. Plus when people try to put it in, they lose tons of semen/sperm. Simply stay laying down for at least 30 minutes or more and it's better than messing with Instead cup.

Good luck and blue dust headed your way!

[Annie Love]

Do you suggest folate instead of folic acid? Is that too much folic acid 2000mg plus the prenatal?
Also, if I purchase your plan on TTC boy, how beneficial would it be? What will I learn?
Any thoughts on extreme gender swaying?
I stopped 1000 mg of folic acid at 12 weeks and just continued with prenatal vitamins....that's about time baby's heart stopped. ...wonder if that had anything g to do with it.
Thank you so much. Just reading your replies atomic is helping me.

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, I prefer folate for everyone who can afford it. Did you just stop the folic acid cold turkey?? Next time let's wean off of it at the end of the first trimester by spacing doses further and further out till down to one per week, then you can safely drop them. It should take about 3-4 weeks to do that. It was probably just a coincidence but let's err on the side of caution and wean off gradually instead.

I am not a fan of extreme gender swaying as it is based on lies. No one can see the differences between X and Y sperm through a microscope and even in a modern lab using the best of the best equipment and training and materials, sperm spinning has been shown by independent studies to still produce 50-50 X and Y sperm and Dr. Ericsson himself admits this. If this is true (which it is and all reputable sources like Dr. Potter agree) then there is NO WAY that women at home with egg whites and toy centrifuges can get any different result than that. It is simply impossible what they are promising.

Here's a nice rundown of the stuff that is in the plan. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/personalized-plans-and-coaching-service-details/41669-personalized-gender-selection-plans-coaching-service-details.html

[Annie Love]

At 12 weeks I stopped the folic acid (1000mg) cold turkey but kept up with the prenatal vitamin which contained 400mcg of folic acid.

Also I had d & c 2 and half weeks ago and started bleeding today. Could this be my period starting?

[atomic sagebrush]

It's probably not a true period but it may mean your cycle is resuming and you may possibly O in 2 weeks.

Yeah let's just wean off next time to be on the safest side.

[Annie Love]

I just purchased a ttc a Boy Bundle plan...how/where do I access it?
It is the TTC a Boy Bundle-Personalized Gender Swaying Plan and Coaching Service Plus 21 day meal plan subscription.
I understood it gets emailed to me through PDF. I would love that. Also what are the first steps that I need to do? I'm confused.
Please Help!

Thank you so much!

[atomic sagebrush]

Did you get any email messages possibly in your spam folder? I sent a mesage to tech support but it's supposed to be all automated. The questionnaires are here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms and if you can't access them try logging out and logging back in again! Then once I get the questionnaires I"ll make your plan for you!

Thanks so much for your purchase!

[Annie Love]

no I did not get an email.
In regards to the questionnaire link you sent...it seems those questions are as if I'm swaying already. I haven't started to sway so I don't understand how I am supposed to fill out...supplements taken, did I skip breakfast etc etc because I haven't started to sway or even tried to conceive yet. How do I fill it out if I haven't started swaying?
Thank you!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes i think we need some tech support help here, I'm so sorry! I've messaged someone who can help us and we should have it fixed shortly.

[Annie Love]

Thank you so much atomic. I'm eager to get started as time is precious. I'm 39.

[Annie Love]

Hi atomic I just sent you a private message replying to the email. Hope you received it. My email address is in it. Thank you so much!

[atomic sagebrush]

No problem, it's my pleasure.

[Annie Love]

Hi atomic!
If I were to get hubby to ejaculate into instead cup and then insert that, would that sway boy?
What does CD 12 mean?
Thank you!

[atomic sagebrush]

No, if anything it sways pink. Several of our blue sway opposites were in couples who had to do that because they could not conceive any other way (were using sperm donors for a variety of reasons) and virtually all of them got girls.

PLEASE do not use the Instead Cup. I know some people on other sites claim it sways blue but just putting the thing in causes people to lose tons of semen, and it can also seal the cervix shut, sealing out many sperm that would otherwise have had a chance to make it to the egg.

CD 12 means cycle day 12, you start counting the days on the first day of your period with normal flow (spotting doesn't count). So that day is CD 1, CD 2,3, etc. Most people ovulate sometime aroudn CD 14.