Coffee and breast feeding during sway???

[rayalynn1]

I'm currently expecting my third little boy. I'm planning to have a 4th after this one and want to sway for a girl. Id like this pregnacy and my next to be relitivly close together (within 2 years apart). So what im wondering is: I'd like to know when to start my sway after giving birth? Does breast feeding sway boy or girl? (I'm hoping to breast feed for a year) and does coffee affect sway?. I'll be purchasing a sway plan when the time actually comes however until then I'm just trying to prepare myself. Please help Thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

Coffee and breastfeeding we believe both sway pink.

I'd not start a sway diet till your nursing baby is 9 months old. You can go vegetarian sooner if you'd like to but I'd wait till your baby is 9-12 months before actually going onto a sway diet (and even then you should aim at upper levels of diet - 1800-2000 cals, 50-60 g protein and fat) while nursing.

[rayalynn1]

I was sure coffee swayed blue. This is great news! Thanks. If I start my sway when my baby is 9 months how many months should I be on the diet before ttc? Thanks for your help :)

[atomic sagebrush]

Some sites claim that, but their reasoning is completely debunked by all modern science. we get outstanding results with coffee for pink. I got 4 boys without coffee and then got my girl with coffee.

We have best results with 3 months (12 weeks) or longer on diet.

[Momma bear 4]

Breastfeeding has been 50/50 there has been some that have had boys and girls while they were breastfeeding. Coffee has been known to sway boy.

You can try changing your diet and timing when you have sex. Whatever you do good luck in getting your girl.

[MiaMelb]

Our results and modern technology have indicated coffee does not sway blue and if anything is actually great for a pink sway. If you were able to 'perk up' sperm with caffeine it doesn't make sense that it would only have this impact selectively on y sperm. If it had that affect likely it would affect both x and y sperm. And they are all ifs! Our results, and I also speak from experience, are that coffee likely sways pink. I was drinking 2-4 lattes a day prior to DD1 and 2.

[Momma bear 4]

Our results and modern technology have indicated coffee does not sway blue and if anything is actually great for a pink sway. If you were able to 'perk up' sperm with caffeine it doesn't make sense that it would only have this impact selectively on y sperm. If it had that affect likely it would affect both x and y sperm. And they are all ifs! Our results, and I also speak from experience, are that coffee likely sways pink. I was drinking 2-4 lattes a day prior to DD1 and 2.

I swayed with my son and coffee was involved. Lol I speak from experience as well. Of course we not going to put much thought on just the coffee. There are other things you can try but will it work who knows. But my sway did. Plus is been said in many websites that coffee can help sway blue.

[atomic sagebrush]

I swayed with my son and coffee was involved. Lol I speak from experience as well. Of course we not going to put much thought on just the coffee. There are other things you can try but will it work who knows. But my sway did. Plus is been said in many websites that coffee can help sway blue.

195 people used coffee
163 got girls

63% success rate

Of those drinking a lot of coffee (3 or more cups a day) 21 of 23 got girls.

No one's sway has ever come down to one thing.

I don't give a rat's --- what they say on other sites. They are WRONG. The sole reason why they ever said coffee swayed is because they think that it causes "calcium to leach from the body" but that has been debunked using blood tests by several studies and they just continue to use the old outdated stuff to support their methods rather than changing them.

[atomic sagebrush]

Breastfeeding has been 50/50 there has been some that have had boys and girls while they were breastfeeding. Coffee has been known to sway boy.

You can try changing your diet and timing when you have sex. Whatever you do good luck in getting your girl.

EVERY sway tactic under the sun has some people getting boys and girls while using them.

We get 61% girls with breastfeeding while doing pink sways. Additionally breastfeeders who are trying to conceive are not a random sample because most people do not try to get pregnant while nursing. So you cannot look at people you know who are breastfeeding and tell how breastfeeding sways, because it is not a random sample of people.

This is the third rather argumentative thing in a row I've read from you. Having a bad day? I really do hate quibbling with people on the Internet, so if you don't like our methods here, there are plenty of other sites that use old studies to do the kind of sway it sounds like you would prefer.

[rayalynn1]

Ok thank you guys for your help :) I was a coffee drinker (1 day) when I conceived all three of my boys. So maybe cofee just doesn't help me to sway pink or maybe I didn't drink enough. Therefore no reason to stop drinking it I guess! My husband drinks tea once a day not coffee. Does that make a difference? He drinks it in the morning. A time we usually don't DTD

[atomic sagebrush]

21 of 23 people got girls drinking 3 or more cups of coffee a day. I like those odds LOL

No one's sway EVER comes down to one cup of coffee. I suggest you include it and increase it to 2 cups a day. :)

[Momma bear 4]

Rayalynn- Maybe try the opposite that you did with your boys. Dh drinked coffee too when we conceived our son and not as much or hardly any when we conceived our daughters. Pink dust your way hun.

[Momma bear 4]

Excuse me what is your problem atomic? You literally attacking me in every thread. For simply giving my opinion. What is wrong with you? Not sure what tactic you are trying to use for people to buy the sway kits. Are we not allowed to share our opinions? Do we have to keep quiet so they just buy the kits instead. Please leave me alone since I am not even attacking you in any way. You have your opinion just like everyone else has theirs.

[mommymachine]

Question for you Atomic—-I know I’m thread crashing but I’m genuinely curious; why does coffee sway girl but tea (specifically black) sway boy? Or, am I completely out to lunch and they both sway girl??


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping to try for #7 in 2019

[atomic sagebrush]

Rayalynn- Maybe try the opposite that you did with your boys. Dh drinked coffee too when we conceived our son and not as much or hardly any when we conceived our daughters. Pink dust your way hun.

Doing the opposite doesn't work, though. You have to do the things that actually work for swaying.

Let me illustrate - let's say that a person had gotten a boy in the past while drinking coffee but it was not because of the coffee, it was in spite of the coffee. They were actually (just making numbers up out of thin air, here) 60 % likely to have a girl but then the cards didn't fall their way and they got a boy anyway. We'll pretend coffee sways pink by 5%. The next time, they are 65% likely to get a girl, but then they "do the opposite" and end up back at 60% likely to get a girl again - they would have been better off if they kept drinking the coffee! You just can't look at one thing in isolation and say "ah-ha, that's the one reason I got a boy/girl" because it is never just one thing. It's tons of things working together.

The way we can tell things sway pink is by looking at a lot of people who have used them or done them and see the result of the gender they conceive. Based on our results coffee is a very good pink sway tactic. Plus, at the same time, the claims made on other sites are totally debunked - coffee does NOT make calcium leach from the body, that wasn't true. So both in terms of claims that were made that were false, and new evidence that is showing that coffee sways pink, that makes SO much more sense than just "doing the opposite" because you can easily end up worse off that way than you were to begin with. No one has to use it if they prefer not to, but it's a good pink sway and it's so easy to include it, I really think anyone who can do it, should.

[atomic sagebrush]

Excuse me what is your problem atomic? You literally attacking me in every thread. For simply giving my opinion. What is wrong with you? Not sure what tactic you are trying to use for people to buy the sway kits. Are we not allowed to share our opinions? Do we have to keep quiet so they just buy the kits instead. Please leave me alone since I am not even attacking you in any way. You have your opinion just like everyone else has theirs.

The way it works is you can share your opinions and then I come along and share what our observations have been and what my research has indicated and then everyone makes up their own mind and does what they want and I fully support them in that. Everyone is always encouraged to question and do whatever they want to in the end provided that it's reasonably safe. But I'm the forum leader, I am just doing my job by making the case when someone posts something that is misleading or wrong in some way. These forums are read by tons of people and I have a responsibility to chime in on every question to keep our threads as full of correct information as I possibly can.

Any "problem" I have with you is down to your tone in like 4 or 5 posts over the past few days in which you seemed to be implying that I perhaps did not have everyone's best interests at heart here. You implied repeatedly and pretty overtly that I was giving people bad advice, that I was stupid or misinformed, that I was telling people things that could medically harm them, or that I was being too uptight and closeminded about old wives tales (or something.) I don't appreciate that and I don't need it in my life.

Just to spell it out clearly, you have now done the following: Implied that I am a) trying to hurt people's sways out of malice or stupidity b) trying to harm people's health and c) am overly sensitive or insane and now d) that I am a money grubber trying to get $$ out of people. That goes beyond sharing an opinion or questioning into an attack on me - all in threads in which YOU posted first - and I felt and feel very attacked by you on kind of a personal level. I didn't even know who you were until I read posts in which I felt attacked or insulted by you. So, you can do the math about what my problem is, because I don't seem to be having this problem with anyone else. I'd like to think that was all accidental, that this was all just a big misunderstanding but I'm kind of thinking nah, I read this situation with accuracy.

My opinion is based on 10 years with thousands of swayers on two different sites and exhausting research. As they say, opinions are like a-holes, everyone's got one. But I can back up my "opinions" with studies and stats and biological reasons. This is also my site and nuthinbutpink's site - we did all the work on it (so much work) and so I'm not really sure why we should have to put up with feeling attacked and insulted.

This job is fun for me, usually. It's a nice place to hang out. I would do it all for free if I could (and honestly I wouldn't mind so I could have a day off now and then, since I never even take days off usually) But I can't, because the option is I sell a few sway plans or I go to work and if I go to work I can't answer any questions. I spend the majority of my time helping people for free. I have all this stuff up here for free so you guys can have it and I add new stuff all the time. I like helping people sway. I'm not trying to get anything from you. If I was, I'd do things very differently, LOL, starting with not giving away anything for free instead of giving away practically everything for free. So again, I am at a loss as to why I should ever have to feel embarrassed, attacked, or insulted. Just don't think I deserve that.

Good luck with your sway, if you're swaying.

[atomic sagebrush]

Question for you Atomic—-I know I’m thread crashing but I’m genuinely curious; why does coffee sway girl but tea (specifically black) sway boy? Or, am I completely out to lunch and they both sway girl??


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping to try for #7 in 2019

No, not at all, great question.

Keeping in mind that this is sheer speculation on my part because we don't have the research yet. But it's because it isn't caffeine that is swaying. It is some chemistry in the coffee and the tea that is swaying. They are pretty different chemically; even though they both have caffeine they're different in other ways and it seems that the coffee has some juju in it that benefits a pink sway, and the tea has some mojo in it that benefit a blue sway. (highly technical terminology there!)

[mommymachine]

No, not at all, great question.

Keeping in mind that this is sheer speculation on my part because we don't have the research yet. But it's because it isn't caffeine that is swaying. It is some chemistry in the coffee and the tea that is swaying. They are pretty different chemically; even though they both have caffeine they're different in other ways and it seems that the coffee has some juju in it that benefits a pink sway, and the tea has some mojo in it that benefit a blue sway. (highly technical terminology there!)

Cool, thanks Atomic! But which one sways twins?? ;) ;) ;)


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping for #7 in 2019/2020

Praying for twins !!!

[rayalynn1]

thanks so much. Makes sense. Ill up it when i start my sway!

[atomic sagebrush]

Cool, thanks Atomic! But which one sways twins?? ;) ;) ;)


Mommy to 6 little blessings.

Hoping for #7 in 2019/2020

Praying for twins !!!

As long as it's got full fat dairy in it, probably either! :)