Has my boy sway failed???? 13w0d scan

[Momwithlove]

So I have done my best for a perfect sway. I also had a positive feeling about my sway until I had the 13 week scan. the tech saw a girls nub. according to other sites Everyone guesses that this is a clear girls nub. I am sad and I feel guilty that I am sad. on the internet I also read that some nubs are late risers but I do not want to give myself any hope anymore :-( what do you ladies think?

[nicoler]

I know it's not what you are hoping to hear but this does look very much like a girl to me. I'm sorry- it's ok to feel disappointed, many of us have been in your shoes and understand how hard it is.

[Momwithlove]

I know :-( I'm curious if there is a small chance that the nub is a late riser

[ksmom]

It does look very girly to me, sorry. I don't think it's likely to rise at this point but there's always a chance we're wrong as nub shots aren't 100% accurate for gender. I'm sorry you didn't hear boy. I know what it's like to put so much into swaying and then it doesn't work out the way you hoped it would. Hugs

[atomic sagebrush]

It does look girly - I have seen a couple late risers, but I would expect a girl and then if you get good news later on, that's great. Beautiful baby, congratulations.

[Momma bear 4]

Sorry you didnt hear boy. It does look girly and at 13 weeks it is unlikely that it could rise.

[Momwithlove]

It does look very girly to me, sorry. I don't think it's likely to rise at this point but there's always a chance we're wrong as nub shots aren't 100% accurate for gender. I'm sorry you didn't hear boy. I know what it's like to put so much into swaying and then it doesn't work out the way you hoped it would. Hugs

Thank u!! X

[Momwithlove]

It does look girly - I have seen a couple late risers, but I would expect a girl and then if you get good news later on, that's great. Beautiful baby, congratulations.

Thank u! X

[Momwithlove]

Sorry you didnt hear boy. It does look girly and at 13 weeks it is unlikely that it could rise.

I know that from 13 weeks it will not rise quickly. On the internet I have read some stories and seen flat nub photos from 13 weeks which became a boy. it gave me a small hope but I do not want false hope

[LMSM]

I know just how you feel, I’m expecting #3 girl after my blue sway...it does look very girly, so would definitely brace myself to have it confirmed as a girl but you never do know ;)
:hugs:

[Momwithlove]

It does look girly - I have seen a couple late risers, but I would expect a girl and then if you get good news later on, that's great. Beautiful baby, congratulations.

38772

I compared my scan with a confirmed girl nub and I think the nub of my baby is a bit higher than the bottom photo. or am I imagining in desperation? the green circle is the nub. between the two stripes I see something small in the middle. what can it be?

[Momwithlove]

I know just how you feel, I’m expecting #3 girl after my blue sway...it does look very girly, so would definitely brace myself to have it confirmed as a girl but you never do know ;)
:hugs:

So sorry for you you didnt get your boy:-( despite the disappointment, I am convinced that I will love my baby girl with all my heart!

[LMSM]

I won’t lie...I cried for days at first. It has been a roller coaster, and along with negative comment after negative comment has been tough, but I truly am excited to meet her as much as it still hurts not to have a son and all my friends and acquaintances getting their pigeon pairs or boy after boy (my SIL is due 2 weeks before me with her 2nd son for instance). Though, having experienced bad gender disappointment especially with my 2nd DD, I can say I love her beyond any words regardless of her gender and know it will be the same with DD3.
I keep my FX that your Bub may be a boy, keep us posted!!

[LMSM]

I won’t lie...I cried for days at first. It has been a roller coaster, and along with negative comment after negative comment has been tough, but I truly am excited to meet her as much as it still hurts not to have a son and all my friends and acquaintances getting their pigeon pairs or boy after boy (my SIL is due 2 weeks before me with her 2nd son for instance). Though, having experienced bad gender disappointment especially with my 2nd DD, I can say I love her beyond any words regardless of her gender and know it will be the same with DD3.
I keep my FX that your Bub may be a boy, keep us posted!!

[Momwithlove]

I won’t lie...I cried for days at first. It has been a roller coaster, and along with negative comment after negative comment has been tough, but I truly am excited to meet her as much as it still hurts not to have a son and all my friends and acquaintances getting their pigeon pairs or boy after boy (my SIL is due 2 weeks before me with her 2nd son for instance). Though, having experienced bad gender disappointment especially with my 2nd DD, I can say I love her beyond any words regardless of her gender and know it will be the same with DD3.
I keep my FX that your Bub may be a boy, keep us posted!!

honey, a hug for you! I hope that when you are ready ... that your fourth child may become a healthy son! your message did me good. thanks for that

[Momwithlove]

38772

I compared my scan with a confirmed girl nub and I think the nub of my baby is a bit higher than the bottom photo. or am I imagining in desperation? the green circle is the nub. between the two stripes I see something small in the middle. what can it be?

can someone please answer my question from above? and Is there a chance that the nub can rise to a boy?

[nicoler]

I think it would be unlikely to rise. Even though you see a very slight angle the nub itself is straight and girly looking. By 13 weeks boys nubs are looking quite stacked and penis-like and are sticking up at nearly a 90 degree angle from the body.

[Momwithlove]

I think it would be unlikely to rise. Even though you see a very slight angle the nub itself is straight and girly looking. By 13 weeks boys nubs are looking quite stacked and penis-like and are sticking up at nearly a 90 degree angle from the body.

I see. Well I will have to wait until the sex is confirmed in a few weeks

[nicoler]

I really really hope we're wrong and this is your boy! Wishing you so much luck, come back and update us when you find out.

[Momwithlove]

I really really hope we're wrong and this is your boy! Wishing you so much luck, come back and update us when you find out.

Thank u so much! Very kind of you. you will hear it from me as soon as I know it

X

[Momwithlove]

UPDATE: it’s a girl! I know it sounds terrible and ungrateful, but I am sad! the ideal that I dreamed of has quickly disappeared. what have I done wrong with my sway? does the atomic or someone else want to take time to look at my sway? then I will work it out. I want tips!

[Tali.kah]

UPDATE: it’s a girl! I know it sounds terrible and ungrateful, but I am sad! the ideal that I dreamed of has quickly disappeared. what have I done wrong with my sway? does the atomic or someone else want to take time to look at my sway? then I will work it out. I want tips!


Oh Hun- hugs to you- I know how you feel, I had major disappointment when I found out our first was a DD instead of a DS- I was even in denial despite multiple ultrasounds, I kept thinking maybe they're wrong and on delivery day it'll be voila it's a boy! I will tell you when you see that babe, the disappointment will go away- you will fall in love with the beautiful half you half hubby creation!

Plus ! You have time to plan and perfect the next sway if you decide to sway again :)

Where is your sway posted? Remember with natural swaying even if someone does the most perfect sway there can never be a 100% guarantee it'll be a boy- it just ups the chances to make it more favourable for a boy. There will always be a chance it can be a girl.