Did I ruined my girl sway with doggy style and no J&D?

[Faey]

I'm so scared that I ruined my girl sway. We had our attempt 8 hours after positive OPK. Unfortunately with Doggy Style and without J&D. Somehow I felt that doggy style and lie ruined my sway :tissue:

[ksmom]

BD position doesn't sway and not doing J&D doesn't mean a girl isn't possible (just like J&D doesn't guarantee a girl). A person could do every "pink" tactic under the sun and still get a boy, just like someone could only do one or two pink things (or do nothing different at all) and still get a girl. You always have a chance at pink! Good luck and pink dust!

[Happymommy1987]

I'm so scared that I ruined my girl sway. We had our attempt 8 hours after positive OPK. Unfortunately with Doggy Style and without J&D. Somehow I felt that doggy style and lie ruined my sway :tissue:

I was nervous about this too last month (didnt get pg) but atomic told me when she got her girl, she layed through the night. And if you read through the sways there are many who got girls like this.. Dont worry I think you have a great chance still..


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[Faey]

Thank you, dear ones. Doggy style worked for so many people :-( If you google for "How to make a boy", you will immediately see "Doggy style".

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you, dear ones. Doggy style worked for so many people :-( If you google for "How to make a boy", you will immediately see "Doggy style".

NO IT DIDN"T

Everyone I know both IRL and on the sites who have blue sway opposites (so they wanted boys, but got girls) was doing doggy style. There are NO magic positions that make boys or girls. The reason you read about those things on line are simply because everyone thinks they work so the people who think it worked for them say that it does. But TONS of people doing blue sways and even doing nothing else to sway did this position and it is NOT a magic bullet for boys.

In fact, I have pink swayers sometimes switch to doggy style if their husband is having trouble ejaculating. That's because I do not think it sways at all and it's easier for men to orgasm that position sometimes.

It is totally normal and natural to have second thoughts and doubts when you get a BFP. But I really do not find position to be in any way predictive of whose sways will work and whose do not.

[atomic sagebrush]

Here's a successful blue sway from someone who got TWO girls doggy style and gave it up and did missionary to get a boy! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/add-your-boy-sway-/66038-babyrendu-ttc-boy-sway-attempt.html

[Anna277]

Did Faey get a girl with this attempt? I forgot to jump and dump as well! Now I’m feeling nervous

[atomic sagebrush]

Did Faey get a girl with this attempt? I forgot to jump and dump as well! Now I’m feeling nervous

Yes she did, see in her signature??

[Anna277]

Amazing! There is some hope :)! I see most girl attempts are with J&D.

[atomic sagebrush]

Amazing! There is some hope :)! I see most girl attempts are with J&D.

I got my girl without J and D. :)

[atomic sagebrush]

^^^ the same logic applies to J and D that it does to doggy style - when a lot of people have heard something works, they do it for swaying (alongside lots of other things) and so you can't just single out a thing people say worked, and know that it does. J and D did seem to add a LITTLE something, but it was only just a little better than without J and D and for all we know, it was a total fluke that had nothing to do with anything!!!

[Anna277]

That makes sense. It is just that the stats of one attempt (and not jump and dump) are so much lower. But I guess most people try J&D. I will put my mind to rest with your info and wait and see if I am/will be even pregnant at all.

[atomic sagebrush]

But they weren't always. When the results with one attempt were at their most reliable (due to less people doing it) J nd D only added a couple % (well within the number of people who could be a fluke). Many, many, MANY of the people who have subsequently done one attempt were people who showed up here and didn't wanna do diet at all, only dieted for 2 weeks, didn't wanna exercise or did only mod exercise, basically didn't wanna do any of the hard stuff, and ONLY did one attempt. So OF COURSE at that point in time, the numbers on one attempt dropped. But when they were being comprised of only/mostly the people who were doing diet/exercise, one attempt was 73% and one attempt plus J and D went between 74/75%

[Anna277]

Oh wow! I didn’t read this in the stats. Thank you so much for your in depth answer. I feel much better already.

[atomic sagebrush]

I can't keep all these observations in the stats, there's not enough room for it all in there. But the stuff I recommend, all of it has these kinds of observations behind them. We've been at this for 10 years and I have been able to pick out a lot of trends that go far beyond what the stats seem to indicate.

More about that here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/43555-thoughts-stats.html

[Anna277]

That’s why I am thinking very highly of you Atomic, thanks!