How does this sound for a girl away please...?

[ObsidianBlossom]

Right, hello all I’m new here, can I say thankyou to atomic for all of the information and time which has been put into this incredible site and I’m sure she isn’t the only one! I’m a mum to a beautiful boy and girl, people assume you’ve finished having children when you’ve one of each, but I’m 28 and still feel athough I’m not done with making babies yet! I think one more for us and we would love a little girl again! It would save my a fortune too as still have all the stuff for a baby girl. I successfully swayed pink with my daughter but it was so long ago I’ve only remembered a few of the things at the time. I was very stressed at the time we conceived my daughter as I spent a lot of time looking after a dying relative: I remember altering my diet in that i had porridge with tinned raspberries most morning, I took cranberry supplements and kept of the bananas and potatoes and meat. That’s all I think I did. I did the vinegar douche one before BD and we BD once 4 days before O. I remember by DH having a hot shower before hand too.
So here is what I’m doing so far...
Cranberry supplements, lots of spinach, berry foods, rice crispies, organic milk, caffeine free and Diet Coke, some moderate exercise walking fast. I’m not a big fan of meat so it’s easy for me to be veggie. I love a bit of chocolate now and again though!

So what are people’s thoughts on my sway? Been on this diet for a month nearly.
Thanks.

[ksmom]

Hi and welcome! We do swaying differently here and have seen great results (65-70% success rates) for pink. You seem to be doing more of the "old school" sway tactics which is fine if that's what you want to do as it's your sway. Here pink swayers do LE diet which is 1500-1800 calories, 30-60g fat, 40-50g protein. ALL foods are allowed so don't limit yourself to just those things you listed. The only foods that might be wise to avoid are fortified ones like cereal. Low carb veggies are free so don't count cals/fat/protein. Fruits and high carb veggies count calories, but not fat or protein. You'll want to get most of your fats from vegetable based ones (like canola for example) rather than animal fat (like dairy). If you have PCOS though, this diet will need to be modified. We've found cranberry supplements don't work and really aren't safe as they're a blood thinner. Some other tactics we've found to be great are Clomid/Femara, coffee, alcohol, one attempt at positive OPK, fiber, and cardio.

Some info:
LE Diet info (https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/39989-genderdreaming-method-trying-girl-le-diet-information.html)
LE in a nutshell (https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/16780-low-everything-diet-nutshell-version.html)

[ObsidianBlossom]

Ah thankyou so much for such a quick and informed reply that’s very helpful. I’m only a petite person with a small appetite so keeping my calorie intake low isn’t too hard for me. I will take your advice though on what you’ve said, thankyou again.


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[ksmom]

Just be careful on that you're not eating too little calories especially if you're exercising. I'm petite as well and while swaying I ended up losing too much weight and stopped ovulating. As Atomic usually says, it's often better to start off on the upper limit of calories then cut back if necessary rather than start of too low and risk your body stopping ovulation.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou so much, I’ll remember that. As for doing the deed and timing... what is recommended for a pink away. My husband is 39, so does his age go in my favour for a pink sway? I don’t want him to release too much or too often, and I’m hoping just to dtd just the once a few days before O as I did before when I got my girl... I don’t know whether to douche or not... but it “helped” last time as I got my girl... don’t know if I dare risk not douching this time incase it helps although I’ve heard it doesn’t - but I thought lower ph in vjj swayed pink.. hmm.


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[atomic sagebrush]

Hi and welcome!

We have found many of those things have not worked reliably for us but I can understand wanting to re-enact what seemed to work the last time. The most important thing you can do is that one attempt. For reasons we do not understand, while many of the various sway tactics, when studied more closely, have not worked well, that one attempt really does work. So it's fine to try that stuff again, but just be sure that

I really strongly urge you to ditch those Rice Krispies immediately. The best study ever done on maternal pre-conception diet (and indeed, the only one ever done by a group not trying to prove their diet true) found that breakfast cereals swayed strongly blue, probably because of the nutrients added to them. We also got overwhelmingly boys with multivitamins and other fortified foods as well.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thankyou so much, I’ll remember that. As for doing the deed and timing... what is recommended for a pink away. My husband is 39, so does his age go in my favour for a pink sway? I don’t want him to release too much or too often, and I’m hoping just to dtd just the once a few days before O as I did before when I got my girl... I don’t know whether to douche or not... but it “helped” last time as I got my girl... don’t know if I dare risk not douching this time incase it helps although I’ve heard it doesn’t - but I thought lower ph in vjj swayed pink.. hmm.


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Here is what to remember - it's fine to start off doing whatever you want to do. But if you don't get pregnant, what needs to happen is that you drop things that don't work before adding attempts. For reasons we do not understand, one attempt ended up swaying, and pH, timing, antihistamine, cranberry, and yes, even douching actually did nothing. (I had a statistician actually do regressions on these things and they just didn't work.) So while it's totally cool to do exactly what your heart is telling u to do for your sway, just keep in the back of your mind that if you end up going on for more than a couple months it is probably time to start dialing it back on the things that don't work to focus on the things that do. Too often, we see people doing old-school type sways going on for 6-9 months not conceiving, and then all in one month, panic and toss out everything all at once, even swaying blue just to get preggo, and that obviously ends up producing some opposites. :)

Just a little lite reading: the case against timing is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/7691-trouble-timing.html and the case against pH is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/11684-ph-pickle.html

Hubby being 39 may help a little, but I'd not have him do abstain as it may not be safe. Id just have him do regular release every 2-4 days and then do the cutoff, douche, one attempt like u have planned. I think abstain is (like I said) unsafe and both abstain and FR don't work and would cut odds too far with the other stuff you want to use.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou so much for your reply atomic, I’m fairly fortunate in the fact I’ve conceived both my children on the first month of trying so I’m sort of expecting that again even though my last pregnancy was 4 years ago and I’m nearer 30 now.... so it may not be the case this time! Rice crispies are strictly to be eaten by my kids only from now on in our house lol! I’m too afraid to not do what I did before... I’m on LE diet and I think as I’m such a little person I’m finding that’s pretty much my normal diet anyway. Last time I had one attempt using shettles and the douche to get my girl - it’s so difficult to work out what’s the best thing to do... but I hadn’t heard of the one shot attempt until recently... argh. I’ll be sure to keep everyone updated on here when I do get pregnant - we won’t find out gender until birth but either way I will love him or her - but I’m keen to be part of future research and statistics x


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Also... my typical day looks like this - raspberries and strawberries maybe grapes mixed in with 0% fat Greek yoghurt followed by a whole meal wrap with cucumber and spinach and small amount of cheese (grated) in it. And maybe a splash of chilli sauce or mayonnaise for flavour. One or two coffees a day with sugar and the odd drink of Diet Coke, Ribena or organic milk semi skimmed... so all I have a day is mixed berries and yogurt for lunch and a wrap for tea... that’s all and I don’t have much appetite I’m not a big eater at all... does my sway sound good if I use the one shot attempt and I think I’ll do vinegar douche for my own peace of mind because I’m paranoid if I don’t get a girl I’ll blame it lol.


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[ObsidianBlossom]

I mean I have the fruit and yog for breakfast and the wrap for tea and that’s all x


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[atomic sagebrush]

totally cool to start off doing all that and then just see what happens. Hopefully you'll get pregnant right away and it will be a girl! :) I just have seen too many people keep doing the other stuff and then add attempts to conceive and that doens't seem to be the best bet, so I like to give everyone the heads up on that.

[ObsidianBlossom]

I hope so, thanks for your support... so you reckon the one shot and LE diet and the no cereal are the theories with the most persuasive evidence as far as gender studies go?? X


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[atomic sagebrush]

Have you ever added up the nutrient totals for the day?? It's not so much about the food per se but about the overall nutrients you eat, and so without a rough estimate I can't sound off on anyone's diet really. All good kinds of food for sure, just can't give a yay or nay w/out the totals.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Ah right ok I understand that, no I havent added them to be honest I’m really rubbish at that kind of thing I’ve never done diets or anything like that really before. I’m only a diddy 5ft and weigh around 8stone x


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[ObsidianBlossom]

I’ll make sure I stick to the one attempt just before fertile window that’s what happened with my daughter..... hope it works again...When we had my son there were definitely lots of attempts and the big O.


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Oh and one last thing.... I’m totally confused as to how often DH should release and whether that be inside me or not lol. The e4d method does this mean we BD every 4 days or he releases e4d.... and we DTD once that cycle to try and get a girl... I’ve been reading other threads and I’m really confused... also what NOT to do... I believe BD every 2-3 days is for boy sway is that right? X


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[ObsidianBlossom]

We aren’t in a rush at all to conceive so am willing to try everything x


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[atomic sagebrush]

I hope so, thanks for your support... so you reckon the one shot and LE diet and the no cereal are the theories with the most persuasive evidence as far as gender studies go?? X


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Oh whoops I think we were posting at the same time, didn't see this one

LE Diet longer than 12 weeks plus fiber, coffee, alcohol and avoiding fortified foods and prenatals
Cardio exercise 60 min. 4-7 days a week, more is likely better
One attempt
Clomid or Femara if you can get them
Smoking and jogging/biking for DH
Possibly OLE and soy milk/food for your husband but I"m less sold on these

Those are the things I really truly believe in. Everything else seems to be window dressing, just cuts odds of conception without really helping much of anything.

[atomic sagebrush]

Ah right ok I understand that, no I havent added them to be honest I’m really rubbish at that kind of thing I’ve never done diets or anything like that really before. I’m only a diddy 5ft and weigh around 8stone x


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All you need is a piece of paper and a pencil, just for a couple days jot down the cals, fat, and protein of the foods you eat, and if it's not on a label quickly look it up online. YOu'll get a feel for how many calories you're taking in!

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh and one last thing.... I’m totally confused as to how often DH should release and whether that be inside me or not lol. The e4d method does this mean we BD every 4 days or he releases e4d.... and we DTD once that cycle to try and get a girl... I’ve been reading other threads and I’m really confused... also what NOT to do... I believe BD every 2-3 days is for boy sway is that right? X


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What we've found over time is that the frequency your hubby releases really isn't helping. It's the one attempt. Now, most people want to try everything and thus want to start off using either abstain or daily release for 7-10 days prior to the one attempt. This has a downside though and that downside is that it cuts odds of conception (not to mention that it adds stress to a situation that already has enough stress) The thing that does work is the one attempt.

So due to this downside some of us have begun having DH release every 2-4 days or letting him "do what he does" and then keeping the one attempt, which is better odds of conception with the one attempt. Now, technically regular release very 2-4 days IS considered a blue-friendly pattern but it's very likely that none of the frequency stuff even works, so by doing reg release + one attempt it can be a balance between what works (one attempt) and what doesn't work (frequency) so you get pregnant quicker doing the thing that actually works!

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thanks atomic you have really explained that well I understand now. X


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Although you say it cuts odds of conception and probably doesn’t work - we are going to try FR hopefully every day and then one attempt a few days prior to O - I’m happy to try this for a few months as we aren’t in a rush to conceive. After a few months of this if we get no joy we will try the 2-4 days release then the one attempt as you’ve suggested. It’s so difficult because in my heart I want to try every possible thing to do it right to get a girl, although it cuts odds of conception. I don’t want to over do it and ruin my sway by being so strict and following every “pink rule” I’ve ever come across lol. Thankyou so much atomic for all the info so far x


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[ObsidianBlossom]

The theory of cardio sounds promising. How many weeks of cardio should I do before ttc?


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[atomic sagebrush]

Although you say it cuts odds of conception and probably doesn’t work - we are going to try FR hopefully every day and then one attempt a few days prior to O - I’m happy to try this for a few months as we aren’t in a rush to conceive. After a few months of this if we get no joy we will try the 2-4 days release then the one attempt as you’ve suggested. It’s so difficult because in my heart I want to try every possible thing to do it right to get a girl, although it cuts odds of conception. I don’t want to over do it and ruin my sway by being so strict and following every “pink rule” I’ve ever come across lol. Thankyou so much atomic for all the info so far x


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Totaly your call to make, just want to issue my standard warning to not go on for a very long time doing a super strict sway and then panic and suddenly drop everything all in one month, decide you're infertile and sway blue just to get pregnant. I get a little nervous for you to say you're going to do FR for a few months - I would limit yourself to more like 2 months and then go from there. What people do (and I believe this to be one of the main reasons pink sways fail) is do so many things they can't get pregnant, do those things for many months, and then freak out and give up swaying totally.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Completely understand what you’re saying Atomic, i will stick to two months as you’ve suggested. I definitely won’t be throwing all my sway tactics out of the window though if we don’t get pregnant. I’m willing to be super patient. I’m so thankful for your responses, I can see you are incredibly busy trying to make many women’s dreams come true, you really are incredible. I love reading all of your posts they are so honest and make so much sense I could spend all day reading. Big hugs from the UK :)


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[atomic sagebrush]

The theory of cardio sounds promising. How many weeks of cardio should I do before ttc?


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Oh whoops I missed this - I'd do at least 6 weeks if at all possible. 4-7 days per week (more days likely better) and 60 consecutive minutes per session. This is one of our best sway tactics! Just be careful not to lose too much weight! Eat however many calories you need to keep weight on, trying to stick in the limits of protein and fat.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thanks I’ve been reading that either intense cardio or couch Potato (which are complete opposites) sway pink! But moderate exercise could sway blue. I’m tempted to be a couch potato as I don’t have time for such intense regular cardio. X


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[atomic sagebrush]

Well, unfortunately couch potato has not worked, significantly lower results than exercise. I really urge you to do the exercise. As long as you're losing at least a little weight on a lower protein diet, even if you end up doing moderate exercise (provided it's more than you were doing) it is likely to sway pink. Moderate exercise + weight gain and higher protein diet sways blue for sure. I try to encourage everyone to do the higher level of exercise because it's so effective, but tyou can still get a girl doing less, just that I have less faith in it. Since diet and exercise work in concert, if you are weak on exercise, try to be stricter on diet and above all else be sure you don't gain weight while doing the mod exercise.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou, I’ll try and exercise when I can. I feel the diet is going well. I’m consuming around 1000 calories a day, and my body seems to be getting used to it as I was only a small eater anyway. I tend to have a coffee with one sugar when I’m hungry in between meals is that ok? I’ve been avoiding breakfast x


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[atomic sagebrush]

1000 calories is not allowed on this site. 1200 is the absolute minimum. This is an issue of your health and having a healthy pregnancy. If you were a light eater before, that's ok, just cutting back on fat and protein vs. carbs, and getting more of your fat intake from vegetable-source fats vs. animal source fats still sways even if you were eating the identical number of cals you were before.

Nothing with calories between meals. If it has sugar, it needs to go with a meal. Coffee with milk or cream is ok, we bend the rules on that, but nothing else unless it's artificially or unsweetened and very low cal

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thanks I think I can fit in some sort of cardio daily, I’d have to do a mixture of jogging and fast walking over an hour each day - would that be enough? I’d have to take my kids they can ride their bikes.


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[4blue2pink]

im walking the dog for an hour, what your planning sounds perfect for exercise :) good luck with your sway!!

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou so much 4blue2pink x


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Sorry another question... I’ve been reading across forums that the more of one sex you have the more likely to have that sex again. Eg. If you have two boys you’re much more likely to get another boy than a girl.... what is the reason/theory behind this and where do I stand as in already have a Ds And DD x


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[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks I think I can fit in some sort of cardio daily, I’d have to do a mixture of jogging and fast walking over an hour each day - would that be enough? I’d have to take my kids they can ride their bikes.


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Yes that's fine, even just walking is allowed.

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry another question... I’ve been reading across forums that the more of one sex you have the more likely to have that sex again. Eg. If you have two boys you’re much more likely to get another boy than a girl.... what is the reason/theory behind this and where do I stand as in already have a Ds And DD x


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Nope, that's not how it works. Across the whole population there are slightly more 3rd and 4th boys born than 3rd and 4th girls, for example, but that does not tell anyone what THEIR individual chances are. Here is a stats thread about that here:
https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/762-odds-having-boys-girls-mixed-gender-family-old-statistics-thread-lindi.html If you sway, you need to look at what our results with swaying are, and not across the entire population. Most of us on here are on our 3rd, 4th, 5th or even beyond that boy and we still get 70+% success rates so it simply can't be true that anyone's odds of a boy or girl are going up and up. IF it is more common to get 3/4 boys that is due to lifestyle and diet stuff and that can be changed. There is simply not some factor whereby if you've had 2 boys you're now set in some unchangeable way to have more boys.

And a couple other threads that will help ease your concerns here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/showthread.php?824-You-quot-can-t-quot-carry-a-baby-of-that-gender and here: https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/47852-we-only-dont-make-boys.html

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou so much for sharing such informative articles atomic. I would love to be a clever person studying gender and how/if we can control the genders we can conceive - it would be great to one day get some concrete answers! Imagine how that could affect the worlds population...
so.... the one shot attempt gives a 70% chance of a girl.... but if I do diet aswell does that give me a more than 70% chance? X


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[atomic sagebrush]

We don't know. Since people are invariably doing lots of things to sway, we cannot give straight stats in the way you are thinking of them. We do not know if there is really an upper ceiling of about 70-75% no matter what, or if people could expect better results if they did everything just so, or what. I think it's best for your sanity and peace of mind to go in expecting no better than the overall success rate of the site - real world, real people who fell short sometimes - and that is about 70%. Some things, like Clomid, exercise, diet longer than 12 weeks, have gotten better than that but I don't want anyone to make a decision to sway based on overinflated success rates; I'd by far have you guys have UNDER inflated success rates in your head. Just try to keep in mind that going from 70% likely to have another boy (which is what some of our evidence indicates with blue swayers - that if you have a blue-friendly lifestyle you may be 70% likely to have a boy since that's what we get with blue sways on average) to 70% likely to have a girl, that's a pretty big deal. Even if you go from 50-50 to 70% likely to get a girl, that's still a great sway.

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou I think I would struggle to get hold of clomid from a doctor especially here in the UK as I don’t have fertility issues as far as I’m aware. Thanks atomic! I feel bad as I had a cheat day loading up on chips and cheese last night and a McDonald’s chicken burger in the day, but I guess once a week doesn’t hurt?

I see people have blogged about seasons - some “boy friendly” and some “girl friendly” this can’t really help sway can it? I work in school and know boys and girls born across all different months and seasons!


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Also - is there a link to any articles about men’s age and baby gender? My DH is nearly 39 so maybe this sways pink?


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[atomic sagebrush]

Cheats happen! Just regroup and move on. I take all that into account in making the LE Diet.

Seasons may make a very small difference and I have an essay about that here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/1693-seasons-swaying.html But it's really not a very important element and I don't want anyone stressing about it.

Older parents may have slightly more girls but again, just like with the seasons, it's quite minor and not possible to rely on it for swaying. (I often have people who will decide to do lighter sways based on these things)

[ObsidianBlossom]

Ah thanks so much atomic! I feel I’m working hard and doing lots to sway but we wanted to ttc November onwards - now I’m panicking and want to delay until April - arrrgghhhhhh im so undecided what to do...! X


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[atomic sagebrush]

When in doubt, do what is best for your family overall. None of these things matter hugely so it's always best to put family needs above swaying, since you can have the most perfectly perfect sway ever and still get an opposite. :)

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou atomic your words are so full of wisdom! I think we will ttc November or December. I’ll keep you posted but thanks so much for all your info and advice x


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Argh, another setback.... I’ve been so poorly with flu and cold over the last four days I haven’t eaten anything apart from one slice of toast a few chips and a slice of pizza over these days. I’ve been drinking honey and lemon and coffee and that’s all. My total calorie intake over the last four days has probably been about 400 calories... I can’t taste a thing and have lost my voice. I’m sure I’ll be fine in a few days but I’m worried how this will affect my sway... I had been eating so well before this x


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[atomic sagebrush]

It would only sway pink, although it may delay ovulation a bit.

[ObsidianBlossom]

That’s good we are pink swaying [emoji3]


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Good evening.... although I’ve been quiet for a few days Ive been lurking still and have a few questions...

1. I’m concerned I’m going to ruin my sway as I’m a very small petite person who doesn’t usually consume anywhere near 1500 calories (normally when not swaying) so I’m worried that I’ll be increasing my intake daily to meet this 1500 minimum calorie recommendation but to my body this will be swaying blue if you know what I mean as I’ll be having more than normal??

2. I’m struggling when my sugar levels drop I’m so craving a biscuit or sweet in-between meals but I resort to a rasp and cranberry herbal tea or a coffee with a sugar (should I change to an artificial sweetener?) ... im a bit confused about sugar levels and swaying pink? Should they be low?

3. I’m exercising (walking) or running if I’m struggling to keep up with my toddler on her bike each day - she loves an hour bike ride and it’s doing me good too. I’m hoping this is enough for my sway?

4th and finally.... does spicy food sway either way...? We continue with the J and D and the one attempt ... not sure if I’ll vinegar douche but I did successfully last time... I’ll continue with exercise and the alcohol when I can. Does the alcohol become more affective if we have consumed plenty at the time of sex? Does it have to be in the body’s system to help the sway?

Much love and pink/blue dust to fellow swayers x


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[ObsidianBlossom]

Ooh I had another question.... birth control pill - it’s meant to sway.... but are there any specific types that sway? I’m on lucette (think it’s same as Yasmin) it has ethinylestradiol and dropspirenone.... im aware different pills have different things in?

Oh and also - Himalayan salt lamp for the negative ions (may not sway but it’s pretty anyway) lol.


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[atomic sagebrush]

If you are SURE beyond sure you are normally eating so few calories then please lower the food intake to 1200-1500 but no lower. And be absolutely certian you were really eating so little. People almost always underestimate the amount of calories they are really eating and most times when people start off with 1200-1500 they are shocked to see the weight fly off even though they thought that's what they were taking in all along.

No sugar between meals. Artificial sweetener is fine between meals. If you are having huge blood sugar crashes you may be eating too many refined carbs at your meals, and you might be better off adding in some whole grains and/or protein at your meals to mitigate that. If you follow the LE Diet you don't need to worry about your blood sugar, it will take care of itself. Your blood sugar doens't need to always be low on LE (and in fact it is IMPOSSIBLE for your blood sugar to forever be low) when we talk about "low blood sugar" we aren't talking about a measurable low level of blood sugar, but more about a complicated set of things your body does when your blood sugar drops that seem to sway strongly pink. So don't get too hung up on all that, just do the LE Diet.

Yes that is a fine level of exercise.

While some sites claim spicy food sways blue that does not make any sense to me whatsoever based on the numbers of people worldwide who eat spicy foods in countries and cultures where spicy foods are normal. Gender ratio is 50-50. It makes it way easier to stick to the diet including spices too.

We don't know if alcohol works better if you are drunk when conceiving. Just don't have the data to know for sure. We have an entertainment-purposes-only thread about it here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/6285-heavy-drinker-being-drunk-during-conception-sways-pink.html

It seems all BCP sway pink by slightly suppressing fertility overall.

Fine to use ions if you like just don't count on them to do anything. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/63173-ion-insanity.html

[ObsidianBlossom]

Thankyou so much Atomic!

I’ve another questions, sorry I’m getting obsessive with swaying now I’m into it..

Is four cups of unsweetened coffee too much? Does it stop calcium absorption and does calcium sway?

I find I’m feeling nauseous in the mornings when I don’t have breakfast I just have a coffee with no sugar. My first food is usually midday, any ways to settle this feeling?

Im trying raspberry and cranberry juice and cranberry tablets just incase as it “worked” last time when I swayed pink! X




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[atomic sagebrush]

4 cups is about what I had when I got my girl.

No, coffee does not block calcium absorption. I have a full explanation here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/56791-vices-swaying.html

I personally do not think calcium sways pink anyway and got my girl without it after getting all 4 boys with tons of dairy and my last two taking cal-mag supplements. The best study ever done on maternal preconception diet and gender conceived showed that moms who went on to conceive boys had the highest calcium intake (in fact they ate more nutrients of all kinds than moms who conceived girls). I have more about all that here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-a-girl-best-practices/62533-le-diet-faq-2-mineral-madness-edition.html I understand some people can't give the idea up though and so if you really believe in it, it's up to you, just be sure you are taking cal-mag supplements alone, without added Vit. D, and without having the massive amount of dairy as you will end up getting tons of nutrients that way.

There is no point to having cran/raz juice. It's too dilute to sway and is only adding nutrients you don't really need (and nutrients sway blue!) If you MUST take the supps, at least they are concentrated enough to actually affect your body, although I personally don't find them to be acceptibly safe and in our results they ahven't worked, but I understand some people really do feel the need to take them. Just be sure you don't take them all month, stop them at ovulation in months you are actively trying to conceive since they may cause miscarriage.