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atomic sagebrush
November 19th, 2011, 08:03 PM
Updated 12-21-17

The girl diets (IG Diet in particular) can cause constipation and there have been a few threads asking about it, so I just wanted to make a quick thread for reference.

1)Changes in poo appearance, quantity, texture - YES the diets can cause changes in poo quantity and quality. This is something many have experienced. The IG Diet in particular can be extremely rough on the "tail end". Also, if you are taking a lot of fiber supplements this can also be constipating if you don't stay hydrated at the same time.

2)Bleeding from bottom - The IG Diet was so bad for BMs that several people even experienced bleeding from the anus with a bowel movement. Please don't be embarrassed if this happened to you, you're not alone, it happened to several people. It is alarming, but as long as the bleeding is bright red and is fairly slight in quantity, don't panic. Once you get your BMs back under control, this will heal on its own. If you're having a LOT of bleeding, you may need to see a doctor.

WARNING - If you ever experience tarry BLACK stools or black vomit, go to the emergency room IMMEDIATELY. You may be having bleeding in your stomach or intestines due to a bleeding ulcer which can KILL you. Taking baby aspirin, cranberry, and saw palmetto may increase your risks of developing this condition.

Bright red blood - alarming but prob nothing. Tarry black blood - medical emergency.

3)Hemorrhoids and anal fissures - If you strain too much to push out BMs, you can actually give yourself a hemorrhoid or aggravate already existing ones, and risk actually tearing the anus itself. These situations can become so severe they require surgery (although most do not). So if you find yourself becoming severely constipated, it's best to address the situation rather than tough it out. The more children you have had, the more likely these conditions become.

4)Fiber - The LE Diet, and to a lesser extent, the FGD, do provide fiber in the diet and this will help with constipation. Please don't be afraid of getting too much potassium and cut out fresh fruits and veg all together. You NEED 2500-3500 mg of potassium per day for health, this is much less than blue swayers consume, and by selecting fiber-rich fruits and veg as sources of this potassium, you also will help prevent constipation. (a pasta and milk diet is NOT going to do wonders for your BMs!!)

Also, Atomic suggests taking a fiber supplement as a part of a pink sway anyway, so this is a way to help your sway and prevent one of the most common side effects of swaying at the same time. Common fiber supps include Chitosan and Metamucil. Be sure that whatever supp you pick is not fortified with additional nutrients. The full guide to fiber is here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47776-fantastic-fiber-le-diet.html

5)Hydration - Be sure to drink enough liquid while swaying pink, esp. if you are taking a fiber supplement. One easy way to do this is to put a 12 ounce glass in your bathroom and every time you go potty, drink a glass of water. This way you neither overdrink (you can die from drinking too much water, believe it or not) and you also guarantee that you're getting a regular fluid intake all day long.

6)Laxatives and swaying - Magnesium in and of itself acts as a laxative (in fact, this is one way to tell if you've gotten too much magnesium, because you will have raging diarrhea). So by taking mag supps, you may help prevent constipation. However, you MUST be careful not to take any other laxatives containing magnesium because you risk an overdose (which can KILL you.)

Tamara suggests Miralax as a laxative that is safe for a pink sway. :agree: This is a safe laxative that acts gently and is fine for a sway.

Others have asked about Senokot and other senna-containing laxatives. Senna is rich in calcium and magnesium, but may be alkalinizing (update - we seriously doubt any of these things matter to a sway but if you care about them, that's the old school advice). I believe they're ok for a sway, if you like them. I have found they cause my stomach to hurt. Miralax and fiber supplements are probably gentler.

7)Suppositories - Glycerin suppositories are safe to use both during swaying and during pg and can help if things REALLY get out of hand. However, it's prob. best to nip the problem "in the bud" so to speak by making sure you get enough fiber and adequate fluid intake.

If you use a suppository and nothing happens for 1-2 hours, you need to see a doctor to rule out a bowel impaction.

8) Rectocele - an embarrassing problem that many women have after childbirth your doctor may not tell you about. A rectocele is a weak spot in the muscle that separates your vagina from your rectum. When you get constipated, you may find that a bulge forms in your vagina, caused by the hard poo, and even though you can feel the poo just sitting there just on the verge of emerging, it can't. The weakness in the muscle basically acts as a balloon and the skin stretches into the vagina, allowing quite a lot of poo to collect in the rectum that can't quite make it out due to the lack of muscle power. If you feel like you HAVE to poo and you push but nothing comes out, you may have a rectocele.

The way that you can deal with this is inserting a clean thumb or other finger into your vagina as you are attempting to pass your BM. You will be able to feel the bulging skin. You can use your thumb/finger as a support for the weakened muscle, and gently push against the bulging skin as you try to poo. The stool will then be able to vacate the premises as nature intended.

atomic sagebrush
July 4th, 2012, 10:08 AM
Bumping this up because I never put it in the index

NCBeachyGrl
July 20th, 2012, 04:47 PM
AS - which fruits and vegetables are the best? I would rather not take any other supplements besides Chitosan if possible!

suregena
July 20th, 2012, 06:28 PM
Apples are good for fiber! I remember eating a handful of dried apple slices and whammo... well, you get the picture.

NCBeachyGrl
July 20th, 2012, 08:05 PM
Apples are good for fiber! I remember eating a handful of dried apple slices and whammo... well, you get the picture.

LOL! Thanks Suregena!!!

atomic sagebrush
July 21st, 2012, 08:15 PM
AS - which fruits and vegetables are the best? I would rather not take any other supplements besides Chitosan if possible!

Anything with a lot of water AND fiber that you have to chew a lot, is great. Oranges, apples, cucumbers with skin, etc. Seedy things like raspberries can help. Starchy fruit and veg are not as good because they can absorb some water and make things a bit thicker (altho they have fiber too and can help over time, they're not super quick acting.) - potatoes, bananas, yams.

NCBeachyGrl
July 29th, 2012, 11:33 AM
Finally found something that worked! Fiber One chocolate brownies (and they are really yummy too). 3g of fat, 100mg sodium, 1g protein. Whammo! LOL!

atomic sagebrush
July 29th, 2012, 11:43 AM
Thanks for letting us know!!

Chessika
July 29th, 2012, 12:40 PM
What about milk sugar (It is a powder to mix in your food)? It has only carbs, no fat or protein. It is used mainly for babies. Thanks AS.

atomic sagebrush
July 29th, 2012, 12:47 PM
Hmm, I've never heard of it but if it's just carbs that should be fine! I know corn syrup can also help keep things moving.

Prepsina2014
May 10th, 2014, 03:02 AM
Bumping this as I am having constipational issues at the moment and found this helpful thread.
I also have a Q:
I would not usually buy products like the Fiber One chocolate brownies suggested because of the ingredients. Are they OK Atomic? For ease and to err on the safe side sway wise I avoid anything with too many ingredients that I don't know...

princessCharlotte
May 14th, 2014, 10:29 AM
Glad to find this thread.
im having contispation since LE diets for 5weeks.

atomic sagebrush
May 17th, 2014, 03:06 PM
anything is fine now and then

Kazzz
February 18th, 2020, 03:22 PM
Hmm, I've never heard of it but if it's just carbs that should be fine! I know corn syrup can also help keep things moving.


Atomic can I use magnesium on a girl sway? Or does it sway blue? I've been taking it for a few weeks now. If I should drop it what should I take instead? We don't have miralax straight by its self we have a generic brand that has some some sodium and potassium in it aswel

atomic sagebrush
February 19th, 2020, 03:30 PM
You can, I personally believe (and the best study ever done on maternal preconception diet and gender conceived seems to suggest) that nutrients across the boards sway blue, but magnesium alone has not seemed to be a strong swayer compared to things like Vit. D and B12.

The "sodium and potassium" in other laxatives are chemically bonded to other things and don't react in the body like sodium and potassium in diet. And that's IF sodium and potassium even sway blue, which they likely do not, full explanation here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-a-girl-best-practices/62533-le-diet-faq-2-mineral-madness-edition.html

Kazzz
May 19th, 2020, 04:04 PM
Bumping this up because I never put it in the index

Hey atomic me again lol cd1 is today unfortunately I'll add my chart below I think the bd 3 days before ovulation all sperm had died and the bd on ovulation day was to late I believe I ovulated cd14 or cd14 night so bd cd15 night would of been 24hrs+ after egg release. Im thinking the morning I get my solid smiley bd that night an then that should be before ovulation but super close an great timing. I haven't tried this before also my diet has gone to the dogs over the last 2 weeks I even gained a little but I'm going le from af till O and will be taking clomid and 1 attempt so I think that should help balance my poor diet. With this all said I still skipped breakfast and skipped snacking so I didn't go back to breakfast an snacks I just ate bad food an to much. I hope I haven't broken my sway that why I'm going back to the 1 attempt. Also I have 1 equal tab an rice milk in my morning coffee now is that OK?

Kazzz
May 19th, 2020, 04:29 PM
You can, I personally believe (and the best study ever done on maternal preconception diet and gender conceived seems to suggest) that nutrients across the boards sway blue, but magnesium alone has not seemed to be a strong swayer compared to things like Vit. D and B12.

The "sodium and potassium" in other laxatives are chemically bonded to other things and don't react in the body like sodium and potassium in diet. And that's IF sodium and potassium even sway blue, which they likely do not, full explanation here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-a-girl-best-practices/62533-le-diet-faq-2-mineral-madness-edition.html




Heres my chart I only brown spotting my period never starts like this for a whole day I'm worried about my lining my temps have dropped so definitely not pregnant and I did take a test on 21 dpo with a frer it was neg

atomic sagebrush
May 20th, 2020, 03:18 PM
Just regroup on diet from here on in. Don't worry about what has happened, focus on what you can do NOW. :)

Equal is fine and rice milk is fine for most people (the exception is people with severe PCOS)

Don't worry about a little brown spotting before your period that's totally normal. Why are you worried about your lining??

Kazzz
May 20th, 2020, 10:36 PM
Just regroup on diet from here on in. Don't worry about what has happened, focus on what you can do NOW. :)

Equal is fine and rice milk is fine for most people (the exception is people with severe PCOS)

Don't worry about a little brown spotting before your period that's totally normal. Why are you worried about your lining??



Thanks for that ok I'm not worried now because my period started now but I had 24hrs of spotting first which never happens I was worried my af wasn't going to come due to a lining thing.

Kazzz
May 21st, 2020, 02:50 AM
Just regroup on diet from here on in. Don't worry about what has happened, focus on what you can do NOW. :)

Equal is fine and rice milk is fine for most people (the exception is people with severe PCOS)

Don't worry about a little brown spotting before your period that's totally normal. Why are you worried about your lining??




So my af started at 6pm full flow and I marked it down as cd1 is that OK or should I mark the next day as cd1? Also I only have 4 clomid pills left because my friend only gave me 14 will 4 be enough? And should they be still be started at cd3? Thanks heaps

atomic sagebrush
May 21st, 2020, 10:09 AM
The day of first red flow is CD 1 even if it's later in the day.

Yes, 4 will still have an effect. you could also split one of the pills in half and take the lower dose two of the days (I would probably take it the first two days)

Kazzz
June 17th, 2020, 06:34 PM
Bumping this up because I never put it in the index

BFP on last cycle of clomid!! So bded every third night which was cd11 cd14 and cd17 I thnk I ovulated early cd16 first solid smiley was cd14 am then standard opk stick went positive later on cd14 pm. We bd right at pos opk stick. I got a vfl on 8dpo my tests have been so dark it's amazing and my boobs are sooo sore since 10dpo 🤞🙏

atomic sagebrush
June 17th, 2020, 06:36 PM
Woohoo!!!! So glad to hear it!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Kazzz
June 17th, 2020, 06:44 PM
Thank you I'll update you in 9wks with nub shot I'll get it at 13wks also I had no sore boobs with my sons till after they were born this pregnancy already feels so different it's more intense an so early mite even be twins 😂

atomic sagebrush
June 17th, 2020, 06:47 PM
Many people find more symptoms the more kiddos they have - while we are all hoping pink for you don't read too much into that!!

Kazzz
June 17th, 2020, 06:50 PM
What about hcg an test giving bfp sooner I read online hcg is higher with girl pregnancies an that's why woman with girls get more morning sickness because more hormones that was studied, I so hope this is a girl last shot🙏

Kazzz
July 9th, 2020, 03:29 PM
Many people find more symptoms the more kiddos they have - while we are all hoping pink for you don't read too much into that!!



So I'm on a Facebook sway page that's full of know it alls and they say this about clomid. Bare in mind they got all their sway info from websites like yours and ig so frustrating they kicked me off because I argued that clomid sways girl!

atomic sagebrush
July 10th, 2020, 11:46 AM
What about hcg an test giving bfp sooner I read online hcg is higher with girl pregnancies an that's why woman with girls get more morning sickness because more hormones that was studied, I so hope this is a girl last shot��

Oh gosh I'm sorry I missed this!!! This is actually true but not really true if that makes sense. While girl pregnancies ON AVERAGE have higher HCG, it's like height - there are plenty of short men and tall women and lots of people in between where you can't even guess their gender based on their height (in fact the majority fall in that mid range). So you can't tell a baby's gender from blood HCG levels and for sure not the darkness of pregnancy tests.

atomic sagebrush
July 10th, 2020, 11:50 AM
So I'm on a Facebook sway page that's full of know it alls and they say this about clomid. Bare in mind they got all their sway info from websites like yours and ig so frustrating they kicked me off because I argued that clomid sways girl!

Yeah, I've had to accept that there are always going to be lots of people out there spreading misinformation about swaying and I can't correct all of them, unfortunately. The irony is these same Facebook groups tell people to take herbs that are actually dangerous.

But there are scientific studies, several of them, that show pretty clearly that Clomid does alter the gender ratio about 3-5%. Not a magic bullet, but a definitely proven thing. It's also a very safe drug, been around since the 60's, and under the care of a doctor is absolutely a great addition to your sway.

Clomid doesn't boost fertility in the way that sways pink. It can make you release more and possibly healthier eggs, and give you a longer LP in some cases, but it dries up CM and affects your lining negatively (again, proven fact) and these things affect fertility negatively. The drier CM may also help sway pink.

Kazzz
July 10th, 2020, 04:09 PM
Yeah, I've had to accept that there are always going to be lots of people out there spreading misinformation about swaying and I can't correct all of them, unfortunately. The irony is these same Facebook groups tell people to take herbs that are actually dangerous.

But there are scientific studies, several of them, that show pretty clearly that Clomid does alter the gender ratio about 3-5%. Not a magic bullet, but a definitely proven thing. It's also a very safe drug, been around since the 60's, and under the care of a doctor is absolutely a great addition to your sway.

Clomid doesn't boost fertility in the way that sways pink. It can make you release more and possibly healthier eggs, and give you a longer LP in some cases, but it dries up CM and affects your lining negatively (again, proven fact) and these things affect fertility negatively. The drier CM may also help sway pink.



Thanks I got kicked out of the group because I argued that it swayed pink but they did me a favour lol I'm happy to be out of their the info the give woman is just hear say they just copy info from others instead of research. They also tell woman to take licorice root and many woman complaining about how its changing their cycles also they say to take cranberry which is super good for us.

atomic sagebrush
July 11th, 2020, 01:41 PM
Yep. The licorice root is really risky business and the cranberry, while better, likely is causing some miscarriages too. I'm glad you're here with us instead! :)

Kazzz
July 11th, 2020, 04:56 PM
Yep. The licorice root is really risky business and the cranberry, while better, likely is causing some miscarriages too. I'm glad you're here with us instead! :)

Thank you I'm happy to be here. Everything you say makes sence an is backed up by studies an science.

Kazzz
August 9th, 2020, 06:55 PM
Yep. The licorice root is really risky business and the cranberry, while better, likely is causing some miscarriages too. I'm glad you're here with us instead! :)


Hi Atomic I get my scan next week an I'll be 12.5wks hoping to see the nub!! I'll post a pic here when I get home 🤞

atomic sagebrush
August 10th, 2020, 10:37 AM
Fantastic!!! Can't wait to see!