Any Opinions On My Girl Sway Much Appreciated.

[pinkin2011]

Well D/h And I will be trying Properly around Jan the 9th 2012. Our D/S is 3 and I think a 4 year gap is more then enough so I Really Really just want to get preg . We are going to sway for a girl but at the end of the day you get what you are given.! Please have a look over my sway and see what you think.

I want my cm to be between 4 to 5 over ovulation and usually it is about 4.5.
I also want d/h to be 7.5 with help!!!!!

SUPPLEMENTS.
Saw Palmetto 1xTablet Daily in (pm) AF to O
Vitex 1xTablet Daily in (AM) AF to O
Magnesium 1xTablet
Calcium through diet
Equal Tablet ( as many as I can a day roughly 20).

D/H SUPPLEMENTS.
Cranberry Tablets
Peppermint Tea x 3 a day
Lots of equal aswell he just swallows a heap at once ..What a good boy ha ha.


DIET.
No Breakfast and NO RED MEAT!!! for either of us I will let d/h off for one day over christmas.
Pasta, Rice Bit of Fish and chicken for d/h lots of milk and berries, eggs. Pretty much want my body to be running on empty. D/h i am not so strict but I will be on the red meat and coffee.
My plan is to really shock my system a couple of days before o and right thru o so i will cut my food intake right down to hardly anything.. If I do that too far away from o then my body really gets shocked and my cycle gets messed up. I have lost 3 kgs already so hope to loose more by jan.

TIMING.
I will be getting d/h to F/R for 10 to 12 Days before attempt then will get him to release once the day of attempt and then dtd roughly 8 hrs after. I am aiming to dtd once on first pos opk and thats it. So I would like d/h to of released 8 hrs before attempt. I wont be using any lube and I dont think I will j and d as I am hoping his sperm count should be low enough?? I will get d/h to have a hot shower or bath before attempt. I am going to use Rephresh tho every 3 days from Af so how long before attempt day should i not use it?

After we have dtd I will not be testing my ph I am not going to stress about it at all what will be will be i would rather get preg then try and reduce ph and possibly kill sperm.

ION'S.
Hot showers, Fan on everynight, Salt lamp on all the time around o time , beeswax candles burning..No mobile ph on me or near me. Rose Quartz bracelet on Ion bracetet also my magnetic one too. Pink baby girl outfit under bed.. Walks outside in AM and PM everyday. I also had a baby girl spell done ( just for fun)

Well thats about it, what do you think.. As I said any advice welcome. Thanks for looking!!

[rainbowflower]

looks very good!
I'd aim to use the RepHresh the day before the attempt. good luck!

[zanacal]

Looks fab :D Go easy on the eggs though - not good for lowering testosterone.

[chocolate]

sounds fab, good luck xx

[pinkin2011]

Thanks for the responses, I will have to try and work out what days to use the rephresh... as for eggs thanks for telling me that I will make sure only to have 2 a week. Would you know is the sushi paper ok to eat ??

[Out of the Blue]

Looks fab :D Go easy on the eggs though - not good for lowering testosterone.

I agree...if you just eat egg whites, you're in the clear as long as it fits into your daily protein intake. Are you in the US? If so, you can buy eggbeaters instead of eggs. They'll probably taste better than egg whites. Other than that, WAY TO GO!!! All you need now is for 2012 to get here so you can get that BFP! :cheer:

[Out of the Blue]

Thanks for the responses, I will have to try and work out what days to use the rephresh... as for eggs thanks for telling me that I will make sure only to have 2 a week. Would you know is the sushi paper ok to eat ??

The seaweed stuff? It would probably sway boy (just a guess), but I've been eating it...:oops: I'm sure once in a while would be okay!

[pinkin2011]

Yeah I was thinking once in a while too just for a change.. and yes the seaweed sheets. No I am in Australia bit of a bummer.. I have not eaten any form of meat for over a month now not even chicken. I have had some tuna which was in the sushi other then that i eat really plain geeze how will i go xmas day sitting at the table while everyone is eating I will have to go for a longggggg walk!!!!

[HopeandDreamG]

Sounds great, but I would think so bc it sounds VERY similar to my sway!!

[lemon2012]

HELLO
Why are you only dtd once?
Do you think that lessens the chance of getting pregnant?
I ask because I did frequent bd and fr...maybe overkill!!!

[pinkin2011]

Hope, Thanks what is your plan for dtd are you having a cut off?.
Lemon, When I concieved our d/s we did fr bd so it was pretty much everyday from af to af which never came! obviously. So i have a very strong feeling d/h has high sperm count id rather him release himself every day for 12 days and then twice a day on day of attempt with doing the deed with second to weaken the sperm count and by doing it so close to o i am hoping to have a chance.

[lemon2012]

Hey pink!

lol, i have no plan!
Really I wanted a one time attempt with cut off...a year later, I am getting too old for this! And frustrated and now obsessed with the perfect sway that means nothing!
I thought I od on monday but now I think I reacted to a fake lh surge early in my cycle. I think I will o tomorrow.

We dtd on cd 8, 11, 12 did not count as too shallow, 13...I am cd 14 and due to o tomorrow.
DH had a good sperm count when we checked...... years ago...so who knows!
He has been releasing for me and still dtd everyday....what do you think...stop at a 2.5 day cut off or keep going??
I guess I was wondering why a few people were thinking of a one time deal...not as likely to get pregnant I thought.
That is a lot of bding last time you conceived ds....wow!
Have you used douching or any lubricants????

[pinkin2011]

Never ever used a douche as I wouldnt know where to start and only ever have used sylk as a lube and that was in march this year and i had a chemical preg not saying the sylk had anything to do with it but girls can be concieved without it I will be just using Rephresh. I am not going to stress about anything with my sway. This sway I have now is over a years worth of changing and planing and its the most basic sway I have planed for myself yet. I will stick to it because i dont find it stressful. The one time dtd is because my cycle can be wacky and i want to try and weaken d/h sperm as much as i can before i get my first pos opk then dtd once on that then no more. I know timing is least imp but I cant say for sure when d/s was concieved so will try this first and see how we go thats all I can do! And also d/s was a very fr dtd so will just try this way for next baby.

Hmmm as for your question Are your cycles spot on every month? If it was me and i knew I was def going to o in 2.5 days then I would just leave it at that , If your diet is good and ions and everything else then 2.5 day is great ( i think )

[pinkin2011]

rainbowflower, how you said I should aim to use the rephresh a day before attempt should i use the full app?

[amari]

Looks good! I will be doing pretty similar soon, trying to work out the last details. Good luck!!

[HopeandDreamG]

Hope, Thanks what is your plan for dtd are you having a cut off?.
Lemon, When I concieved our d/s we did fr bd so it was pretty much everyday from af to af which never came! obviously. So i have a very strong feeling d/h has high sperm count id rather him release himself every day for 12 days and then twice a day on day of attempt with doing the deed with second to weaken the sperm count and by doing it so close to o i am hoping to have a chance.

Yes. I am having a cutoff. Got my smiley today. Doing one time attempt later! O should be in 2 days thats what has happened every cycle I've tracked. Positive smiley 0, 2 days later.

[pinkin2011]

that is a good cut off. I am doing the same thing, have you had your d/h abstain or release?

[HopeandDreamG]

I've had dh release every day. Yesterday when I got smiley I had him release in am, I did rephresh and we dtd later that night. I felt my ph was a little high, so I figured the extra release and shot of rephresh would counteract the 12 hrs later dtd. If that makes sense.

[pinkin2011]

I am thinking of having my d/h release twice then dtd and then the next day have d/h release twice again and dtd again and have my cut off with my near positive opk. I will alos get him to release once a day for 10 days before our first attempt. i am thinking getting in two attempts with low sperm count may help.. will see. your attempt sounds great I would stop there for this month if it was me and see how you go. Hope you get you bfp!!!!!

[HopeandDreamG]

I am thinking of having my d/h release twice then dtd and then the next day have d/h release twice again and dtd again and have my cut off with my near positive opk. I will alos get him to release once a day for 10 days before our first attempt. i am thinking getting in two attempts with low sperm count may help.. will see. your attempt sounds great I would stop there for this month if it was me and see how you go. Hope you get you bfp!!!!!

I think that sounds great. Let me know how it goes!