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Leannes392
October 5th, 2018, 05:53 AM
Hello new to this site so not quite sure what im doing..
I currently have 5 girls and desperate for a little boy!!
I have brought opks and the clear blue smiley ones..
I have added tons of meat, potatoes, veg and salt also snacking on peanuts, pork scratchings into my diet
Taking folic acid, fish oil, and concive plus tablets before conception.. im adding bannans and hopefully going to bd every 2-4 days protected and then dtd unprotected 12 hours after first +opk then again the next morning and night my dh is also taking multi vitamins does this sound like in doing enough for my sway?? I cant stand eating breakfast so cant add this. Thanks.
atomic sagebrush
October 6th, 2018, 12:33 PM
HI and welcome!
I would be careful going too overboard with the peanuts and pork scratchings (we call these pork rinds in America, for those who are curious). While they're ok in moderation (I certainly had plenty of peanut butter when I conceived my boys) they do have a lot of Omega 6 type fats in them, and studies have shown that whenever you eat more Omega 6 than Omega 3 (the type of fat that is more prevalent in red meats and fish, dairy, walnuts, coconut oil, olive oil) it may sway pink. So since both peanuts and pork scratchings can be very high in Omega 6, you may be putting yourself at a disadvantage to have those too often because you'd really have to eat a LOT of Omega 3 fats to then make up for the Omega 6's. Now, its fine to have some Omega 6, and peanuts are fine (I see no benefit whatsoever to pork scratchings for blue) but you probably should take caution to keep them within lower levels and not have them to excess.
We haven't found salt to be an effective blue sway tactic. it's fine if you want to use it but please don't exceed a reasonable sodium intake of 5000 mg a day.
Are you taking prenatals or multivitamins?
Everything else is looking good to me. Welcome to the site!
Leannes392
October 7th, 2018, 12:26 PM
Hi thanks for replying to me very much appreicated just so desperate to finally have our boy!!
Yes me and my partner are both taking them il try and upload images of what were taking, i am taking 2 folic acid tablets... iv also heard pure apple, orange and pineapple juice is good for a blue sway is this true?? Should i do bsf??
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Leannes392
October 7th, 2018, 06:44 PM
Also will bananas help with the sway? If i eat two a day? Xx
atomic sagebrush
October 7th, 2018, 07:31 PM
Bananas are not a magic boy making food. The only reason anyone ever says "eat bananas" is because bananas have potassium. But LOTS of fruits and vegetables have more potassium than bananas do, by far, plus many other nutrients bananas do not have. Bananas are basically just sugar, starch, potassium, and that's about it. it's a bunch of calories you're "spending" to get potassium and nothing else while ignoring all the other yummy fruits and veg out there that will give you even more potassium plus other good nutrients and all for lower calories than bananas have.
atomic sagebrush
October 7th, 2018, 07:34 PM
I am not a fan of Pregnacare for men or women. Pregnacare has massive amounts of B Vitamins which may really mess up your cycle and we are unsure how they affect hubbies. For you it has L-rginine which we've seen lots of opposites and really disrupted cycles for people taking that. Additionally the Pregnacare has inositol for you and ginseng/creatine for DH and inositol sways pink, the ginseng and creatine are unknowns and may harm his overall sperm health.
The folic is fine, take the fish oil every other day instead of daily.
Leannes392
October 8th, 2018, 02:38 AM
Ahhh, have i messed up the sway by taking these should we both stop taking these? And i just take the folic acid and fish oil? Is there any thing i can get dh to take to sway blue for us? 5 days away from suspected O day xx
Leannes392
October 8th, 2018, 02:39 AM
Should i do egg whites or baking soda finger ?? When i get positive opk? xx
Leannes392
October 8th, 2018, 09:48 AM
Im so sorry for all these questions!!
Iv just been out and brought these vitamins are these better!? Thanks xx
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atomic sagebrush
October 8th, 2018, 10:42 AM
Ahhh, have i messed up the sway by taking these should we both stop taking these? And i just take the folic acid and fish oil? Is there any thing i can get dh to take to sway blue for us? 5 days away from suspected O day xx
Yes I'd have you wean off those ones and onto the Centrum. Don't do it suddenly, just take a few weeks to gradually reduce the one while increasing the other at the same time (if that makes sense LOL) There's nothing to be gained 5 days before O by dropping one and starting the other, just do this gradually over the course of time.
I generally recommend giving DH either the over 50 men's Centrum or over 50 men's One a Day. Both are good.
atomic sagebrush
October 8th, 2018, 10:43 AM
Oh whoops I missed a question here: I would skip apple juice as it's mostly pure sugar, but yes orange and pineapple juice are great for blue.
atomic sagebrush
October 8th, 2018, 10:52 AM
Should i do egg whites or baking soda finger ?? When i get positive opk? xx
I don't like either of those things. Baking soda finger doesn't work because pH doesn't work and you can read why that is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/11684-ph-pickle.html Plus, it really cuts odds of conception because sperm is not meant to swim through baking soda to get to the egg!
Egg whites are not only going to cut odds of conception for the same reason baking soda does (it may be ~slighly~ better for sperm than BSF, but just because egg whites are slimy like EWCM, they are NOT even remotely chemically identical) but worse, egg whites are dangerous. They can cause an overgrowth of bacteria and other microbes in your vagina that can grow up into your uterus (in fact, they're so good at growing microbes that they are used to grow vaccines in!) and possibly cause miscarriage. Plus, eggs are proven to have salmonella in them (which is why no one should ever eat raw eggs anymore, so many of them now have salmonella) and salmonella is 100% proven to cause miscarriage in animals and we also know it can grow in the human uterus. Obviously people have used it and gotten away with it, but it's too big a risk for something that doesn't even work and cuts odds of conception as well!
atomic sagebrush
October 8th, 2018, 10:53 AM
Oh LOL you got the men's Centrum over 50! Sorry I just thought that was the women's Centrum! :agree:
Leannes392
October 8th, 2018, 05:00 PM
Sorry its my fault with all the questions! Thanks for taking your time to reply to me! Would my sway still work this month or would you leave it?
My diets been ok lots of meat veg more or less everyday, just thinking i may add a bowl cereal around 7pm will this help? Iv also gone 8st6 to 9st exactly!
Is this enough when coming to dtd unprotected 12 hours after first +opk then again the next morning and night then stop until af comes or not? we have been releasing protected every 2 days
Going to be using cheap opk from amazon until get +opk then go onto clear blue smiley ones with the two most fertile days, would the first smiley i get do i dtd 12 hours after this or the same night? Im using fmu xx
atomic sagebrush
October 9th, 2018, 01:52 PM
Since you're gaining weight I would consider trying this month. It's your call to make, of course, but the people who gain a lot of weight very rapidly have seemed to end up with more opposites so my inclination is to try this month.
:agree: I ALWAYS ate cereal at night with my boys, except my 4th which was my swaying oposite. I got my girl without having that bedtime cereal snack.
I can't ever say what's "enough" but that's what many have done. I would consider having at least one more attempt the following day after that in case of delayed O.
You don't have to wait till 12 hours after the first positive. I'd have attempt just whenever that night. No benefit to waiting exactly 12 hours later, thats debunked.
Leannes392
October 9th, 2018, 02:17 PM
Ah ok thank you!!! Iv also been trying to have cereal bars for breakfast! Would this sway blue?? So dtd the night of positive o, the morning and night after? And next day?xx
And is it true dh drink red bull or coffee an hour before dtd xx
atomic sagebrush
October 10th, 2018, 02:44 PM
Yes cereal bars are great!
Re DTD - yes that's exactly right and if you can get in that next day attempt after the first three, even better.
I personlly do not believe Red Bull or coffee does anything at all for a blue sway and i"ve found when men drink it, esp. for that nighttime attempt, they end up unable to sleep for a really long time afterwards which makes them tired and then unable to complete the later attempts. So it's not something I personally recommend
Leannes392
October 10th, 2018, 03:52 PM
Great ! Thankyou going to give it ago asoon as we get +opk how long should i give it imbetween propper atempts and protected dtd?? For sperm to be ok? Blue sway we have dtd protected and now have 3 days for o so aiming not to do it again until then does this sound ok?
Also for the attempts is there a certain position such as doggie as its deep penetration better for boy?
Should i put legs hips up ect for half hour? Or just stay laying flat? xx
Ahh got up this morning -opk but light pink bleeding ? Cervix is high read up online and apparently it can be when eggs released! Iv never ever had this before! Have i missed my chance, going to do another opk at around 7pm incase its turned positive if it has would me dtd last night effect the sway.. thanks and sorry for overload questions xx
atomic sagebrush
October 11th, 2018, 04:14 PM
You don't have to give it ANY time. I know they say that on other sites but that's bad information. What you want to avoid for blue is long periods of abstain before your attempts, and then many days (7-10) of back to back BD OUT of the fertile window. Once you are in the fertile window you should have as many attempts as you possibly can because all the sperm in the fertile window can stay alive to meet the egg. But 2 BD on two consecutive days (so like u have protected BD on Oct. 20 and then oh-oh you get positive OPK on Oct. 21...well, that's not an oh-oh at all because 2 bd in a row can't affect sperm negatively anyway. It takes 7-10 days in a row to do that. So you'd just proceed with the normal plan and all would be well. People just make things overly complicated by trying to have a certain number of days of abstain before their attempts. It's impossible to do for 80% of people and it just adds stress that you guys do not need!
Lay flat or prop hips, your discretion.
Have you been checking your cervix?? Sometimes that can trigger bleeding around ovulation. I doubt this is coming from ovulation, 9 times out of ten this type of bleeding comes from the cervix (which is soft and open and is easily injured at this point in the cycle.).
Leannes392
October 11th, 2018, 04:59 PM
Ok thanks hun!! Im so glad i found this site!! Iv only checked today after the bleed to see what its doing but i suppose it could be from dtd last night..
Is there any best positions for boy sway??xx
Leannes392
October 12th, 2018, 02:02 PM
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Top one is this mornings 10am
Bottom one is 7pm
Is the bottom one positive when should i dtd what positions best! Aahh so nervous now please send tons of blue dust xx
Leannes392
October 12th, 2018, 02:16 PM
Just done this to confirm!! 40554
So bd tonight, tomorow morning and night and again sunday morning sound ok!?xx
atomic sagebrush
October 13th, 2018, 05:30 PM
Ok thanks hun!! Im so glad i found this site!! Iv only checked today after the bleed to see what its doing but i suppose it could be from dtd last night..
Is there any best positions for boy sway??xx
Many people believe boys are gotten from doggy style - but I've seen plenty of opposites with doggy style too! I think it's fine to do doggy if you want to, and if you don't that's likely fine too. Positions probably don't do much!
atomic sagebrush
October 13th, 2018, 05:31 PM
Just done this to confirm!! 40554
So bd tonight, tomorow morning and night and again sunday morning sound ok!?xx
Yes! I'm sorry I didn't catch this yesterday! :bluecheer: :bluecheer: :bluecheer:
Leannes392
October 13th, 2018, 06:23 PM
No worries hun! So weve dtd the night of positive, this morning and tonight, should i do one more attempt tommorrow and then should we stop until af? So we dont sway pink? Should we protect after this 4th attempt xx
atomic sagebrush
October 14th, 2018, 05:29 PM
Yes do one attempt today and then go to every other day. You won't sway pink by doing this! And that way if your O is delayed, and you end up Oing in 3 or 4 days, you won't end up with the dreaded one attempt either (since the earlier sperm will be dead and gone, that would leave only today's BD to get the job done!
Leannes392
October 15th, 2018, 05:03 AM
Thanks i took ovulation test last night around 7pm and its negative does this mean iv ovulated already??xx
Bromedha
October 15th, 2018, 12:10 PM
I also have the same doubt.
Positive to negative shift means... It's still about to be ovulated or already o ovulated..does the attempt put after it changed to negative count in the number of attempts ?
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atomic sagebrush
October 15th, 2018, 04:40 PM
Thanks i took ovulation test last night around 7pm and its negative does this mean iv ovulated already??xx
No. You can't tell if you've ovulated yet or not based on when your OPK go negative. You can still have a positive test and already have ovulated, or have the test go negative and still be yet to O.
All the tests measure is the hormone in your urine that TRIGGERS ovulation. It is like your body sending itself a message "Hey, when you get a chance, can you ovulate?" Then your body will ovulate in its own time and it may be after your body clears the original hormone or it may be before it does. Ovulation happens on its own timeline and the OPK do not tell us what that timeline is, they only tell us when the message was sent.
Imagine your boss puts a post it on your door - "Call Cleveland." Now maybe you call Cleveland right away but leave the note up for a couple days. Or maybe you take the note down but don't call Cleveland until Friday or whatever. The note being on your door or not being on your door doesn't tell your boss if the call has been made, it's just a request for you to call Cleveland at some point in time. That's how OPK are too - it's just a message requesting that your body release an egg at some point fairly soon, not a guarantee that it has done that yet!)
atomic sagebrush
October 15th, 2018, 04:41 PM
I also have the same doubt.
Positive to negative shift means... It's still about to be ovulated or already o ovulated..does the attempt put after it changed to negative count in the number of attempts ?
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Start your attempts from the first positive OPK and keep going with them regardless of what the OPK does.
Leannes392
October 15th, 2018, 04:58 PM
So keep going every other day until af possibly arrives ? And this wont sway girl?xx
atomic sagebrush
October 16th, 2018, 11:34 AM
Yes if he's up for it. If not go to every 2 days but I prefer every other.
No, it won't sway pink and will help for blue because exposure to the hormones in your hubby's semen can make you more boy friendly in the long run, so even if you don't get pregnant this month it may help for future months (the body is sooo weird!)
Leannes392
October 17th, 2018, 04:07 AM
Great thankyou!! Now just a waiting game i suppose :fx: :bluecheer:
atomic sagebrush
October 17th, 2018, 02:49 PM
Good luck and blue dust headed your way!
Leannes392
October 30th, 2018, 04:50 AM
So.. this happened this morning! Due on period tomorow.. the strongest line iv ever had this early in any of my pregnancys!! 40651
Thankyou so much praying for blue :bluecheer::bluesperm::fx:
Dutchie1986
October 30th, 2018, 05:01 AM
Congrats!!!
Leannes392
October 30th, 2018, 10:35 AM
Should i continue taking fish oil, folic acid and the centrum womens multi vitamin?x
Leannes392
October 30th, 2018, 10:43 AM
Thanks x
Lilawt
October 30th, 2018, 11:13 AM
Congrats!!! Hope it’s your baby boy in there! Will you find out ?
Sending you lots of blue dust! My boys always had super dark test line before af was due xx
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Leannes392
October 30th, 2018, 11:55 AM
Congrats!!! Hope it’s your baby boy in there! Will you find out ?
Sending you lots of blue dust! My boys always had super dark test line before af was due xx
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Thankyou! I have no idea whether to find out or not, my partner will want to though lol,
Ahh i hope so! Never had a line this faint in all 5 of my girls pregnancys and always had to be about 2weeks late to get a line this strong!! xx
atomic sagebrush
October 30th, 2018, 02:26 PM
Should i continue taking fish oil, folic acid and the centrum womens multi vitamin?x
Huge congrats! Beautiful line!
Yes continue those things. The fish oil and Centrum are fine to take all thru pregnancy (you may want to wean off the fish oil at 36 weeks) and then the folic acid, take all thru the first trimester and then wean off gradually by spacing doses further and further out till down to one per week, then drop it (keep taking the amount in multivitamin, of course)
Leannes392
October 31st, 2018, 09:26 AM
Ok thank you!!!
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Does this look ok for blue sway?
All was protected apart from we had condom split on the 7th which im worried about:nails:, other than that was all protected until we had unprotected which was from the 12th the first day of smiley opk xx
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And got positive pregnancy test yesterday x
atomic sagebrush
November 1st, 2018, 11:18 AM
The condom breaking that day would be microscopically slim to no chance of conception. It's like 1 in 100,000 odds and I suspect the rare time it's happened has been from later than CD 7 when people were having EWCM for quite a long time.
I think you had a great attempt!!! :) Huge congrats on your pregnancy!!
Leannes392
November 5th, 2018, 10:44 AM
Thankyou praying for our sway to of worked. Only time will tell :fingers::pray:
Guts telling me another girl:sigh:
4blue2pink
November 9th, 2018, 11:33 AM
Congratulations!! :heart: fingers crossed this is your little boy :)
Leannes392
November 14th, 2018, 05:28 AM
Have seen on other sites most sways fail if bd before 24hours after +opk is this true? And would mine of failed as we bd the night of +opk we got at 7pm :sad: x
atomic sagebrush
November 15th, 2018, 04:42 PM
No, it's not true.
We have everyone do that on here. That's how I and many of us got my/our boys.
Leannes392
November 18th, 2018, 01:59 PM
Ok thanks just got worried that i had swayed wrong, because i did it asoon as i got smiley positive and not 24hrs after x
LMSM
November 19th, 2018, 02:03 AM
Congrats! Looks like fab fab attempt :)
Will be stalking for your result :) are you finding out or will you stay team green ? :)
aira22
November 19th, 2018, 05:15 AM
Hey Leannes, congrats to your BFP! I hope it is your baby boy!
Have seen on other sites most sways fail if bd before 24hours after +opk is this true? And would mine of failed as we bd the night of +opk we got at 7pm :sad: x
I just read your post and wanted to calm you down. Its not true that these attempts are failed sways! I BD as soon as I got my +opk because I had the feeling that my egg would pop within 12h after +opk (I got that impression from my previous cycles where I observed my ovulation closely with temping and being aware of ovulation pains and all that stuff) aaaand it worked!
Ok, for sure every body is different and reacts differently to the LH surge and other crazy hormones....there must be more research still...one can never say something thats true for everyone...blabla
BUT I still hold that the first 24h after +opk are the most important ones for conceiving (a boy). We even bd before +opk every 2-3 days unprotected. Please don't worry about that. I have my fingers crossed for you :fx:
Leannes392
November 19th, 2018, 06:01 AM
Congrats! Looks like fab fab attempt :)
Will be stalking for your result :) are you finding out or will you stay team green ? :)
Aww thankyou! My partner will want to find out so i think we will! xx
Leannes392
November 19th, 2018, 06:05 AM
Hey Leannes, congrats to your BFP! I hope it is your baby boy!
I just read your post and wanted to calm you down. Its not true that these attempts are failed sways! I BD as soon as I got my +opk because I had the feeling that my egg would pop within 12h after +opk (I got that impression from my previous cycles where I observed my ovulation closely with temping and being aware of ovulation pains and all that stuff) aaaand it worked!
Ok, for sure every body is different and reacts differently to the LH surge and other crazy hormones....there must be more research still...one can never say something thats true for everyone...blabla
BUT I still hold that the first 24h after +opk are the most important ones for conceiving (a boy). We even bd before +opk every 2-3 days unprotected. Please don't worry about that. I have my fingers crossed for you :fx:
Thankyou for the reasurance much appreciated..and congrats on your boy! I had small amounts of blood when wiped and i got my +opk and smiley on the 12th october at 7.30pm bd that night around 11.30pm bd the morning of the 13th got cramps at 4.30pm which may of been ovulation pain, bd again that night and again the morning of the 14th took an ovulation test on the morning of 14th and it was negative so i assume i must of ovulated on the 13th!
Praying iv done enough and to finally have our boy!! :nails: xx
LMSM
November 19th, 2018, 04:25 PM
Aira, so glad to see you’re having a boy after your three girls!!! Congrats :)
Gives me so much hope ! ( I have a very short LH surge too from pos opk to O)
atomic sagebrush
November 19th, 2018, 11:50 PM
Thankyou for the reasurance much appreciated..and congrats on your boy! I had small amounts of blood when wiped and i got my +opk and smiley on the 12th october at 7.30pm bd that night around 11.30pm bd the morning of the 13th got cramps at 4.30pm which may of been ovulation pain, bd again that night and again the morning of the 14th took an ovulation test on the morning of 14th and it was negative so i assume i must of ovulated on the 13th!
Praying iv done enough and to finally have our boy!! :nails: xx
That was a great attempt, I do want to clarify that you cannot tell when you ovulated based on when your OPK go negative, though. You can have a postive OPK after ovulation, and have your OPK go negative and not ovulated yet.
atomic sagebrush
November 19th, 2018, 11:51 PM
Ok thanks just got worried that i had swayed wrong, because i did it asoon as i got smiley positive and not 24hrs after x
24 hours after a positive OPK is not only low chance of conception, but also may sway pink because most people will only be able to get in one attempt that way.
My recommendation is to have people start attempting at the first positive OPK.
Leannes392
November 22nd, 2018, 06:45 AM
Have been having pains in left side of pelvis and midwife thought ectopic pregnancy luckily all is okay with little bean thank god!! Any ramzi guesses? Abdomonal scan x40786
atomic sagebrush
November 23rd, 2018, 05:05 PM
After having seen tons of people send Dr. Ramzi $10 to guess their ultrasounds and he guessed wrong, I no longer do Ramzi guesses. Darling little baby though! Good luck nd blue dust headed your way.
Leannes392
December 22nd, 2018, 05:52 AM
So i think my sway failed :tissue: 12+3 nub looks super girly :hide: please tell me i still have a chance xx 40941
LMSM
December 22nd, 2018, 08:00 AM
So i think my sway failed :tissue: 12+3 nub looks super girly :hide: please tell me i still have a chance xx 40941
I agree it looks girly, but still early, nub could rise and this is just one pic, another angle could show it differently so don’t give up hope..fx this is actually a boy!!!! When is your next scan?
Leannes392
December 22nd, 2018, 09:03 AM
We have a scan 3rd january il be 14weeks! Please keep fingers crossed for me xx
MiaMelb
December 23rd, 2018, 01:20 AM
Agree that 12+3 is still a bit on the early side so there's an outside chance of some changes from this point. Fx
Lilawt
December 23rd, 2018, 01:56 PM
Got my fingers and toes crossed for you Leanne! I was wondering how you were since I first commented on your post.
Sending my blue dust!!! Keep us posted.
Lil
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Leannes392
December 23rd, 2018, 02:48 PM
Got my fingers and toes crossed for you Leanne! I was wondering how you were since I first commented on your post.
Sending my blue dust!!! Keep us posted.
Lil
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Thankyou!! And thankyou for thinking about me:) really praying and hoping for my boy xxx
Bromedha
December 24th, 2018, 02:32 AM
Pardon my ignorance.. How this is super girly ? Nub is pointing upwards only , right
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LMSM
December 24th, 2018, 03:02 AM
THe nub looks relatively parallel to the angle of the spine, so that is moreso girly. However, it’s just one picˆ still early, so we may be wrong and totally could be a boy...has happened before! ;)
Bromedha
December 24th, 2018, 12:27 PM
THe nub looks relatively parallel to the angle of the spine, so that is moreso girly. However, it’s just one picˆ still early, so we may be wrong and totally could be a boy...has happened before! ;)Which one is nub ? I see three lines parallel .. Bottom one is spine.. Nub is middle one or top one...?
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4blue2pink
December 24th, 2018, 01:18 PM
THe nub looks relatively parallel to the angle of the spine, so that is moreso girly. However, it’s just one picˆ still early, so we may be wrong and totally could be a boy...has happened before! ;)
yes!! ive seen a few pink swayers get super excited over an early 12 week nub like this only for baby to be a boy!!
at 12+3 it has every chance of rising :) everything crossed for you Leannes!!
LMSM
December 26th, 2018, 06:55 PM
Which one is nub ? I see three lines parallel .. Bottom one is spine.. Nub is middle one or top one...?
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I’ve the tried to draw so you can see (excuse’ my skills or lack thereof lol)..wouldn’t call it suuuper girly, but not boyish either..so for now it could go either way, though if I had to call it, I would lean girly but hoping for Leanne’s that it is a blue bub ;)
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Leannes392
December 27th, 2018, 07:21 AM
Thankyou i think its going to be another girl too! Really hoping my sway has worked though! Another scan on the 3rd jan where il be around 14weeks hoping it has risen :fx::tissue:
Please send as much blue dust as possible I NEED IT xxx
atomic sagebrush
December 28th, 2018, 02:19 PM
So i think my sway failed :tissue: 12+3 nub looks super girly :hide: please tell me i still have a chance xx 40941
It's too early, nub can still rise. I do not guess on nubs of this gestation because SOOOO many "girls" are actually boys and are revealed to be in the 13th to 14th week.
Beautiful baby though.
Leannes392
January 3rd, 2019, 10:16 AM
14week scan x
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atomic sagebrush
January 3rd, 2019, 04:13 PM
tentative blue lean from me, but it is looking like the cord is possibly in the genital area and making things possibly confusing.
4blue2pink
January 4th, 2019, 07:53 AM
Leannes ive had a blue vibe since your last scan pics :) the end of the nub looked busy to me on your last pics and i think it still does!! everything crossed for you!!
Leannes392
January 4th, 2019, 08:44 AM
Leannes ive had a blue vibe since your last scan pics :) the end of the nub looked busy to me on your last pics and i think it still does!! everything crossed for you!!
Thank you hun! My fingers are tighyly crossed xx
LMSM
January 5th, 2019, 12:47 AM
Ahhh, this one has me guessing for sure..the first pic looks boyish but agree the pics are busy in the nub area so hard to be definite..FX so hard for you !!!!
LMSM
January 23rd, 2019, 08:13 AM
Leanne how are you doing? ;)
Leannes392
February 8th, 2019, 06:30 AM
Sorry i missed this!! Thank you for thinking of me im not to bad scan is next week! Really still praying its our boy!! All the nubs groups have said its a girl nub which is putting me of :nails: in need of a miracle xxx
Hugo16felix17
February 11th, 2019, 05:37 PM
Just jumped on this thread good luck for this week fx for you
4blue2pink
February 11th, 2019, 07:39 PM
Good Luck Leannes im keeping everything crossed for you :heart:
LMSM
February 12th, 2019, 05:40 AM
Oh FX so much that this is finally your boy! :) which day this week is your scan? Fx
Lilawt
February 12th, 2019, 07:52 AM
Thinking of you Leanne and sending blue vibes ! So wish we could all have a chance at our Dg.
Looking forward to news on your precious blessing
Lil
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Leannes392
February 12th, 2019, 08:34 AM
Thankyou all so much! It Really means alot!! And friday the 15th :nails: xx
LMSM
February 14th, 2019, 04:58 AM
Good luck for tomorrow, keeping everything crossed for you!!!
Leannes392
February 14th, 2019, 06:09 AM
Thankyou!!! So nervous! Hoping and praying for blue xx
Lilawt
February 14th, 2019, 07:45 AM
I’ll be thinking of you Leanne. Let us know when you can
Lil
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4blue2pink
February 14th, 2019, 07:54 AM
good luck for tomorrow Leanne :)
atomic sagebrush
February 14th, 2019, 04:36 PM
Good luck!!
Leannes392
February 15th, 2019, 09:54 AM
Its another girl:tissue: xx
4blue2pink
February 15th, 2019, 12:17 PM
im so sorry it didnt go the way you were hoping Leanne :heart: i just wish everyone could get their dream family whatever it may be, i remember so well the feeling of "its another.." at the scan, it crushed me every single time. i feel i have to be honest and say i did get to experience the other side after 4 of the same but my time as a single-gender mum certainly showed me how single gender families are viewed and treated, some of the comments i got!!
this might sound stupid but do you have a name you've always loved but never used? that was the only positive for me with ds5 id had the name for over 3 years (wanted it for ds4 but dh said no) and using the name and finally getting "him" helped. also putting him only in neutral baby gro's for the first 6ish months helped me too, i couldnt do boys baby stuff i couldnt face it, he lived in white, grey and yellow.
for what its worth if i saw a lady with 6 girls her family would be total perfection to me, im always in awe of all girl families :) i know it wont change things to hear this or take away your GD but sometimes it can help in some small way to hear that what you have is desirable, especially when there's so much negativity around single sex families :( before this site i never realised that anybody actually wanted/desired all boys!!
and finally the thing that stands out the most to me about all girl mums because i find it so amazing.. you have not only carried all your children but also every single one of your future biological grandchildren, because baby girls are born with their lifetime supply of eggs already formed, you've carried not one but 2 future generations, like a set of russian dolls :heart:
atomic sagebrush
February 15th, 2019, 05:44 PM
Oh no I'm so sorry it didn't go the way we all hoped it would. :heart:
Leannes392
February 18th, 2019, 06:01 AM
im so sorry it didnt go the way you were hoping Leanne :heart: i just wish everyone could get their dream family whatever it may be, i remember so well the feeling of "its another.." at the scan, it crushed me every single time. i feel i have to be honest and say i did get to experience the other side after 4 of the same but my time as a single-gender mum certainly showed me how single gender families are viewed and treated, some of the comments i got!!
this might sound stupid but do you have a name you've always loved but never used? that was the only positive for me with ds5 id had the name for over 3 years (wanted it for ds4 but dh said no) and using the name and finally getting "him" helped. also putting him only in neutral baby gro's for the first 6ish months helped me too, i couldnt do boys baby stuff i couldnt face it, he lived in white, grey and yellow.
for what its worth if i saw a lady with 6 girls her family would be total perfection to me, im always in awe of all girl families :) i know it wont change things to hear this or take away your GD but sometimes it can help in some small way to hear that what you have is desirable, especially when there's so much negativity around single sex families :( before this site i never realised that anybody actually wanted/desired all boys!!
and finally the thing that stands out the most to me about all girl mums because i find it so amazing.. you have not only carried all your children but also every single one of your future biological grandchildren, because baby girls are born with their lifetime supply of eggs already formed, you've carried not one but 2 future generations, like a set of russian dolls :heart:
Thankyou ever so much for taking time to write all those kind words! You have really really helped me see it in a different light! As much as im disappointed its another girl im happy that she is healthy!!
Its really hard for names all our other girls are double barreled. We have
Skyla-rose
Ellie-marie
Robyn-anne
Callie-rae
Darcie-mae
So finding another double barrel is going to prove difficult any suggestions are welcome, iv not told anyone we have found the gender out i dont think il be able to cope with the snide comments of her being another girl ect..
My partner has said we can try again further down the line so hopefully one day i can get our boy xxx
4blue2pink
February 18th, 2019, 04:23 PM
Thankyou ever so much for taking time to write all those kind words! You have really really helped me see it in a different light! As much as im disappointed its another girl im happy that she is healthy!!
Its really hard for names all our other girls are double barreled. We have
Skyla-rose
Ellie-marie
Robyn-anne
Callie-rae
Darcie-mae
So finding another double barrel is going to prove difficult any suggestions are welcome, iv not told anyone we have found the gender out i dont think il be able to cope with the snide comments of her being another girl ect..
My partner has said we can try again further down the line so hopefully one day i can get our boy xxx
no need to thank me im glad it helped :) i love your girls names, our DD1 has a double-barrelled name :) i hope you can find the perfect names soon, Bonnie-Hope and Lily-Eve/Lily-Jade are ones i can think of right now looking at your list :) you could tell everyone you've not found out the gender, how people can be negative about a pregnancy is beyond me :( thats fantastic that your dh is open to another in the future :) xx
LMSM
February 19th, 2019, 06:17 AM
Leanne, I’m so sorry that you didn’t hear boy...No need to tell anyone about gender, after all, it’s none of their business !
It is hard enough having to deal with your own feelings without external people making their stupid comments!
This little girl will be,am sure, a wonderful daughter for you and sister for her siblings. FX you do get your boy next time, it’s so fab that you have the chance..I know the prospect of ttc again really helped me!
The times I think of the « what if’s? » I also think of my three not having each other and can’t imagine my world without them...and picturing them as grown ups,together, as friends ( hopefully !!), as my girls even when adults truly warms my heart so much...so much we will hopefully be lucky to share with them. :awe:
I hope time makes this easier for you and that you can embrace the newest addition and enjoy the fantastic adventure that is bringing another tiny human to the world .. :awe:
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