4boysdreamingpinkkk
November 2nd, 2018, 09:25 PM
I don’t care what ANYONE SAYS...gender DEPRESSION and gender disappointment is a real thing, and unless you have been as low as I am feeling right now, and have felt the last 3 sons, and others have too, please keep your comments to yourself.
I am beyond upset, and don’t know how to cope this time. Of course I’ll love him, but with my last son the depression lasted up until he was a-year-old. Of course I love them and of course I’ve been bonded with them but it’s a deep emptiness, deep sadness and longing I can’t shake, the fact I will NEVER get my princess unless I have money to do IVF gender selection.
I found out through the materni21 test. And a big reason why am so upset is that all of my boys have autism, that is not genetic. It is more common for boys to have autism and girls, and I thought the universe had finally granted me the princess that I feel like I have earned by being the good mother that I am. But no. I feel punished and fear having another boy with autism.
My heart is aching, and I just need some support, from those who know this deep sadness. :broken:
I am beyond upset, and don’t know how to cope this time. Of course I’ll love him, but with my last son the depression lasted up until he was a-year-old. Of course I love them and of course I’ve been bonded with them but it’s a deep emptiness, deep sadness and longing I can’t shake, the fact I will NEVER get my princess unless I have money to do IVF gender selection.
I found out through the materni21 test. And a big reason why am so upset is that all of my boys have autism, that is not genetic. It is more common for boys to have autism and girls, and I thought the universe had finally granted me the princess that I feel like I have earned by being the good mother that I am. But no. I feel punished and fear having another boy with autism.
My heart is aching, and I just need some support, from those who know this deep sadness. :broken: