View Full Version : OH... I messed up. Advice please
Prayn4Haven
December 13th, 2011, 08:14 PM
Ok so here goes. We Bd on 18 and 19 used pull out method as always. I ovulated on 22nd so i thought it was safe to have intercourse on the 23 and again pull out method. I read some more into ovulation and found out u can get preggo 24 hours after ovulation (scared me). So on the 24 i took plan b pill. Well Im preggo now as plan b didnt work for me. Sigh....Is there any way i could be having a baby girl??
lemon2012
December 13th, 2011, 08:41 PM
DEFINITELY!
If you had already ovulated you most likely were in the o plus zone. A lot of people do not sway based on timing,...but many would actually try what you did for a girl.
You have to relax as there is nothing you can do and it is meant to be and hopefully a girl!!!
It looks like you conceived with a 3 day cut off before ovulation????
I am sorry you are stressed and I hope it all works out for you.
Prayn4Haven
December 13th, 2011, 08:50 PM
I really hope i conceived prior to ovulation day. I wonder if this has happened to anyone else. You are right what is done is done all i can do is pray about it.
lobella2
December 13th, 2011, 09:09 PM
I used the pull out method when I got pregnant with my first daughter with a few days cut off, so there is definitely hope! Good luck, I hope it's a girl.
Cinss
December 13th, 2011, 09:12 PM
Yeah don't stress at all about the timing thing, lots of ladies get girls using lots of different timing methods. Good luck for your princess.
Prayn4Haven
December 13th, 2011, 09:49 PM
Oh thats so good to hear. Thank you all so much! Sometimes its just good to have someone to talk too. DH just doesnt get it.
rainbowflower
December 14th, 2011, 05:05 AM
who knows maybe you had a perfect O+12 attempt?
what else was a part of your sway?
love being a mummy
December 14th, 2011, 05:14 AM
Congrats on your pregnancy, sending you lots of pink dust.
zanacal
December 14th, 2011, 05:26 PM
If you were pulling out 'your' sperm count was likely low and I think that's one of the most important things we try to manufacture when swaying for a girl! Good luck :D
atomic sagebrush
December 15th, 2011, 11:07 AM
How did you determine that you Oed on the 22nd?? If you really did, then I suspect you released two eggs, and hit the second one, but you may have simply Oed later than you think you did.
To use temping as birth control, you must wait 3 days after confirmed ovulation to have unprotected sex.
I put no stock into timing whatsoever (and beyond no stock into O+12) and the best studies we have show 50-50 boys and girls conceived on every day of the cycle (and actualy more girls than boys on O day!!) You have every shot at a girl regardless of when you conceived.
If a baby was able to survive Plan B, I would suspect it would be more likely to be a girl than a boy, because boy fetuses are more fragile. You may end up losing the baby later on, I just want you to be aware of that. KFX for best possible outcome.
Prayn4Haven
December 15th, 2011, 05:23 PM
I used the ovulation calendar online to determine my ovulation day. I am definetly not certain it was the 22 but the calendar date must have not been far off. I have went to the doctor and everything seems fine at this point. Plan B will not cause an abortion and should not cause me to lose my baby. Thanks everyone for the advice. Im praying it all works out. I will keep everyone posted.
atomic sagebrush
December 16th, 2011, 10:02 AM
The ovulation calendar is not super accurate and a lot of people can O earlier or later than the calendar says.
:pray: that all goes well with your pg and that your dream comes true!
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