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wildlyluna
November 26th, 2018, 07:28 AM
Here we are ladies, last month of the 2018!
Good luck and loads of baby [emoji64] dust! [emoji3590][emoji3590]
Mariola
November 26th, 2018, 09:12 AM
Good luck and hopefully we will get our much wanted christmas bfp gifts[emoji16]
ruupau
November 27th, 2018, 03:19 AM
Good luck mothers
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Bromedha
November 27th, 2018, 08:46 AM
Am also swaying for boy , December... Good luck ladies
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Bluedust
November 28th, 2018, 02:43 AM
Im 6DPO today and the days are dragging :(
ruupau
November 28th, 2018, 05:07 AM
Swaying girl, Dec 2018 fingers crossed, praying also, all the best mothers
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ObsidianBlossom
November 29th, 2018, 02:59 PM
Pink swayed here.... hoping for a second successful pink sway.... just had ovulation and one attempt so now awaiting AF. Just come off bcp so no idea what’s going on really with my cycle but I had all the signs of ovulation (I don’t think my opks were reliable) so not sure I ovulated or not, spoke to my doctor who said he thought i was ovulating as had awful pains and symptoms of ovulation after so long on bcp. Anyway, waiting for first proper AF to show (if we haven’t conceived) then I’ll be able to track ovulation properly next month x good luck to all x
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Nell_
November 29th, 2018, 06:53 PM
My husband is working away so had attempt on day 11 (my cycle is normally 27 days) good luck everyone 💕💙
Bluedust
November 30th, 2018, 06:48 AM
Good luck everyone!
Im 8DPO today and have been having cramps for the past 3 days.. they feel lile period cramps but not quiet the same bit hard to explain somwtimes feels like a stich pain sometimes lile a pulling sensation. Not sure what it is really, for some reason i feel like this month is not our month...
GirlieCat
December 1st, 2018, 01:52 AM
Hi ladies. 3dpo for me. Will wait till about 12-13 dpo to test maybe even just wait for AF to be late. Good luck to everyone. Hoping for lots of positives this month.
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Lexzeppelin89
December 1st, 2018, 03:41 AM
Just waiting around for my first AF since my mc! Not gonna be ttc this month I don't think, but want to hang out anyway :)
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Nell_
December 1st, 2018, 04:41 AM
I had ov pains yesterday... wonder if it means tuesday was too soon and it didn't work?
Nell_
December 1st, 2018, 06:10 AM
Just waiting around for my first AF since my mc! Not gonna be ttc this month I don't think, but want to hang out anyway :)
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Hope you're ok sorry to hear about your mc x
Alliwantisblue
December 3rd, 2018, 05:51 PM
Hi Ladies,
I am gonna join this chat as I am hopefully if i did my calculations correctly 2DPO. Swayed boy hoping for a nice blue sticky bean! Good Luck ladies!! Is it weird that i feel alot of sensation in my abdomen like pulling and stretching cramping on both sides? Anyone felt like this and got a BFP?
bluebird.
December 4th, 2018, 06:53 AM
Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month everyone!
We are 10DPO and I have a bad cold :worry:
I'm not feeling terribly optimistic about a + this month but I really hope I'm wrong!
If we have no luck this month we will have to wait until March to start TTC again. :sad: Send me your baby dust everyone!
ObsidianBlossom
December 4th, 2018, 09:21 AM
It’s not my month ladies - bfn today :( maybe next month x
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Nell_
December 4th, 2018, 09:43 AM
Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month everyone!
We are 10DPO and I have a bad cold :worry:
I'm not feeling terribly optimistic about a + this month but I really hope I'm wrong!
If we have no luck this month we will have to wait until March to start TTC again. :sad: Send me your baby dust everyone!
Sending baby dust to you!!! xxxx
Nell_
December 4th, 2018, 09:44 AM
It’s not my month ladies - bfn today :( maybe next month x
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Fingers crossed next month, sure i am out too.. week or so until i know ... x
CanadaMommy86
December 4th, 2018, 02:12 PM
Hi everyone! Currently 3-4dpo, not 100% certain. I don't temp, just use opks, an app and ovulation pain every month. I will be surprised if I get a bfp as we ended up with a 4 day cut off.
Good luck everyone!
Alliwantisblue
December 4th, 2018, 02:30 PM
I just got confirmed O on CD 18 of this cycle. which is weird because i had a temp drop the next day (too early for implantation dip) I hope I get a nice sticky blue bean! Officially in 2ww!!!:fx::babym:
Bluedust
December 5th, 2018, 08:03 PM
I think im out ladies bfn today @14dpo, just waiting for AF so i can start my new cycle already :(
Sillyginger
December 5th, 2018, 10:42 PM
Hi everyone! Baby dust to all! I’m currently 5 DPO after swaying boy. Im praying for a sticky, healthy boy!
Lex, I’m so sorry for your loss.
Nell_
December 6th, 2018, 02:18 AM
Hi everyone! Currently 3-4dpo, not 100% certain. I don't temp, just use opks, an app and ovulation pain every month. I will be surprised if I get a bfp as we ended up with a 4 day cut off.
Good luck everyone!
Me too! On cycle day 11! Had pains day 14. Hubby went away so only chance... good luck everyone and if not always next month 💕💙
CanadaMommy86
December 6th, 2018, 07:16 AM
Me too! On cycle day 11! Had pains day 14. Hubby went away so only chance... good luck everyone and if not always next month
Good luck Nell! Did you sway? My cycles are usually 26-28 days, but we hadn't BD since CD9 and I had a +opk CD12 evening, then strong O pain CD13 early evening lasting a few hours, next day all my symptoms stopped, so I'm a little nervous.
Alliwantisblue
December 6th, 2018, 08:01 PM
So while I’m tww I was involved in a car accident today it spun my entire car around went to hospital and they gave me a hcg test it was negative so now I’m worried what if the accident affected implantation? They gave me X-rays what if that did something I wanted to refuse but I was in so much pain I had to! Now if I’m not pregnant I’m gonna always think what if the accident did something? This is so upsetting my confirmed O day was Nov 30 so I’m only 5 or 6 days out but now :worry:
Blue2
December 6th, 2018, 10:27 PM
So glad you're ok! Even at the cellular level, I feel like babies are so incredibly resilient... maybe ask atomic, but if the wreck cause you to not implant I feel like you would be starting a period early?
Think we have the same ttc & sway agenda - my next period would be 12/13 and if it doesn't come I am going to start taking pregnancy tests
Blue dust & quick recovery to you!!
CanadaMommy86
December 6th, 2018, 10:49 PM
I don't know how serious the accident was, but I think if it hadn't implanted yet, then it would probably be fine. Maybe if you were in the first few weeks after implantation it might be more concerning. Please don't take my word for it, but try not to worry too much.
Blue2
December 6th, 2018, 11:31 PM
Confirmed O on CD 17 (11/30) and Ava bracelet confirmed biphasic pattern detected this morning - so even with weird temp drop after BD on O day and BD on DPO2 I am hoping to stick the blue sway this month!! :bluecheer:
Alliwantisblue
December 7th, 2018, 12:00 AM
Thanks Blue I definitely am obsessing even more I know it was too early for implantation I’m just hoping it’s meant and my lil blue bean sticks!
Alliwantisblue
December 7th, 2018, 12:03 AM
Thank you Canada mommy we already go through so much attempting and need no other barriers! I’m hoping Atomic replies to my other thread in conceiving a boy forum. My mind is like what if I was implanting today and it got knocked off 😢
Nell_
December 7th, 2018, 03:19 AM
Good luck Nell! Did you sway? My cycles are usually 26-28 days, but we hadn't BD since CD9 and I had a +opk CD12 evening, then strong O pain CD13 early evening lasting a few hours, next day all my symptoms stopped, so I'm a little nervous.
Fingers crossed for us both do you think we dtd too early does ov pain mean we didnt conceive? I swayed did you? Always dreamt of a BG and i already have a beautiful baby boy how about you?😊 xxx
Nell_
December 7th, 2018, 03:20 AM
So while I’m tww I was involved in a car accident today it spun my entire car around went to hospital and they gave me a hcg test it was negative so now I’m worried what if the accident affected implantation? They gave me X-rays what if that did something I wanted to refuse but I was in so much pain I had to! Now if I’m not pregnant I’m gonna always think what if the accident did something? This is so upsetting my confirmed O day was Nov 30 so I’m only 5 or 6 days out but now :worry:
Thats horrible you hope you're ok, how far into your cycle are you maybe too early to test? Big hug
CanadaMommy86
December 7th, 2018, 06:53 AM
Fingers crossed for us both do you think we dtd too early does ov pain mean we didnt conceive? I swayed did you? Always dreamt of a BG and i already have a beautiful baby boy how about you?�� xxx
I knew I had seen your name in here before, but couldn't remember which specific board. I had loosely been doing the LE diet since earlier this year, I actually really like doing it. I started getting stricter with it the first week of October, so we were actually avoiding my fertile time, but I O'd two days earlier than my app said. I don't think the O pain means we did or didn't conceive. I get it every month, have done since I can remember and when I got pregnant with my boys, we DTD the day before O and the day I had the pain, I always used the pain and cm as a guide to O. No OPKs or apps. I got pregnant with my youngest from bd 4-5 days before O and have been googling how likely it is to get pregnant from bd that far in advance. It is fairly common, but it really does depend on the individual woman and whether any swimmers made it long enough to wait for the egg.
Nell_
December 7th, 2018, 09:46 AM
I knew I had seen your name in here before, but couldn't remember which specific board. I had loosely been doing the LE diet since earlier this year, I actually really like doing it. I started getting stricter with it the first week of October, so we were actually avoiding my fertile time, but I O'd two days earlier than my app said. I don't think the O pain means we did or didn't conceive. I get it every month, have done since I can remember and when I got pregnant with my boys, we DTD the day before O and the day I had the pain, I always used the pain and cm as a guide to O. No OPKs or apps. I got pregnant with my youngest from bd 4-5 days before O and have been googling how likely it is to get pregnant from bd that far in advance. It is fairly common, but it really does depend on the individual woman and whether any swimmers made it long enough to wait for the egg.
Guess we will just have to wait and see! If not always another month :fingers:
Blue2
December 7th, 2018, 01:23 PM
Does anyone else get sway anxiety? Like hoping you get a period so you can try a 'better' sway next month. I'm so anxious :owl:
CanadaMommy86
December 7th, 2018, 03:46 PM
Does anyone else get sway anxiety? Like hoping you get a period so you can try a 'better' sway next month. I'm so anxious :owl:
Haha! As I mentioned in my my last post I had only been doing LE more strictly since the beginning of October, so it had been 9 weeks, but I'm nervous because it wasn't at least 12. Lol. Did you do everything you should have been to sway?
Also, anybody tested recently?!
Blue2
December 7th, 2018, 06:00 PM
9wks is a good amount of time! I was late to the game and basically have not done any purposeful dieting - just my usual eat whatever drink whatever. Depending on the day it could be a whole pizza or nothing at all. Not great for a blue sway. Kicking myself for finding this website and all the diet info AFTER the fact (biggest reason for anxiety)
But I've religiously tracked BBT, CM, & ovulation since Sept b/c I thought Shettles method was the authority on swaying (dumb, I know)
When are you going to PT??
bluebird.
December 7th, 2018, 07:05 PM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
I hope to see many more of these here this month [emoji4][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92]
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Alliwantisblue
December 7th, 2018, 07:47 PM
Hi Nell I’m only 7 days post ovulation so I’m hoping that it’s too early but I’m not sure about taking any medicines that can interrupt the implantation process
Blue2
December 7th, 2018, 07:48 PM
Yayyy Bluebird!!! How exciting!!!! Are you getting blood work done to test gender? ...now I want to go take a PT lol
bluebird.
December 7th, 2018, 07:58 PM
Yayyy Bluebird!!! How exciting!!!! Are you getting blood work done to test gender? ...now I want to go take a PT lol
Thank you!! This would have been our last month TTC until March so I am hugely relieved on top of generally thrilled!
Yes we will have the NIPT at 10 weeks so should know gender by the end of Jan!
wildlyluna
December 7th, 2018, 10:51 PM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
I hope to see many more of these here this month [emoji4][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92]
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Yay! Exciting! Congratulations [emoji322][emoji322]
Nell_
December 8th, 2018, 03:35 AM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
I hope to see many more of these here this month [emoji4][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92]
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Oh wonderful... huge congratulations! xxx a September baby!!
CanadaMommy86
December 8th, 2018, 06:34 AM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
I hope to see many more of these here this month [emoji4][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92]
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Congratulations Bluebird!
Nell_
December 8th, 2018, 09:12 AM
[QUOTE=Alliwantisblue;1014283]Hi Nell I’m only 7 days post ovulation so I’m hoping that it’s too early but I’m not sure about taking any medicines that can interrupt the implantation
Just take it you wernt pregnant hun as think of all those mothers that take drugs drink heavily smoke through pregnancy and go onto have babies, if you are pregnant its all safe in your tummy and tucked away so nothing you did you had to take the meds after your accident and have an xray. Xrays are sooo low dose nowadays try not to worry
CanadaMommy86
December 8th, 2018, 10:13 AM
9wks is a good amount of time! I was late to the game and basically have not done any purposeful dieting - just my usual eat whatever drink whatever. Depending on the day it could be a whole pizza or nothing at all. Not great for a blue sway. Kicking myself for finding this website and all the diet info AFTER the fact (biggest reason for anxiety)
But I've religiously tracked BBT, CM, & ovulation since Sept b/c I thought Shettles method was the authority on swaying (dumb, I know)
When are you going to PT??
I'm going to wait and see whether AF shows next weekend. You?
Do you have any daughters? If so, did you somewhat eat differently to when you conceived then and did you do the shettles method when you conceived them? Even if unintentionally. Maybe it worked and even raising your regular calorie intake could hel at least boost your odds.
GirlieCat
December 8th, 2018, 10:59 AM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
I hope to see many more of these here this month [emoji4][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92]
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Yeah! That is great news bluebird. Congrats.
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Blue2
December 8th, 2018, 11:02 AM
Canada - yep, we have one DD! If it helps you, I have a pretty good idea of when we conceived her...
May 2017: we left on a Thursday night for our honeymoon and BD that night then every day after. I was supposed to ovulate the following Tuesday. I know all this in hindsight because we weren't trying at all for a baby and I didn't even know about swaying back so no Shettles
Two weeks later I had a positive PT and we found out it was a girl at 11 weeks w/ blood tests
For me, BD before ovulation seemed to be a bigger factor in getting DD than BD'ing throughout ovulation (which you would assume would give you a DS). My 10 day honeymoon I was the least stressed I've ever been, and was coming off a LE diet typical of most brides before their wedding
4blue2pink
December 8th, 2018, 11:03 AM
Girliecat how are things going? did you decide to sway? i remember your post where you weren't sure what you wanted to do, fingers crossed you get your bfp soon :heart:
Blue2
December 8th, 2018, 11:06 AM
4blue2pink - congrats on your pregnancy! Were all 3 of your sways successful?
4blue2pink
December 8th, 2018, 12:32 PM
4blue2pink - congrats on your pregnancy! Were all 3 of your sways successful?
thankyou blue2 :) my first sway was successful, my second was an opposite and i wont know if the third one has worked until this baby is born
CanadaMommy86
December 8th, 2018, 02:25 PM
Canada - yep, we have one DD! If it helps you, I have a pretty good idea of when we conceived her...
May 2017: we left on a Thursday night for our honeymoon and BD that night then every day after. I was supposed to ovulate the following Tuesday. I know all this in hindsight because we weren't trying at all for a baby and I didn't even know about swaying back so no Shettles
Two weeks later I had a positive PT and we found out it was a girl at 11 weeks w/ blood tests
For me, BD before ovulation seemed to be a bigger factor in getting DD than BD'ing throughout ovulation (which you would assume would give you a DS). My 10 day honeymoon I was the least stressed I've ever been, and was coming off a LE diet typical of most brides before their wedding
Thanks for the information! We have two girls and two boys. Girl, boy, boy, girl. We weren't swaying for any of them, but now I think back to my eating habits at the time we would have conceived, it was kind of HE or LE. But your experience does help because it pretty much confirms the whole swaying ideas. I know it doesnt work everytime, but it's good to know that it can.
Sillyginger
December 9th, 2018, 12:47 AM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
I hope to see many more of these here this month [emoji4][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92][emoji1694][emoji92]
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CONGRATS! Wonderful news!!
GirlieCat
December 9th, 2018, 11:09 AM
Girliecat how are things going? did you decide to sway? i remember your post where you weren't sure what you wanted to do, fingers crossed you get your bfp soon :heart:
Hi! I decided not to sway. I am more concerned with just getting pregnant and I came to a good place in my heart that I am happy with either gender. Just sticking around to enjoy the journey with you all.
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Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 11:25 AM
Random question for December swayers - have you told anyone but your DH/DP about your DG or sway plans? My mom & sisters (I think) accidentally saw one of my Gender Dreaming messages.
Just curious if this is something you share or keep to this wonderful community - Thx!
4blue2pink
December 9th, 2018, 12:28 PM
girliecat i hope you get your bfp really soon and blue or pink baby will be the perfect fit for your family :) how is your little girl doing?
blue2 i dont tell anyone outside of this site about swaying :)
Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 12:33 PM
4blue2pink - Same! That was my plan at least. Superstitiously, I feel like the more people that know the more unlikely you are to succeed?
Kind of bummed mom/sisters might have an idea about my sway. Tried to play it off that a friend was having trouble conceiving and wanted info on how we got DD... oh well!!
Thank god for this forum. I would be losing my mind otherwise!!!
4blue2pink
December 9th, 2018, 12:38 PM
yes i feel that too! i also wouldnt want the added pressure of other people knowing we had tried for a certain gender!! oh no hopefully your explanation worked :) do they know you are ttc/planning another? yeah this site is amazing i love it here :)
Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 01:22 PM
They know we're TTC so I don't care about that. Just hope they don't understand the 'sway' terminology in the message! lol my mom said she "has no idea what I was talking about b/c the message was cryptic" so *fingers crossed* that is true. You are right about added pressure of others knowing... ugh
Halfway through the 2ww, I should get AF on Thursday or a +PT on Friday!
How many other mommas find out this week or next week?
ObsidianBlossom
December 9th, 2018, 02:29 PM
Yep you guys are the only ones I talk to and know about my swaying habits! X
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Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 02:38 PM
Part of me is like, if my blue sway works I will shout from the rooftops that swaying is real & everyone should research it. And part of me is like, if I fail I am going to deny any & all knowledge of swaying so that people don't think I'm a failure
...please tell me I am not the only crazy person who thinks this way lol
Sillyginger
December 9th, 2018, 03:17 PM
I only share my sway info on this site. I took a PT today, 9dpo, and it was negative. Let the POAS obsession commence. I’m due for AF on the 11th, so I probably should wait until then to test again.
Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 03:26 PM
I'm due for AF on the 13th! Took a PT yesterday and it was negative (not surprising)
Sillyginger
December 9th, 2018, 03:44 PM
That’s reassuring. I know I’m not supposed to test this early, but it’s sooooo hard not to! Fingers crossed for you, Blue! I’m trying to find the chart that gives the percentages of positives based on dpo.
Mariola
December 9th, 2018, 03:45 PM
Also keep it to myself and yes blue, wont be saying anything to anybody when it fails..they will be like; crazy girl for even thinking that stuff works (:
22nd i can test so i have to wait a little longer... good luck girls!
Mariola
December 9th, 2018, 03:46 PM
This one? https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/dpo-chart.php?dpo=8
Checked it the last 2ww (;
Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 04:20 PM
Thanks Mariola! When we conceived DD, PT's showed positive 9 days after my LMP. Which means I could potentially find out about our #2 right before all the holiday parties. Bittersweet timing!
bluebird.
December 9th, 2018, 05:23 PM
So this happened this morning, 14DPO! [emoji1767][emoji177]
Please stick!
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I think I spoke too soon [emoji17]FRER yesterday was a lot lighter that the + at 14DPO and today it was flat out negative. Looks like a chemical [emoji22] heading to the drs this morning for a blood test to confirm but I’m not optimistic. AF is due today but I expect now that will be late and won’t get it until my hormones rebalance?
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Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 06:30 PM
Bluebird - how accurate are those? Can you try a Clear Blue? I'm a PT rookie as we weren't ttc with DD and I took a random PT my friend left at our flat (can't even remember the brand)
I think I spoke too soon [emoji17]FRER yesterday was a lot lighter that the + at 14DPO and today it was flat out negative. Looks like a chemical [emoji22] heading to the drs this morning for a blood test to confirm but I’m not optimistic. AF is due today but I expect now that will be late and won’t get it until my hormones rebalance?
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bluebird.
December 9th, 2018, 07:11 PM
Bluebird - how accurate are those? Can you try a Clear Blue? I'm a PT rookie as we weren't ttc with DD and I took a random PT my friend left at our flat (can't even remember the brand)
I like your optimism, but I’ve been testing with the same First Response Early Response (FRER), so pretty much the most accurate on the market in Australia. It’s been getting gradually lighter since the first + so wouldn’t be out of the blue, and I haven’t had a + on any of the higher (25mIU/mL) tests so MC would make sense.
Will see what the blood test says!
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Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 07:25 PM
I like your optimism, but I’ve been testing with the same First Response Early Response (FRER), so pretty much the most accurate on the market in Australia. It’s been getting gradually lighter since the first + so wouldn’t be out of the blue, and I haven’t had a + on any of the higher (25mIU/mL) tests so MC would make sense.
Will see what the blood test says!
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Oh THAT is what FRER means! I'm no expert but always thought the rule was "you can't detect something that isn't there"? Are you dipping it in a cup? Maybe more sample would help?
I'm wildly optimistic about getting pregnant, but not as confident about swaying lol
bluebird.
December 9th, 2018, 07:30 PM
Oh THAT is what FRER means! I'm no expert but always thought the rule was "you can't detect something that isn't there"? Are you dipping it in a cup? Maybe more sample would help?
I'm wildly optimistic about getting pregnant, but not as confident about swaying lol
Yep, you’re right in that you can’t detect something that isn’t there but if it was a viable pregnancy the hcg would be increasing every 24hrs and it’s definitely not so that suggests a chemical pregnancy.
I was wildly optimistic about getting pregnant until we actually started TTC haha!
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Blue2
December 9th, 2018, 07:44 PM
Yep, you’re right in that you can’t detect something that isn’t there but if it was a viable pregnancy the hcg would be increasing every 24hrs and it’s definitely not so that suggests a chemical pregnancy.
I was wildly optimistic about getting pregnant until we actually started TTC haha!
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Just had to google what a chemical pregnancy is... guess I am more of a rookie than I thought!! Can you & DH get another attempt in this month or are you done until March?
Sillyginger
December 9th, 2018, 11:36 PM
Mariola, this is the one I was looking for. Basically the same info as your link. Thanks!
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Blue, I hope it’s not a chemical. I’m praying for only good news at the dr.
GirlieCat
December 10th, 2018, 11:04 AM
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Here it is, a little bigger and easier to read.
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Blue2
December 10th, 2018, 11:49 AM
My neg PT was 8 days DPO but I just got a notification from my Ava bracelet saying "based on your previous cycles, Ava predicted your period to come in 3 days" :(
Guess we'll see how accurate it is...
All days with a heart over them we BD
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Mariola
December 10th, 2018, 12:35 PM
Anyone else feels like the 2ww is dragging along so slowwww
Bluebird, i hope everything is fine with you.
And blue, hope nasty af will stay away.
We all need a sticky christmas present..
Blue2
December 10th, 2018, 12:43 PM
Anyone else feels like the 2ww is dragging along so slowwww
Bluebird, i hope everything is fine with you.
And blue, hope nasty af will stay away.
We all need a sticky christmas present..
Longest 2WW ever!! I think I ov'd on Friday 11/30 so could get a +PT on Friday 12/14 but am tempted to wait until after Friday 12/21 because of how long it took to get +PT for DD in May 2017 (9days after LMP)
...on another note, am I the only crazy person who researches gender disappointment coping methods before even finding out if they're pg let alone if the sway was successful?
:nails:
Sillyginger
December 10th, 2018, 09:21 PM
Thanks girliecat that’s a lot easier to see.
Blue, I OV the same day, but I’ve only got an 11 day luteal phase, so I may test tomorrow. I got a very faint positive with DD2 11 dpo. You’ve got a good, solid luteal phase! I’m hoping you’ll see a positive in 3 days.
GirlieCat
December 11th, 2018, 12:15 PM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time. Ahhh.
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4blue2pink
December 11th, 2018, 12:24 PM
Yay!! Congratulations Girliecat!! :heart:
Nell_
December 11th, 2018, 01:58 PM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time. Ahhh.
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Congratulations!! Wonderful xx
Blue2
December 11th, 2018, 04:35 PM
Amazing Girliecat!!! Christmas came early, congrats!!
Sillyginger
December 11th, 2018, 04:57 PM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time
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Yaaayy! Congrats! Awesome news!
Mariola
December 11th, 2018, 04:59 PM
Woww dark line!!! Congratulations!!! So exciting!!!
bluebird.
December 11th, 2018, 05:16 PM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time. Ahhh.
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They are amazing strong lines!!! Huge congratulations GirlieCat! Sticky baby dust to you [emoji177][emoji92][emoji177][emoji92][emoji177]
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bluebird.
December 11th, 2018, 05:24 PM
Unfortunately my suspicions were correct, I woke up to AF this morning so my BFP ended as a chemical [emoji17]
Now I need advice:
Not sure whether we keep TTC (not full on swaying, it’s too exhausting) over Xmas thru New Year or wait until we get back from our big holiday in March. My thought process was that if we got preg between Dec and Feb I’d be in the first trimester and likely have morning sickness again. I didn’t want to be flying and travelling around a lot with ms and have it ruin the holiday.
I know that each pregnancy is different and for all I know I could still be sick well into the second trimester (or also not sick at all!) so there’s no way of knowing.
Now I’m just so keen to get pg that I kind of don’t care and want to keep trying, but I know I’m not being rational... What would you do?
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CanadaMommy86
December 11th, 2018, 06:02 PM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time. Ahhh.
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Congratulations GirlieCat!
Nell_
December 11th, 2018, 06:16 PM
Unfortunately my suspicions were correct, I woke up to AF this morning so my BFP ended as a chemical [emoji17]
Now I need advice:
Not sure whether we keep TTC (not full on swaying, it’s too exhausting) over Xmas thru New Year or wait until we get back from our big holiday in March. My thought process was that if we got preg between Dec and Feb I’d be in the first trimester and likely have morning sickness again. I didn’t want to be flying and travelling around a lot with ms and have it ruin the holiday.
I know that each pregnancy is different and for all I know I could still be sick well into the second trimester (or also not sick at all!) so there’s no way of knowing.
Now I’m just so keen to get pg that I kind of don’t care and want to keep trying, but I know I’m not being rational... What would you do?
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so sorry bluebird, I'd keep trying like you say each pregnany is different. But your choice 😊
Blue2
December 11th, 2018, 06:25 PM
Bluebird - I agree with Nell, every pregnancy is different... might as well roll the dice!
*sending sticky pink baby dust your way*
Alliwantisblue
December 11th, 2018, 06:30 PM
Blue2 you stole my life same oday and all I found out kind of late with dd as well about 3 weeks after missed af. I have already started testing and with each bfn I get so discouraged and I haven’t felt anything no af symptoms or implantation pains I kinda feel no bfp is coming although my test was negative with dd I felt it immediately
Blue2
December 11th, 2018, 06:36 PM
Blue2 you stole my life same oday and all I found out kind of late with dd as well about 3 weeks after missed af. I have already started testing and with each bfn I get so discouraged and I haven’t felt anything no af symptoms or implantation pains I kinda feel no bfp is coming although my test was negative with dd I felt it immediately
I have been on a sodium bender!!! Will be shocked if I'm not pg but then again, my PMS symptoms right before AF always include me being a garbage disposal for crisps lol
How hard have you been swaying blue? I was strictly Shettles method (abstinence, baking soda douche, tracking CM/BBT to pinpoint O-day, etc) until I found this website the morning after we BD'd (then BD's again the following day, so O-day then O2)
So I'm hoping my lack of intentional blue diet-ing won't hurt my sway but would be reassured if there are any boy moms out there who didn't eat HE diet?
Since last Saturday's PT was negative, think I'm going to force myself to wait until after my holiday party on 12/21 an test first thing 12/22 morning. Not that I advocate drinking while pregnant, but I will obsess over having a glass of wine at the party if I KNOW I'm pregnant vs. being able to enjoy one glass of wine in ignorant bliss
Lexzeppelin89
December 11th, 2018, 06:55 PM
Hi Ladies,
I am gonna join this chat as I am hopefully if i did my calculations correctly 2DPO. Swayed boy hoping for a nice blue sticky bean! Good Luck ladies!! Is it weird that i feel alot of sensation in my abdomen like pulling and stretching cramping on both sides? Anyone felt like this and got a BFP?Hm, I don't think I really noticed anything til 4/5 dpo & even then it was just mild cramping. Fingers crossed!
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Lexzeppelin89
December 11th, 2018, 07:19 PM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time. Ahhh.
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkOMG I'm so happy for you!!!!! :)
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Lexzeppelin89
December 11th, 2018, 07:20 PM
Unfortunately my suspicions were correct, I woke up to AF this morning so my BFP ended as a chemical [emoji17]
Now I need advice:
Not sure whether we keep TTC (not full on swaying, it’s too exhausting) over Xmas thru New Year or wait until we get back from our big holiday in March. My thought process was that if we got preg between Dec and Feb I’d be in the first trimester and likely have morning sickness again. I didn’t want to be flying and travelling around a lot with ms and have it ruin the holiday.
I know that each pregnancy is different and for all I know I could still be sick well into the second trimester (or also not sick at all!) so there’s no way of knowing.
Now I’m just so keen to get pg that I kind of don’t care and want to keep trying, but I know I’m not being rational... What would you do?
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkI personally would wait... I waited until we got back from our family disney trip in oct to ttc. But it's definitely a personal decision!! Sorry about your chemical :( They aren't fun at all, are they :/ I hope you are doing okay.
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Alliwantisblue
December 11th, 2018, 10:53 PM
Hard sway since August diet,supps, I failed at 3 attempts but did do 2 and I did the baking soda finger although atomic advises to not do. I used Clearblue advanced digital sticks that give you high and peak I also temped using ovusense which confirmed the cb opk I hope I didn’t kill off all the sperm with the bsf 😩. Between 3-4 dpo I felt cramping and pulling sensation and was feeling like it was the month,but now I feel nothing but bloat and on top of the car accident I was involved in I just don’t think that it’s going to happen. I also don’t feel like AF is coming I’m just confused and anxious.
Bromedha
December 11th, 2018, 11:41 PM
Should we keep up the exercise routine and BD routine through it the 2WW ?
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Blue2
December 11th, 2018, 11:49 PM
Hard sway since August diet,supps, I failed at 3 attempts but did do 2 and I did the baking soda finger although atomic advises to not do. I used Clearblue advanced digital sticks that give you high and peak I also temped using ovusense which confirmed the cb opk I hope I didn’t kill off all the sperm with the bsf 😩. Between 3-4 dpo I felt cramping and pulling sensation and was feeling like it was the month,but now I feel nothing but bloat and on top of the car accident I was involved in I just don’t think that it’s going to happen. I also don’t feel like AF is coming I’m just confused and anxious.
Omg we really are the exact same, except it sounds like you swayed harder/better. I feel terrible your car wreck has added extra anxiety on top of it all! Poor thing. Try not to think too much about it, I am a believer that women's bodies endure all kinds of environmental stress (wars, drought, famine, domestic abuse) with the goal of maintaining a pregnancy. Motherhood in a nutshell: sacrifice everything including your body for the good of the baby
I also felt cramping Monday 12/3 (3DPO) and thought "is this ov cramps?" but I *hope* it was a fluke. Atomic said my Clearblue Advanced digital PEAK reading on Thursday 11/29 night could have been my body gearing up to ovulate and then not (because of my 2-day temp drop Sat/Sun before a rise Mon morning, followed by the weird cramps). Had loads of Clearblue test sticks so actually started OPK testing 11/20 and had LOW all the way to 11/29 when it jumped straight to peak. Sorry for this dumb question, I'm a sway rookie but... when you say hard sway since August but two failed attempts, does that mean you tried during 2 cycles and then got AF?
When did you BD the weekend of the 11/30 around ov? We BD 11/30 & 12/2 & 12/8 but wish I would've done a lot more around 11/30 & 12/1... ugh! But I did read an Atomic post somewhere that said there have been blue sways with even 2 BD attempts
Have you been eating a lot of sodium? Maybe that is the bloat. I wonder if anyone other mums have like 'phantom period' PMS symptoms during 2WW before testing positive? I'm convinced I'm pregnant or else this is one hell of a PMS streak - have eaten half the house today
Also I caught myself quasi-nesting... obsessively purging photos on my iPhone, Craigslisting random stuff we don't need, Pinterest-ing nursery ideas... have you felt a bit this way?
wildlyluna
December 12th, 2018, 02:32 AM
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Omg!! 14dpo. I am so happy and scared and excited and nervous all at the same time. Ahhh.
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Omg! Yay!!! That’s a strong line! Congrats [emoji322][emoji322]
Mariola
December 12th, 2018, 05:13 AM
Well, im skinny so never ate super much. Certainly no he diet and we bd once unprotected close to o and i got a boy (: wasnt a sway though.
And its so strange, the first month of ttc (nov) in the 2ww i felt super pregnant. But this 2ww nothing yet (5dpo)..
Hope we get more blazin positives like girlie cat this month so we can get the heck out of here and on to the july aug sept dd group...or would it already be oct?
Bromedha
December 12th, 2018, 12:03 PM
Should we keep up the exercise routine and BD routine through out the 2WW ? Please help.. Confused
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Mariola
December 12th, 2018, 12:11 PM
For boy i would continue unprotected bd in the 2ww. Also keep the excersize. Most likely you will not get a bfp in the first month ttc.
At least that is what i would do.. you can always do a bit less, the three previous months overwrite whatever you do in the tww.
Mariola
December 12th, 2018, 12:22 PM
For boy i would continue unprotected bd in the 2ww. Also keep the excersize. Most likely you will not get a bfp in the first month ttc.
At least that is what i would do.. you can always do a bit less, the three previous months overwrite whatever you do in the tww.Hmm ok i found this: https://www.reliasmedia.com/articles/134764-intercourse-at-the-time-of-implantation-confers-lower-chance-of-conception
What do the other ladies think?
atomic sagebrush
December 12th, 2018, 01:03 PM
You guys, I can't keep up with these support threads. PLEASE ask me questions by posting in the forums rather than here where I rarely see them
Yes keep up diet, exercise, and BD every 2-4 days during the 2ww. After ovulation is a good time to get exposure to the hormones in your husband's semen for future months. Don't worry about it messing up implantation, those of us with all boys always DTD in the 2ww and most women have a surge of libido around 7 DPO (right when babies are implanting) and so it's very unlikely that has any significant negative effect.
Alliwantisblue
December 13th, 2018, 09:06 AM
I meant failed at 3 attempts of bd during peak fertile window. I bd the 25th 29th 30th and 1st but O day was the 30th. Yes I have eaten more sodium than usual as part of my blue sway and didn’t even realize that the nesting is right on I have been cleaning out purses deleting apps and pictures. I told my husband although I’m not feeling like af is coming I also don’t feel like a bfp is coming either. I have had no patience the last few days so I guess I could call it pms but even with that no extreme chocolate cravings like usual and I haven’t gotten the acne. It could all be explained with other things but I’m not sure. my cycles are irregular which does nothing for expecting it lately it’s been around 31- 35 days but this year I have experienced up to 62 days. I have not been diagnosed with PCOS but I think I do have it. That’s why I got ovusense to confirm O. It’s so crazy I just think if the sperm is supposed to meet the egg and you bd around ovulation when the egg is there how do you not get pregnant?
Twogirls0607
December 13th, 2018, 10:18 AM
Hi ladies, can i join here?
Am also in tww, and af should come at 22-23 dec. Hope not! But also im afraid i did some stuff in boy sway bad. We had 2 attempts. On 2 days when i had positive opks. I hope i did good with supps and diet so the timing cant play such big role in my sway. I did bsf also.
I have 2 girls, 4 and 2 years old, and both are conceived with one attempt and about 10+days abstaining.
Last month i had just one day positive opk, i should try than, this now is so confusing and frustrating.
Sillyginger
December 13th, 2018, 04:45 PM
Alliwantisblue, that sounds like a great boy sway! I started to doubt EVERYTHING after O!! Twogirls, you sound a lot like me! Two girls, 4 and 15 mo. The 15 mo old was conceived with a 1 attempt and 4 day abstain prior to. I was living out of town for school for DD1 so we weren’t every 2-4 dayers. We had abstained for about two weeks prior to me coming home just in time for O. Makes so much sense now. Fingers crossed you get a bfp for Christmas and hear blue after that!
Nell_
December 13th, 2018, 05:20 PM
I think AF is starting, took a test yesterday it was negative am due on tomorrow. Think we made our attempt too early on day 11 and I had ov pains day 14. Oh well will try again this cycle. Good luck everyone xx
Twogirls0607
December 13th, 2018, 06:27 PM
Sillyginger i said that when i start reading this site, now it all make sense with my girls.
Is AF came? I read past few pages and i cant tell yet who is due when..
Did you exercise for your sway? I couldnt, im always running thru house for my girls and i was so tired. I did use gelatin for few days.
Thank you for nice answer
Blue2
December 14th, 2018, 09:02 AM
December isn't my month - woke up to extreme cramping @ 3am and a very heavy AF... ugh! Cramps are so bad I still can't sleep
Ava bracelet predicts my next O-day to be Saturday Dec 29th - any "under 2 week blue sway" recommendations? HE, red wine, no cigarettes, sleep, minimal exercise... luckily this sounds like exactly what I always do over Christmas break lol - then BD day of PEAK OPK then every day after?
Sillyginger
December 14th, 2018, 10:48 AM
Well, I’m out this month. Took a test today, 14 dpo, and bfn. I’m bummed but it’s ok. If I’d gotten a bfp, the baby would be due around dd2 birthday. And, hey, one more month on HE diet probably won’t be bad for my blue sway. I just wonder where AF is. I usually have an 11 day luteal phase. Maybe my luteal phase is getting longer due to being healthier and more fertile? That can’t be bad either! Congratulations to all who’ve gotten there bfp this month! Good luck to those still in the tww!! I hope all of us who are out this month get our bfp in January!
mummy2boys
December 14th, 2018, 11:03 AM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
ruupau
December 14th, 2018, 12:15 PM
Praying for you that you carry to 9 months full,
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GirlieCat
December 14th, 2018, 02:24 PM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Congrats mummy. How many dpo are you?
mummy2boys
December 14th, 2018, 03:38 PM
Congrats mummy. How many dpo are you?
Hi GirlieCat, I’m 9dpo. How are you?
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Alliwantisblue
December 14th, 2018, 03:42 PM
I’m so sorry @Blue2 I was just looking for my cycle buddy to see if you tested today. Still no af but that means nothing for me because it’s always random and comes whenever but to nervous to test today did a couple cheapies over the last few days and nothing but negatives last day was 9dpo. I’m scared that I’ll get a bfn and it will ruin the next few weeks of a sway! The only good think about not being pregnant right now is that if I ovulate with you again I’m home from work for the holidays to get all those attempts in!
Alliwantisblue
December 14th, 2018, 03:45 PM
Don’t be bummed with my daughter I didn’t get a positive test until 2 weeks after missed period! It could still happen
Mariola
December 14th, 2018, 05:03 PM
December isn't my month - woke up to extreme cramping @ 3am and a very heavy AF... ugh! Cramps are so bad I still can't sleep
Ava bracelet predicts my next O-day to be Saturday Dec 29th - any "under 2 week blue sway" recommendations? HE, red wine, no cigarettes, sleep, minimal exercise... luckily this sounds like exactly what I always do over Christmas break lol - then BD day of PEAK OPK then every day after?Sorry blue, but yes at least you can sway a bit harder now (; check out the he diet and eat everything and eat it the whole day till you sleep and as soon as you get up (:
LMSM
December 14th, 2018, 05:10 PM
:luck::fingers::heart:
Thinking of you Mummy2boys !!! Fx this is your sticky bean :)
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
mummy2boys
December 14th, 2018, 05:53 PM
:luck::fingers::heart:
Thinking of you Mummy2boys !!! Fx this is your sticky bean :)
Thank you [emoji4]
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Blue2
December 14th, 2018, 06:32 PM
I’m so sorry @Blue2 I was just looking for my cycle buddy to see if you tested today. Still no af but that means nothing for me because it’s always random and comes whenever but to nervous to test today did a couple cheapies over the last few days and nothing but negatives last day was 9dpo. I’m scared that I’ll get a bfn and it will ruin the next few weeks of a sway! The only good think about not being pregnant right now is that if I ovulate with you again I’m home from work for the holidays to get all those attempts in!
Yes! Silver lining, if you get a bfn I will be here waiting for you :) Honestly I'm kind of relieved to have another shot at a better harder blue sway. I was 100% Shettles method 2 weeks ago. Now I know about HE dieting. Going home for the holidays and my mom will undoubtedly overfeed me, I'll get loads of rest (free babysitting for DD woohoo!), and be drinking red wine probably daily
My new timeline is to keep monitoring BBT/CM after this AF, then start OPK testing around 12/17 - Ava bracelet predicts next O-day is 12/29. Hopefully the holiday travel won't throw me off too badly. Thinking we'll BD at least twice a day 12/29-1/3
Keep me posted on your progress! And good luck - if this is your sticky blue bean I will be so thrilled for you!!! And if not, we give it another go ;)
Blue2
December 14th, 2018, 06:33 PM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Fingers crossed for you @mummy2boys!! I'm pretty sure my AF is actually a CP (never had cramps this bad, and the consistency is weird). Can't imagine how emotionally draining it is to go through actual miscarriages. It will all be worth it for a successful sway & beautiful LO :)
Nell_
December 14th, 2018, 07:26 PM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Congratulations!! sorry for your mc's xxx
wildlyluna
December 15th, 2018, 03:23 AM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Congratulations [emoji322]
Lots of sticky dust x
Mum of four monkeys
December 15th, 2018, 06:17 PM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Congrats!.. sending over lots of sticky dust! x
Pbn3
December 15th, 2018, 06:22 PM
Hi ladies, don’t know if anyone remembers me. I’ve been a member for quite a while now and had three miscarriages in the last year and a half. Anyway, I’ve had a break from the boards and this morning I got a very faint bfp. I’m so scared it will end the same way as the last three!! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181214/6d95f748e96b44ae9ba8af08f5ed2803.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Omgness mummy2boys!!!! I'm so excited to see this!!!! Hugest congratulations [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] This just has to be your sticky pink bean! Our journey is so similar - 2 boys followed by 3 losses. My dd arrived in January [emoji173] (still feels surreal to write that) Here's to a h&h 9 months [emoji847]
Going by your chart there was only one attempt, is that right? That would be yet another thing the same as not sure if you remember but I wasn't even trying anymore and randomly dtd once that month and somehow fell pregnant [emoji38]
Will you be finding out gender?
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Mum of four monkeys
December 15th, 2018, 06:29 PM
Hey guys,
I think I’m officially in the tww! Hope nobody minds me joining.
I’ve not been on this forum since falling pregnant with my youngest (1yr old)
So just trying to get my bearings and catch up with what’s changed. 😅
Anyway, congrats to those who have had a BFP and lots of baby dust to all waiting 🤞
4blue2pink
December 15th, 2018, 06:34 PM
Hey guys,
I think I’m officially in the tww! Hope nobody minds me joining.
I’ve not been on this forum since falling pregnant with my youngest (1yr old)
So just trying to get my bearings and catch up with what’s changed.
Anyway, congrats to those who have had a BFP and lots of baby dust to all waiting
everything crossed for you!!!! :heart: it would be so lovely to be in a due date group with you again :) xx
LMSM
December 15th, 2018, 07:05 PM
FX MOFM!!!! Pink dust headed your way!
Mum of four monkeys
December 15th, 2018, 07:10 PM
everything crossed for you!!!! :heart: it would be so lovely to be in a due date group with you again :) xx
I would love nothing more 💜
Mum of four monkeys
December 15th, 2018, 07:14 PM
FX MOFM!!!! Pink dust headed your way!
Thank you so much :fx:
GirlieCat
December 16th, 2018, 01:48 AM
Hi GirlieCat, I’m 9dpo. How are you?
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
9 dpo is early so I am excited to watch your lines get darker and darker. I am good. I am 18dpo and got my BFP at 14dpo but still doesn’t seem real. I won’t go to doctor till 8 weeks so long wait to see what my body does.
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ruupau
December 16th, 2018, 12:45 PM
Quick question so pink swayers are to DTD e4wd during the 2ww? Cos I kinda feel like my libido increased after ovulation and can't resist, ( sorry TMi), and from the long abstain even DH would not accept the pattern, help
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mummy2boys
December 16th, 2018, 04:54 PM
Omgness mummy2boys!!!! I'm so excited to see this!!!! Hugest congratulations [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] This just has to be your sticky pink bean! Our journey is so similar - 2 boys followed by 3 losses. My dd arrived in January [emoji173] (still feels surreal to write that) Here's to a h&h 9 months [emoji847]
Going by your chart there was only one attempt, is that right? That would be yet another thing the same as not sure if you remember but I wasn't even trying anymore and randomly dtd once that month and somehow fell pregnant [emoji38]
Will you be finding out gender?
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Hi Pbn! I’ve missed you! How is your gorgeous little girl? It’s Mara isn’t it?!Yes it does seem like we’ve followed a similar path. Unfortunately I think this bfp is possibly a chemical as there’s no progression in tests so far, I know it’s only been two days but I’ve compared them to last times and they are much fainter. On the positive side, I’ve just had a positive digital so I guess it’s just a waiting game. I’m far too stressed and impatient to be good at waiting though [emoji23][emoji23]
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mummy2boys
December 16th, 2018, 04:57 PM
9 dpo is early so I am excited to watch your lines get darker and darker. I am good. I am 18dpo and got my BFP at 14dpo but still doesn’t seem real. I won’t go to doctor till 8 weeks so long wait to see what my body does.
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Huge congrats girliecat! That’s fab news. Are you still testing or have you managed to stay away from the sticks? [emoji23]I think I’ve spent an absolute fortune on tests already [emoji51] unfortunately mine don’t seem to be darkening at the moment.
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GirlieCat
December 16th, 2018, 05:25 PM
Huge congrats girliecat! That’s fab news. Are you still testing or have you managed to stay away from the sticks? [emoji23]I think I’ve spent an absolute fortune on tests already [emoji51] unfortunately mine don’t seem to be darkening at the moment.
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Haha. I tested with two FRER on 14dpo and then a cheap 99cent store test at 18 dpo just for fun but that is it. My test line is as dark as it can get so no need to keep testing for me. Hope your lines get darker. Are you using first response or internet cheapies?
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mummy2boys
December 16th, 2018, 06:08 PM
Haha. I tested with two FRER on 14dpo and then a cheap 99cent store test at 18 dpo just for fun but that is it. My test line is as dark as it can get so no need to keep testing for me. Hope your lines get darker. Are you using first response or internet cheapies?
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I’m using everything lol. I’ve got cheapies but they are barely there lines so have been using frers. Also had a go with clear blue too [emoji23] So pleased for you that your lines are super dark, that’s really reassuring.
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Pbn3
December 17th, 2018, 07:12 AM
Hi Pbn! I’ve missed you! How is your gorgeous little girl? It’s Mara isn’t it?!Yes it does seem like we’ve followed a similar path. Unfortunately I think this bfp is possibly a chemical as there’s no progression in tests so far, I know it’s only been two days but I’ve compared them to last times and they are much fainter. On the positive side, I’ve just had a positive digital so I guess it’s just a waiting game. I’m far too stressed and impatient to be good at waiting though [emoji23][emoji23]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8Mara is going great almost one [emoji50] not sure whether to celebrate or cry [emoji24] her big brothers absolutely dote on her and often fight over who's going to give her attention [emoji23] it's beautiful to see my boys with their 'baby' and I will be forever grateful they have been able to experience one last baby alongside me. She truly has brought us all nothing but happiness and joy (mostly [emoji6]) and I'm beyond thankful that somehow my insane heartbreaking journey has ended with such happiness. I almost feel guilty [emoji17]
Im regards to your tests, dont stress out about lack of progression over a 24 hour period. Have you got a pic of tests all lined up? From memory your gp or obgyn isn't a fan of the 48 betas but will you ask in qmy case once past af dd?
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Pbn3
December 17th, 2018, 07:14 AM
Quick question so pink swayers are to DTD e4wd during the 2ww? Cos I kinda feel like my libido increased after ovulation and can't resist, ( sorry TMi), and from the long abstain even DH would not accept the pattern, help
Sent from my A7155_X4_mini using TapatalkHi Ruupau! If you're sure you've oed then go ahead and dtd whenever you like during the 2ww. I would suggest protected sex for the first few times though to cover the chance of late o...
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ruupau
December 17th, 2018, 07:20 AM
OK thanks dear, I think am on DPO 4 now, though the glow and fertilityfriend apps telling different the other one is saying i ovulated the day I had positive OPK but you know apps so I think I ovulated,
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Bluedust
December 19th, 2018, 10:28 PM
Hi ladies im back after last months bfn. Im 1DPO today lol have a long 2ww ahead of me. We are swaying blue so we bd the night before +opk, then had 3 more attemlts once i got the +opk. Will have a break today and then continue eod. Hope to have a blue aticky bean this month AF due 3rd Jan so hoping for a new years gift. Goodluck to everyone else too.
Bromedha
December 19th, 2018, 11:22 PM
14 dpo. But only a mild line.. will this go darker ? Or too mild for the dpo .. Any thoughts.. Biting my nails herehttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181220/2f327bafebfbf3e4f17c5a73969ae11b.jpg
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ruupau
December 20th, 2018, 01:58 AM
@ brome maybe it will go darker fingers crossed for you
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mummy2boys
December 20th, 2018, 03:23 AM
Mara is going great almost one [emoji50] not sure whether to celebrate or cry [emoji24] her big brothers absolutely dote on her and often fight over who's going to give her attention [emoji23] it's beautiful to see my boys with their 'baby' and I will be forever grateful they have been able to experience one last baby alongside me. She truly has brought us all nothing but happiness and joy (mostly [emoji6]) and I'm beyond thankful that somehow my insane heartbreaking journey has ended with such happiness. I almost feel guilty [emoji17]
Im regards to your tests, dont stress out about lack of progression over a 24 hour period. Have you got a pic of tests all lined up? From memory your gp or obgyn isn't a fan of the 48 betas but will you ask in qmy case once past af dd?
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Wow, nearly one!!!! That’s has gone so, so fast! I bet you are loving dressing her and getting so much cute girl stuff. And so sweet that her brothers dote on her so much [emoji4]
I don’t know what’s going on with me, I’m still testing and my lines are still not dark and I’m 15dpo now. I’m going to try and ask the doctor for betas but as you remember from last time, it’s a battle getting them! I can have an early scan at 6 weeks but it means going through Christmas in limbo which is stressing me out. On the plus side, no spotting ( and every other time I did have) and my temp is very high. I know I should stop temping but I’m too much of a control freak [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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mummy2boys
December 20th, 2018, 03:24 AM
14 dpo. But only a mild line.. will this go darker ? Or too mild for the dpo .. Any thoughts.. Biting my nails herehttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181220/2f327bafebfbf3e4f17c5a73969ae11b.jpg
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My line is a similar colour too at 14dpo. Congrats! Hope it darkens for you.
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GirlieCat
December 20th, 2018, 03:24 AM
14 dpo. But only a mild line.. will this go darker ? Or too mild for the dpo .. Any thoughts.. Biting my nails herehttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181220/2f327bafebfbf3e4f17c5a73969ae11b.jpg
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Congratulations! Are you absolutely certain of dpo? If you implanted late it would make sense why it is lighter. Keep testing every few days and share the pics with us. Yeah.
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Bromedha
December 20th, 2018, 03:54 AM
Congratulations! Are you absolutely certain of dpo? If you implanted late it would make sense why it is lighter. Keep testing every few days and share the pics with us. Yeah.
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkAm quite sure about the dpo because 2 weeks back evening I got ovulation pain. I might have implanted late since I got past two days cramps..I was thinking PMS and couldn't tolerate the suspense and checked it first today morning... I'll test again if I don't get my AF in 2 days
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ruupau
December 20th, 2018, 07:22 AM
7 DPO and feeling dizzy when I bend and stand straight I noticed was going to fall yesterday in the morning because of dizziness while I was weeding in the garden, in the afternoon yesterday I had some shaking on my hands, since 5DPO have been feeling a bit of saliva in my mouth, do I need a doctor or help
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mummy2boys
December 20th, 2018, 03:05 PM
Hi ladies. Went in for hcg bloods today, my gp will let me do two tests so having another one on Monday. There is some progression in my tests but it’s so very similar to last time (that was a missed miscarriage) that I can’t relax at all. Pic attached from 12 and 15 dpo. What do you reckon? Too light? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181220/1532bae8274cd72a8af09ac6e3df3409.jpg
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Mariola
December 20th, 2018, 04:01 PM
Seems good to me! Hope this is your sticky bean (:
mummy2boys
December 20th, 2018, 04:14 PM
Seems good to me! Hope this is your sticky bean (:
Thank you [emoji4]
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Pbn3
December 20th, 2018, 07:16 PM
Mummy2boys looks ok'ish to me but I'm not at all sold on judging a pregnancy by hpt progression. So glad your doc is willing to do 48 hour betas as yes I do remember how hard it is for you to get bw. It will give you a no question answer and I am hoping with every fibre of my being that this is your sticky rainbow. Will keep checking in for your results [emoji1696][emoji1696][emoji1696][emoji1696]
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Bromedha
December 20th, 2018, 11:42 PM
Hi ladies. Went in for hcg bloods today, my gp will let me do two tests so having another one on Monday. There is some progression in my tests but it’s so very similar to last time (that was a missed miscarriage) that I can’t relax at all. Pic attached from 12 and 15 dpo. What do you reckon? Too light? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181220/1532bae8274cd72a8af09ac6e3df3409.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8Line looks good. Take care. Try not to worry.
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Blue2
December 21st, 2018, 01:31 AM
AF is officially done with me and I'm back in business!! Home for the holidays & intentionally/unintentionally on a HE diet. Going to start tracking OPK sticks tomorrow and have been wearing Ava bracelet religiously.
Congrats to all those with bfp's!! Hoping to join you in January. Ava has my O-day pegged for 12/29 so any blue sway advice is very welcome. Thinking BD Friday 12/28, then as many times as possible 12/29 and daily thereafter... thoughts?
@AllIWantIsBlue are you still around? Just checking up on my twin swayer!! xx
mummy2boys
December 23rd, 2018, 05:12 PM
Well my hcg for 15dpo was 50. That’s much lower than it was last time when I had a miscarriage so it’s not looking hopeful. Anyone got any positive stories of low hcg that might brighten my day? [emoji23] It’s rubbish being in limbo, especially at Christmas x
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Pbn3
December 23rd, 2018, 07:10 PM
Mummy2boys did a quick google and these examples were the first I looked at. Definately still a chance everything is fine. When do you get the next results?https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181223/5dd8290dee5cca9de3793010d0de0463.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181223/ef9efc73644fe9b1d8b00bfce75b81a3.jpg
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LMSM
December 23rd, 2018, 08:04 PM
Fx Mummy! If you implanted a day or two later than you think, that could also explain the not so high number...a BHCG number doesn’t mean much in isolation, you need the second draw.s result to determine if the cinetic (evolution) is good. FX so hard!!!!
Nell_
December 23rd, 2018, 09:00 PM
I was out last month so going to make attempt tomorrow day 12 of cycle 🤞🤞🤞🤞 won't be any other chance with it being xmas day and with family etc! Hope you all have a great Xmas and good luck pink and blue / baby dust to you all 💖💙
Nell_
December 23rd, 2018, 09:01 PM
Hi ladies. Went in for hcg bloods today, my gp will let me do two tests so having another one on Monday. There is some progression in my tests but it’s so very similar to last time (that was a missed miscarriage) that I can’t relax at all. Pic attached from 12 and 15 dpo. What do you reckon? Too light? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181220/1532bae8274cd72a8af09ac6e3df3409.jpg
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Its getting darker that's great 😘
Bromedha
December 24th, 2018, 02:29 AM
I checked yesterday night but got only fainter line almost negative... i was so disappointed and went to bed. But today morning first sample was darker and almost bfp... I'll wait some more time for that BFP... They say first morning sample is always better.. But didn't expect this much difference..
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mummy2boys
December 24th, 2018, 05:05 AM
Thanks everyone. I’m having another test today but won’t get results till after Christmas [emoji53] I have a scan booked in for New Year’s Eve.
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Pbn3
December 24th, 2018, 06:00 AM
Thanks everyone. I’m having another test today but won’t get results till after Christmas [emoji53] I have a scan booked in for New Year’s Eve.
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8Will cross everything for a great result but don't want to get your hopes either up or down [emoji17] I know what it's like to be exactly where you are now so I'm going to say nothing but I'm here for you whether we are celebrating or going through yet more hardship [emoji173] If you're anything like me, you're already prepared for the bad news but have that tiny little corner of hope for good.... and that little tiny hope can mean everything [emoji173][emoji173][emoji173] I'm willing this to happen so much it almost feels like my own pregnancy. Sorry if that's a little weird but I just want this for you so bad [emoji1696][emoji1696]
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Pbn3
December 24th, 2018, 06:38 AM
I checked yesterday night but got only fainter line almost negative... i was so disappointed and went to bed. But today morning first sample was darker and almost bfp... I'll wait some more time for that BFP... They say first morning sample is always better.. But didn't expect this much difference..
Sent from my Redmi Note 5 Pro using TapatalkBromedha what dpo are you and can you post a pic of tests?
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Bromedha
December 24th, 2018, 12:22 PM
Bromedha what dpo are you and can you post a pic of tests?
Sent from my SM-G960F using TapatalkOops..it was really dark , so I didn't take pictures :(
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Bromedha
December 24th, 2018, 12:25 PM
Bromedha what dpo are you and can you post a pic of tests?
Sent from my SM-G960F using Tapatalk19 days dpo . And it is dark.. Not same as control line though.. But surely way better than my 14 days dpo
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mummy2boys
December 24th, 2018, 12:42 PM
Will cross everything for a great result but don't want to get your hopes either up or down [emoji17] I know what it's like to be exactly where you are now so I'm going to say nothing but I'm here for you whether we are celebrating or going through yet more hardship [emoji173] If you're anything like me, you're already prepared for the bad news but have that tiny little corner of hope for good.... and that little tiny hope can mean everything [emoji173][emoji173][emoji173] I'm willing this to happen so much it almost feels like my own pregnancy. Sorry if that's a little weird but I just want this for you so bad [emoji1696][emoji1696]
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Thank you so much Pbn! I feel like you’ve been there every step of this journey and you completely understand what I’m going through. I really, really appreciate your words.
I’ve just called for my results on the off chance they had come back early and they have. Today was 289, 4 days after the last one of 50. What do you reckon?
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ruupau
December 24th, 2018, 03:35 PM
I was out last month so going to make attempt tomorrow day 12 of cycle [emoji1696][emoji1696][emoji1696][emoji1696] won't be any other chance with it being xmas day and with family etc! Hope you all have a great Xmas and good luck pink and blue / baby dust to you all [emoji178][emoji170]Hope it will go as planned, have a happy Xmas too Nell
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Mum of four monkeys
December 24th, 2018, 04:49 PM
Thank you so much Pbn! I feel like you’ve been there every step of this journey and you completely understand what I’m going through. I really, really appreciate your words.
I’ve just called for my results on the off chance they had come back early and they have. Today was 289, 4 days after the last one of 50. What do you reckon?
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That’s looking positive!! It’s defo going up so I say that can only be good
🤞
Mum of four monkeys
December 24th, 2018, 05:10 PM
So I’m currently 9dpo! Wondering if I should bother to test tom at 10dpo or if I’m unlikely to get a accurate result? The earliest I’ve tested in the past is 11dpo with a F-R-E-R I know that’s very early and the majority get one from 12dpo+
Just don’t know if i can be that patient
What do y’all think?
Georgia_Peach
December 24th, 2018, 09:51 PM
So I’m currently 9dpo! Wondering if I should bother to test tom at 10dpo or if I’m unlikely to get a accurate result? The earliest I’ve tested in the past is 11dpo with a F-R-E-R I know that’s very early and the majority get one from 12dpo+
Just don’t know if i can be that patient
What do y’all think?Just jumping onto this thread to answer lol..
I tested my last pregnancy at 4dpt (equivalent to 9dpo) and got a faint positive. It can be possible! Its Christmas... DO IT! HAHA
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Pbn3
December 24th, 2018, 10:32 PM
Thank you so much Pbn! I feel like you’ve been there every step of this journey and you completely understand what I’m going through. I really, really appreciate your words.
I’ve just called for my results on the off chance they had come back early and they have. Today was 289, 4 days after the last one of 50. What do you reckon?
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8I reckon woohoo!!!!!![emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] that is a FANTASTIC result!!! Hcg is more than doubling!!! When is your first scan??!!!https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181225/8a6975fb7c2c64687774fb4a592ce75c.jpg
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GirlieCat
December 24th, 2018, 10:41 PM
I checked yesterday night but got only fainter line almost negative... i was so disappointed and went to bed. But today morning first sample was darker and almost bfp... I'll wait some more time for that BFP... They say first morning sample is always better.. But didn't expect this much difference..
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Post pics!!!
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GirlieCat
December 24th, 2018, 10:44 PM
So I’m currently 9dpo! Wondering if I should bother to test tom at 10dpo or if I’m unlikely to get a accurate result? The earliest I’ve tested in the past is 11dpo with a F-R-E-R I know that’s very early and the majority get one from 12dpo+
Just don’t know if i can be that patient
What do y’all think?
I personally like waiting so I know for sure that it isn’t too soon and whatever true test shows is real but lots of ladies test early and just have to know it might be too soon to be accurate. Good luck.
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GirlieCat
December 24th, 2018, 10:45 PM
19 days dpo . And it is dark.. Not same as control line though.. But surely way better than my 14 days dpo
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I don’t understand what you mean about “dark but not same as control line”? Are you testing for ovulation or pregnancy? Ovulation they need to be the same darkness but pregnancy any second line is positive regardless of darkness.???
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Bromedha
December 25th, 2018, 01:34 AM
I don’t understand what you mean about “dark but not same as control line”? Are you testing for ovulation or pregnancy? Ovulation they need to be the same darkness but pregnancy any second line is positive regardless of darkness.???
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkAm testing for pregnancy only.. it was darker than my earlier faint line. But still not Big Fat Positive(.ie either same as control line or darker than control line )
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mummy2boys
December 25th, 2018, 06:14 AM
So I’m currently 9dpo! Wondering if I should bother to test tom at 10dpo or if I’m unlikely to get a accurate result? The earliest I’ve tested in the past is 11dpo with a F-R-E-R I know that’s very early and the majority get one from 12dpo+
Just don’t know if i can be that patient
What do y’all think?
Personally, I wouldn’t be able to wait! I got a faint positive on 9dpo this time on a frer. Didn’t get anything on cheapie till 14dpo though.
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mummy2boys
December 25th, 2018, 06:16 AM
Am testing for pregnancy only.. it was darker than my earlier faint line. But still not Big Fat Positive(.ie either same as control line or darker than control line )
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Mine have only just got darker then control on a frer and that was 19dpo. I guess it depends what test you are using. If it’s getting darker that sounds good [emoji106]
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mummy2boys
December 25th, 2018, 06:18 AM
I reckon woohoo!!!!!![emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] that is a FANTASTIC result!!! Hcg is more than doubling!!! When is your first scan??!!!https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181225/8a6975fb7c2c64687774fb4a592ce75c.jpg
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Thanks Pbn! [emoji4][emoji4]Feeling slightly better now I know it’s doubled but still cautious as it was doubling last time until week 6. Scan is on New Year’s Eve so not too long too wait [emoji51][emoji51]
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GirlieCat
December 25th, 2018, 10:37 AM
Am testing for pregnancy only.. it was darker than my earlier faint line. But still not Big Fat Positive(.ie either same as control line or darker than control line )
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With pregnancy it doesn’t have to get darker or same darkness. Any line, even the lightest second line is a Big Fat Positive.
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Bromedha
December 25th, 2018, 12:19 PM
With pregnancy it doesn’t have to get darker or same darkness. Any line, even the lightest second line is a Big Fat Positive.
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkSo no need to test again, right ? It won't fade.. You are saying
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Mum of four monkeys
December 25th, 2018, 03:51 PM
Well..I’m a:poas: so couldnt wait. I do agree with girlie about accuracy though!
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Pbn3
December 25th, 2018, 04:22 PM
Congratulations MOFM!
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LMSM
December 25th, 2018, 06:18 PM
Mo2b...that is a perfect number, definitely looking good...FX the scan confirms that soon and you can relax (even just a little) !!
Agree with Girliecat that’s a BDP if you have a 2nd line on a hpt. ;)
MOFM..woooohooooo! Healthy and sticky girly vibes coming your way ;)
ruupau
December 26th, 2018, 12:13 AM
M having my AF but I gt a faint positive preg test on CD27 yesterday and light spotting yesterday now its like AF, I m confused https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181226/344ea7ab7ea3d7d45d52173fe9f308b0.jpg
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GirlieCat
December 26th, 2018, 02:29 AM
Well..I’m a:poas: so couldnt wait. I do agree with girlie about accuracy though!
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Yeah!!! Congratulations!!!
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GirlieCat
December 26th, 2018, 02:33 AM
So no need to test again, right ? It won't fade.. You are saying
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Of course there is always a risk of losing the pregnancy but I don’t think your pregnancy test can predict if you will miscarry.
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Pbn3
December 26th, 2018, 03:30 AM
M having my AF but I gt a faint positive preg test on CD27 yesterday and light spotting yesterday now its like AF, I m confused https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181226/344ea7ab7ea3d7d45d52173fe9f308b0.jpg
Sent from my A7155_X4_mini using TapatalkRuupau these blue dye tests are notorious for false positives plus that line looks a little strange and I'mleaning towards it being a faulty test. I wouldn't trust it at all. Did you do any other tests prior to this one? Pink dye tests like frers are the most reliable for future reference.
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GirlieCat
December 27th, 2018, 10:26 PM
Ruupau these blue dye tests are notorious for false positives plus that line looks a little strange and I'mleaning towards it being a faulty test. I wouldn't trust it at all. Did you do any other tests prior to this one? Pink dye tests like frers are the most reliable for future reference.
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I totally agree!! Not even sure why they sell the blue dye tests still. They are so hard to trust and judge. Pink dye all the way!!!
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GirlieCat
December 28th, 2018, 07:16 PM
M having my AF but I gt a faint positive preg test on CD27 yesterday and light spotting yesterday now its like AF, I m confused https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20181226/344ea7ab7ea3d7d45d52173fe9f308b0.jpg
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Ruupau have you tested again with a pink dye test?
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Babybeaublue
December 30th, 2018, 01:32 PM
Mummy2boys congratulations!!!!! Praying this is your sticky rainbow :ttcgirl:
ABC.2606
December 30th, 2018, 03:58 PM
Mummy2boys I haven’t checked this board for a long time but just saw your update!! Congrats!!!!!!! Hoping your scan goes well & that this is your sticky bean!!!!!!!
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mummy2boys
December 31st, 2018, 08:41 AM
Thanks ladies [emoji4][emoji4] I’m afraid I think it’s bad news again though. Scan showed tiny sac with nothing in it. I should be 5 weeks 6 days ( I got bfp on 9dpo so pretty sure on dates) I think it’s another blighted ovum [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
ruupau
December 31st, 2018, 08:50 AM
Ruupau have you tested again with a pink dye test?
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkYeah I did test dear it was negative, blue tests give false positive, now CD7 waiting for ovulation to do my attempt, thanks for concern good people
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Lexzeppelin89
December 31st, 2018, 05:39 PM
Thanks ladies [emoji4][emoji4] I’m afraid I think it’s bad news again though. Scan showed tiny sac with nothing in it. I should be 5 weeks 6 days ( I got bfp on 9dpo so pretty sure on dates) I think it’s another blighted ovum [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8Will you have another scan soon?? It's still very early! I'm hoping this is it for you!!
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Lexzeppelin89
December 31st, 2018, 05:40 PM
I've been kinda MIA from this site as I'm not currently ttc BUT hoping to be back on LE diet tomorrow (or next day) then TTC in Feb!! Anyone else?
How is everybody? Happy almost new year!!
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wildlyluna
January 1st, 2019, 12:11 AM
Thanks ladies [emoji4][emoji4] I’m afraid I think it’s bad news again though. Scan showed tiny sac with nothing in it. I should be 5 weeks 6 days ( I got bfp on 9dpo so pretty sure on dates) I think it’s another blighted ovum [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Have they said to come back in a couple of weeks? At this stage it’s still too early to see much [emoji4] fx for you xx
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GirlieCat
January 1st, 2019, 01:48 AM
Thanks ladies [emoji4][emoji4] I’m afraid I think it’s bad news again though. Scan showed tiny sac with nothing in it. I should be 5 weeks 6 days ( I got bfp on 9dpo so pretty sure on dates) I think it’s another blighted ovum [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
I am really surprised they would even check so soon. Could it just be too early? My doc won’t do an US till 8 weeks.
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2019, 03:13 AM
Thanks ladies [emoji4][emoji4] I’m afraid I think it’s bad news again though. Scan showed tiny sac with nothing in it. I should be 5 weeks 6 days ( I got bfp on 9dpo so pretty sure on dates) I think it’s another blighted ovum [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8That's really early mummy2boys so I'm still holding onto hope. When is the next scan? At 8 weeks?
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mummy2boys
January 1st, 2019, 06:03 AM
Thanks everyone, I know it’s early but everything I’ve read says the sac should be much bigger. Mine is 2 mm which is consistent with a 4 week pregnancy and I should be 5 and a half at least. I have another blood test on Wednesday to see if hcg is doubling, it was 2109 yesterday. The waiting and limbo is the worst [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
4blue2pink
January 1st, 2019, 06:47 PM
keeping everything crossed for you mummy2boys :heart:
Babybeaublue
January 2nd, 2019, 01:27 PM
Mummy how long til you can get the results?
mummy2boys
January 2nd, 2019, 02:08 PM
Just got them, it’s definitely bad news [emoji17][emoji17] Only gone up to 2187. Looking like 4th miscarriage in a row [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Babybeaublue
January 2nd, 2019, 03:29 PM
Oh no! Is it definite? I'm not sure how it works. Is anyone able to give you ant answers or help?
ABC.2606
January 2nd, 2019, 05:30 PM
I’m so sorry Mummy :(. I just don’t understand why this keeps happening.
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Pbn3
January 2nd, 2019, 05:32 PM
Just got them, it’s definitely bad news [emoji17][emoji17] Only gone up to 2187. Looking like 4th miscarriage in a row [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8I am so sorry mummy2boys [emoji174] how are you coping? Have you been offered a d&c? I would definately opt for one if so, you have had more than enough waiting and being in limbo, I hope you are given the option at least. Please know you can pm me anytime, always here for you xo
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GirlieCat
January 3rd, 2019, 01:58 AM
Just got them, it’s definitely bad news [emoji17][emoji17] Only gone up to 2187. Looking like 4th miscarriage in a row [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
So sorry mummy. My heart breaks for you.
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Nell_
January 3rd, 2019, 02:30 AM
Just got them, it’s definitely bad news [emoji17][emoji17] Only gone up to 2187. Looking like 4th miscarriage in a row [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
Am so sorry thinking of you!
ruupau
January 3rd, 2019, 12:43 PM
Sorry mummy, I don't really understand about the numbers but my heart aches for you, sorry
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Mariola
January 11th, 2019, 07:38 AM
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Mommy2apples
January 12th, 2019, 01:41 AM
Man mummy I had just asked about you ugh I hate this for you have they done any tests to see why this keeps happening to you?
Nell_
January 12th, 2019, 06:41 AM
Just got them, it’s definitely bad news [emoji17][emoji17] Only gone up to 2187. Looking like 4th miscarriage in a row [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
So sorry how heart breaking sending hugs xox
TA Sait
January 12th, 2019, 07:32 AM
So sorry to hear m2b..
Really hope you cope with well....
LMSM
January 12th, 2019, 08:43 AM
SO sorry Mummy.... so heartbreaking to see this. I hope your Dr is willing to help to ensure you get that sticky healthy bean :awe: big :hugs:
kikurose
January 18th, 2019, 03:05 PM
Just got them, it’s definitely bad news [emoji17][emoji17] Only gone up to 2187. Looking like 4th miscarriage in a row [emoji17]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8
You've been on my mind and I am so sad to see this. My heart breaks for you, mummy. Sending you so much love.
Lexzeppelin89
January 21st, 2019, 06:49 PM
Will there be a jan thread or just this one? How is everyone doing with ttc & pregnancies? :)
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Cookies22
January 27th, 2019, 07:10 PM
Hi everyone, I'm also wondering if this is the place to chat about our January 2WW?
This is my first month swaying. I have one gorgeous little baby boy, 21 months, and am TTC pink this time around. I've been on the LE diet for 12 weeks and run / hike for an hour a day. BD 2 days ago and ovulated last night (I could feel the cramping). Excited to be in the TTC game again! Amazing how you go from desperately not wanting to get pregnant to desperately wanting a baby in your belly ASAP!
Excited to be on this journey with you x
Pbn3
January 27th, 2019, 09:30 PM
Ladies I have created a February ttc & 2ww thread. I cant post the link for some reason but if you go to Forums, find and select Trying to conceive/adoption, then the 2ww section and you'll find February 2019 ttc & 2ww thread.
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Cookies22
January 27th, 2019, 09:41 PM
Thanks Pbn3!
Nell_
January 28th, 2019, 02:58 AM
Hi girls im in the jan ttc 2ww group im 7dpo hopefully we can all be in the due date group together feel free to join us in the ttc jan and thanks pb will join in the feb group if this attempt was unsuccessful :nails:
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