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HappyLea
January 5th, 2012, 11:46 AM
Ladies,

We have made the decision to start TTC in March, im just finding it so so hard to wait....argh!!! I am just so so impatient!
If it was upto me i would start now, its killing me waiting but DH wants to wait. I cant really complain about it, it has taken alot for him to agree to March as we were originally going to wait till our 3 boys were older.

We have started taking supps and diet in prep for our sway.

How do you ladies waiting deal with the wait, its killing me its all i think about??!!

rainbowflower
January 5th, 2012, 12:22 PM
March will be here before you know it!

HappyLea
January 5th, 2012, 12:26 PM
Thanks rainbowflower! I know it will, im just so broody and watching one born every minute last night made me even more broody.

Im so excited!!! I think i need something else to focus on until March but i just dont know what.

rainbowflower
January 5th, 2012, 12:28 PM
oh, it was a good episode last night! made me very broody too ;)

HappyLea
January 5th, 2012, 12:34 PM
I love that programme!!! What a big boy the 1st baby was at 10lbs 10oz!! The dad was a prat tho, understandably upset about not seeing his son born, but wrong way to act!!!
When i saw baby girl be born so emotional, wish that will be me one day!!! Love my boys to bits wouldnt change them for the world but i would love a lil pink bundle fx swaying and praying works this time as its our last.

angel-pink
January 5th, 2012, 02:32 PM
i feel the same everytime anyone has a girl i think i'll be a wreck and keep checking her nappy if i ever have one making sure nothing changes lol crazy mommy right here lol

chachamama
January 5th, 2012, 05:57 PM
We are going to try in March too and I wish it was NOW!! I'm having a hard time waiting too... but using the time to lose weight, get the stuff together I'll need (rephresh, OPK) and getting excited to TTC again :)

HappyLea
January 5th, 2012, 06:43 PM
I too am trying to use the time to lose weight, i have bought all my stuff for swaying and already started on supps. Im really excited and just wish March would get here already!!!

Maple
January 9th, 2012, 08:23 PM
I have been desperate to start TTC for the last 6 months, but now I only have 1 more practice cycle until our 1st attempt in Feb - I am terrified! It is such a finely tuned event, that I am scared of making mistakes! Still can't pinpoint 0+12!! Good luck in March X

HappyLea
January 10th, 2012, 05:27 AM
Thanks Maple, Good Luck with your attempt in Feb. We also make our 1st attempt in Feb, it sure is very frightening. I too cannot 100% pinpoint O+12 as my cycles are not the same each month.
Im not going to stress about it tho just going to trust my body and the signs.

FX for BFP's and lots of pink dust xxx

auroara78
January 10th, 2012, 10:05 AM
I understand, I am always wanting to do things NOW once I get it in my head that I want to do something!

I would advise maybe get into a new author if you like to read? I love reading and it helps take my mind away from RL stuff when I need a break.

Also, I found really focusing and planning my sway takes up quite a bit of time, and you'll feel more calm having a firm set in stone plan.....

Sunset
January 10th, 2012, 11:16 AM
March really isn't far away but i know exactly how you feel! We decided to wait a few months before ttc and it really was torture!!!! I did my first attempt in March last year (started the diet and supps in january) and the wait was just so terrible! i used to spend hours every evening after the boys had gone to bed researching about swaying.. it was really very time and thought consuming to the point of becoming an obsession. Good luck with your attempt, it will be here before you know it :)

HappyLea
January 10th, 2012, 12:49 PM
Thanks ladies, i can honestly say and my DH will agree that the research and planning that has gone into swaying already has taken alot of my time and sometimes i feel like im obsessed.

The time that has gone into researching and planning will be worth it tho as i feel totally at ease with our plan and know that it is the right one for us.When we do make our attempt i know what we will be doing and not stressing about what i should be doing. I will also feel that no matter what we have tried to do everything we can to up the % of girl and will not regret anything.

I have just been and bought a very pretty little pink dress to wrap up and put underneath my bed. If we are lucky and get a girl then it will be her coming home dress but if not then it will stay wrapped up until i get a grandaughter :)