Meghan Markle just had a... BOY???!!

[WelcomeBaby]

Could have SWORN she was having a girl and well aware of it!!! After all the hints and innuendo!! AND she follows a mostly vegan diet and as an actress is probably used to constant dieting! Only explanation I have is that she probably took heaps of prenatals to make sure she has a healthy bub! Still in shock though...

[ksmom]

I thought they were having a girl too with all the hinting. Congratulations to them!

[4blue2pink]

they openly said they wanted a girl right the way through the pregnancy which i think caused a lot of speculation, it seemed like the gender was known but not formally announced.. the bookies went crazy slashing the odds over girls names and "its a girl" but nothing for boy.. really strange!!

[atomic sagebrush]

I thought it would be a boy because of the Maternal Dominance Hypothesis, plus, there's no doubt in my mind that she went into the pregnancy eating very very well, taking her vitamins, etc.

[Nell_]

I thought boy as blue wrapping paper at her baby shower. Plus bet she was eating so healthy no dieting in preparation to get pregnant asap after the eedding.

[PadrePioidevotemyfirstson]

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[trifecta]

She's definitely a healthy eater but I was still surprised. I thought it would be a girl just because she's in her late thirties and had just had the stress of getting married.

I had a very bad reaction when Kate had Charlotte. My husband probably thought I was completely nuts because I sobbed for an entire morning and honestly it still bugs me a little even now. And it would have been nice to not hear people saying things like "It has to be a girl because Kate is pretty."

But I would have been ok with Meghan having a girl just because it's their first and for some reason that doesn't bother me.

[Nell_]

She's definitely a healthy eater but I was still surprised. I thought it would be a girl just because she's in her late thirties and had just had the stress of getting married.

I had a very bad reaction when Kate had Charlotte. My husband probably thought I was completely nuts because I sobbed for an entire morning and honestly it still bugs me a little even now. And it would have been nice to not hear people saying things like "It has to be a girl because Kate is pretty."

But I would have been ok with Meghan having a girl just because it's their first and for some reason that doesn't bother me.

Really oh no 😭 they can't even dress her nicely though.. kate and William are so traditional i think their kids clothes are horrid so dont feel jealous in the slightest 😂
Hugs xx

[MrsSparkles]

I thought boys as she seems the one in charge of the relationship!

[Sora]

Could have SWORN she was having a girl and well aware of it!!! After all the hints and innuendo!! AND she follows a mostly vegan diet and as an actress is probably used to constant dieting! Only explanation I have is that she probably took heaps of prenatals to make sure she has a healthy bub! Still in shock though...

I thought she would have a girl too, she just had that pink mom vibe, you know ? But wait, she is vegan ? Although it doesn't surprise me re: her boy because all vegans I know have sons. I even thought for a time vegan had to be THE magic switch for blue. But like atomic said, well informed vegans take heaps of supps, especially before TTC, so...

[atomic sagebrush]

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That women who are socially dominant have more sons and there's not much that makes a person feel more socially dominant than marrying a prince, LOL!

[atomic sagebrush]

I thought she would have a girl too, she just had that pink mom vibe, you know ? But wait, she is vegan ? Although it doesn't surprise me re: her boy because all vegans I know have sons. I even thought for a time vegan had to be THE magic switch for blue. But like atomic said, well informed vegans take heaps of supps, especially before TTC, so...

:agree: vegans are also super controlling over everything they eat, and being a control freak sways blue!

[WelcomeBaby]

That women who are socially dominant have more sons and there's not much that makes a person feel more socially dominant than marrying a prince, LOL!

Yes, good point of course :) However, I know 2 women for whom their diet obviously overrode their dominance or lack thereof - one complete Alpha lady who's on the chubby side and always dieting in some form or another who has 2 daughters, and one super gentle "Mary" who happened to conceive twice right after Christmas, meaning after indulging in rich comfort food and constant snacking on nuts and cookies for at least 4 weeks, and she has 2 boys. So I assumed that for Meghan Markle it would be similar. But this just proves that you can never predict an individual woman's baby's sex no matter how closely you look at the circumstances - you just never know which influence was the strongest when she conceived!

Oh, and for vegetarianism and veganism as sway tactics: I know 6 vegetarians (including myself before my sway) - either full-blown or 90%, meaning they eat/ate meat maybe once a month - with 6 boys between them, 1 girl. The only vegan I know just had a boy, too. All quite young - mid-20ies to early 30ies - and have been on the lifestyle for many years, some for decades. It is NOT a weight loss diet for them, they are all slim and never count calories or use diet products. They only eat full fat dairy and most of them snack a lot on really healthy (and fatty!) things like nuts, trail mix, avocado toast etc. I've observed that long-term vegetarians seem to intuitively make up for lack in calories / animal proteins by eating lots of protein-packed and oily plant foods, like chick-pea curries, oily pancakes (eggs!), Buddha bowls with loads of dressing etc. And of course carbs + fats at every meal is a superb blue sway, even if your protein intake stays somewhat low. Also, let's not forget that for women with PCOS tendencies, and that seems to be a whopping 20% of us according to the Rotterdam criteria, this type of diet would aggravate the PCOS and sway blue (happened to me, hence DS1).
Of course, if you come off the SAD - Standard American Diet - full of fatty meats and processed foods and start to eat a calorie controlled vegetarian diet full of non-starchy veg, maybe even with the intent to lose weight, now THAT's a pink sway. It's just that a vegetarian/vegan lifestyle is not a pink sway per se.

[WelcomeBaby]

She's definitely a healthy eater but I was still surprised. I thought it would be a girl just because she's in her late thirties and had just had the stress of getting married.

I had a very bad reaction when Kate had Charlotte. My husband probably thought I was completely nuts because I sobbed for an entire morning and honestly it still bugs me a little even now. And it would have been nice to not hear people saying things like "It has to be a girl because Kate is pretty."

But I would have been ok with Meghan having a girl just because it's their first and for some reason that doesn't bother me.

I'm sorry you took it so hard. I think that's natural because maybe she was getting what you wanted (and didn't have at that point). Funnily, for me it was the other way round - I'm getting this vibe from Kate that she just loves kids (seems to be wanting to have a fourth :)) and for that reason, I was totally o.k. if some of them were girls. :) If someone, on the other hand, lets it be known how much they would prefer a certain gender and then promptly get exactly what they want, that's what I resent personally. (I even ended a friendship with a woman who told me that she really never wanted a boy and when she had a daughter after her son, she started to "act like she cured cancer", as Atomic once put it, and even once said how she only ever became a real mom after her girl and things like that. It got so nasty that I didn't see the point in being friends any more.)

[Sora]

Yes, good point of course :) However, I know 2 women for whom their diet obviously overrode their dominance or lack thereof - one complete Alpha lady who's on the chubby side and always dieting in some form or another who has 2 daughters, and one super gentle "Mary" who happened to conceive twice right after Christmas, meaning after indulging in rich comfort food and constant snacking on nuts and cookies for at least 4 weeks, and she has 2 boys. So I assumed that for Meghan Markle it would be similar. But this just proves that you can never predict an individual woman's baby's sex no matter how closely you look at the circumstances - you just never know which influence was the strongest when she conceived!

Oh, and for vegetarianism and veganism as sway tactics: I know 6 vegetarians (including myself before my sway) - either full-blown or 90%, meaning they eat/ate meat maybe once a month - with 6 boys between them, 1 girl. The only vegan I know just had a boy, too. All quite young - mid-20ies to early 30ies - and have been on the lifestyle for many years, some for decades. It is NOT a weight loss diet for them, they are all slim and never count calories or use diet products. They only eat full fat dairy and most of them snack a lot on really healthy (and fatty!) things like nuts, trail mix, avocado toast etc. I've observed that long-term vegetarians seem to intuitively make up for lack in calories / animal proteins by eating lots of protein-packed and oily plant foods, like chick-pea curries, oily pancakes (eggs!), Buddha bowls with loads of dressing etc. And of course carbs + fats at every meal is a superb blue sway, even if your protein intake stays somewhat low. Also, let's not forget that for women with PCOS tendencies, and that seems to be a whopping 20% of us according to the Rotterdam criteria, this type of diet would aggravate the PCOS and sway blue (happened to me, hence DS1).
Of course, if you come off the SAD - Standard American Diet - full of fatty meats and processed foods and start to eat a calorie controlled vegetarian diet full of non-starchy veg, maybe even with the intent to lose weight, now THAT's a pink sway. It's just that a vegetarian/vegan lifestyle is not a pink sway per se.

I'm with you about the dominant part. True, most boys moms I know are VERY dominant. But if we go with that, then so am I : the only one taking charge at home (since childhood because with no mother, you have to be THE woman of the house), caring for the bills, the kids, the meals, the holidays while husband is quite happy to stay in his very own bubble, letting time and life fly by. I would not say I'm dominant at work but I tend to work alone because I just don't trust anyone getting things done the way they should. I'm known as a stickler for details, very serious and hard-working. I've been raised to always seek perfection, push the limits and I can't sleep if I feel I've not been doing enough (I cried at my graduation because I felt 2nd place at barely 17 wasn't good enough for God's sake !). I'm also quite competitive... and I have no boy to show for it.

I have moments where I can let go of course but if you ask dear husband, I'm just "constantly driving myself crazy with details". I've been vegetarian for years but never tried to make up for lack in calories (always couting these btw) because I... simply don't care what happens to me as long as I succeed somewhere I guess.

Also, there's something interesting in what you say. It's the way different countries have different views on what is a standard diet/healthy diet/dieting/vegetarianism/veganism and the effects a change of diet have on people. In some places, vegetarianism IS the standard diet.
If you ask any French for example, they will tell you the SAD is some horrible thing where you ingest loads of fat, processed things and end up dying an early death. Not one of them would label that "standard" in any way nor do they try to follow it. Even HE diet, while balanced, still looks like a huge moutain to climb.
On the other hand, the Standard French Diet, at barely 1200-1500 cals/day (for women) looks like some vegetarian parody to a lot of countries, even European ones. Even more so now, with the price of meat going through the roof while vegans are pushing for its eradication from any and all markets/restaurants and especially from childrens' meals. On the subject of French vegans, they are also pushing towards the disappearance of all animal-based fats. Still, the ratio boys-girls stay more or less the same for now. If anything, we've seen more blue births lately and it shows in kindergatens.

[Nell_]

I'm sorry you took it so hard. I think that's natural because maybe she was getting what you wanted (and didn't have at that point). Funnily, for me it was the other way round - I'm getting this vibe from Kate that she just loves kids (seems to be wanting to have a fourth :)) and for that reason, I was totally o.k. if some of them were girls. :) If someone, on the other hand, lets it be known how much they would prefer a certain gender and then promptly get exactly what they want, that's what I resent personally. (I even ended a friendship with a woman who told me that she really never wanted a boy and when she had a daughter after her son, she started to "act like she cured cancer", as Atomic once put it, and even once said how she only ever became a real mom after her girl and things like that. It got so nasty that I didn't see the point in being friends any more.)

Wow i don't blame you i could never be friends with someone like that either. Every baby is a huge blessing xxxx

[WelcomeBaby]

I'm with you about the dominant part. True, most boys moms I know are VERY dominant. But if we go with that, then so am I : the only one taking charge at home (since childhood because with no mother, you have to be THE woman of the house), caring for the bills, the kids, the meals, the holidays while husband is quite happy to stay in his very own bubble, letting time and life fly by. I would not say I'm dominant at work but I tend to work alone because I just don't trust anyone getting things done the way they should. I'm known as a stickler for details, very serious and hard-working. I've been raised to always seek perfection, push the limits and I can't sleep if I feel I've not been doing enough (I cried at my graduation because I felt 2nd place at barely 17 wasn't good enough for God's sake !). I'm also quite competitive... and I have no boy to show for it.

I have moments where I can let go of course but if you ask dear husband, I'm just "constantly driving myself crazy with details". I've been vegetarian for years but never tried to make up for lack in calories (always couting these btw) because I... simply don't care what happens to me as long as I succeed somewhere I guess.

Also, there's something interesting in what you say. It's the way different countries have different views on what is a standard diet/healthy diet/dieting/vegetarianism/veganism and the effects a change of diet have on people. In some places, vegetarianism IS the standard diet.
If you ask any French for example, they will tell you the SAD is some horrible thing where you ingest loads of fat, processed things and end up dying an early death. Not one of them would label that "standard" in any way nor do they try to follow it. Even HE diet, while balanced, still looks like a huge moutain to climb.
On the other hand, the Standard French Diet, at barely 1200-1500 cals/day (for women) looks like some vegetarian parody to a lot of countries, even European ones. Even more so now, with the price of meat going through the roof while vegans are pushing for its eradication from any and all markets/restaurants and especially from childrens' meals. On the subject of French vegans, they are also pushing towards the disappearance of all animal-based fats. Still, the ratio boys-girls stay more or less the same for now. If anything, we've seen more blue births lately and it shows in kindergatens.

Wow, you sound like you have a very strong and driven personality, I admire that a lot! It also sounds that you maybe just have to up your calories and start snacking all the time to get a boy (since you already have more of a boy mom personality than me, for instance). I guess that's what you're working on :) KMFC for you!
Well, regarding the SAD, I go off of what I read on the internet, like on health.gov where they seem to be deeply worried about it and pretty much use the same phrasing as the French women you cited. :D But yes, the Standard French Diet - I'm not familiar with this at all - does sound like a parody! 1200-1500 cals/day?? I couldn't survive on this even for two weeks, vegetarian or not (no wonder I'm a boy mom!).
Yes, those hard-sell vegans are becoming a problem in Europe. That sounds harsh, but pushing towards the disappearance of all animal fats is very extreme and NOT healthy. Interestingly, the boy mom vegetarians I know (who are not pushy at all, just don't eat meat because they genuinely don't care for its taste) do not mind animal fats at all and have plenty of full fat dairy and eggs basically every single day. So, yes, it is very interesting how the perspectives differ in the different countries and socio-cultural environments!

[Sora]

Wow, you sound like you have a very strong and driven personality, I admire that a lot! It also sounds that you maybe just have to up your calories and start snacking all the time to get a boy (since you already have more of a boy mom personality than me, for instance). I guess that's what you're working on :) KMFC for you!
Well, regarding the SAD, I go off of what I read on the internet, like on health.gov where they seem to be deeply worried about it and pretty much use the same phrasing as the French women you cited. :D But yes, the Standard French Diet - I'm not familiar with this at all - does sound like a parody! 1200-1500 cals/day?? I couldn't survive on this even for two weeks, vegetarian or not (no wonder I'm a boy mom!).
Yes, those hard-sell vegans are becoming a problem in Europe. That sounds harsh, but pushing towards the disappearance of all animal fats is very extreme and NOT healthy. Interestingly, the boy mom vegetarians I know (who are not pushy at all, just don't eat meat because they genuinely don't care for its taste) do not mind animal fats at all and have plenty of full fat dairy and eggs basically every single day. So, yes, it is very interesting how the perspectives differ in the different countries and socio-cultural environments!

Thank you for your kind post. Let's say I try to be and stay strong in what I believe.

Yep I do think the prob lies in my calories and nutrients, despite a love for full-fat dairy, I was lacking in many things (especially vitD, folic and iron). I am working on it with the supps and diet.
Hehe I've heard the same lately when I comment about cals in France. But yes, you can survive with that for years. I've heard somewhere that French women have one of the lowest BMI of Europe. There's also a strong cultural perception of how much calories you eat. If you go higher than 1500 a day without being a professionnal athlete or a pregnant woman, you're a pig and that's it. Recently, our own health.gov has been pretty worried about it (especially because they got reports of pregnant women being so worried about cals that they spent their whole pregnancy eating only a banana or apple a day). They have since raised the stakes to 1800-2000 cals and ordered docs to not comment about the weight of a patient, especially a woman, especially a pregnant woman, unless it greatly endangers his/her health.
But public opinion is very hard to change. A month ago, there was some article in the medias that said that the average size for a French woman was 14(UK)-10(USA). Cue screaming and protesting from the general population, men and women alike, of "fake news" "what has our country come to ?" "we are being invaded by SAD !"... The mini-scandal ended with everyone agreeing that a woman couldn't have a higher size than 10(UK)-6(US) "which is fat enough already", with size 8-4 being the "right size every true healthy woman should aim for".

Well those hard-sell vegans are harsh, no prob in being harsh in return. I'm vegetarian, friends with other vegetarians who are pretty much like you described. We never forced our no-meat policy down anyone's throats, not even our families and vegans have given us quite a bad name. Now I see fear in people's eyes when I have to eat outside and mention that I won't take meat since I'm vegetarian. Workers in restaurants are afraid I will destroy their building or sue them if I see meat and coworkers, friends and acquaintances are worried I will call them murderers, monsters or lecture their children about the evils of animal fats. They are so relieved when I assure them I don't care about that and enjoy my milk and cheese just fine that it would be comical if it wasn't so embarrassing.:suprise:

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, good point of course :) However, I know 2 women for whom their diet obviously overrode their dominance or lack thereof - one complete Alpha lady who's on the chubby side and always dieting in some form or another who has 2 daughters, and one super gentle "Mary" who happened to conceive twice right after Christmas, meaning after indulging in rich comfort food and constant snacking on nuts and cookies for at least 4 weeks, and she has 2 boys. So I assumed that for Meghan Markle it would be similar. But this just proves that you can never predict an individual woman's baby's sex no matter how closely you look at the circumstances - you just never know which influence was the strongest when she conceived!

Oh, and for vegetarianism and veganism as sway tactics: I know 6 vegetarians (including myself before my sway) - either full-blown or 90%, meaning they eat/ate meat maybe once a month - with 6 boys between them, 1 girl. The only vegan I know just had a boy, too. All quite young - mid-20ies to early 30ies - and have been on the lifestyle for many years, some for decades. It is NOT a weight loss diet for them, they are all slim and never count calories or use diet products. They only eat full fat dairy and most of them snack a lot on really healthy (and fatty!) things like nuts, trail mix, avocado toast etc. I've observed that long-term vegetarians seem to intuitively make up for lack in calories / animal proteins by eating lots of protein-packed and oily plant foods, like chick-pea curries, oily pancakes (eggs!), Buddha bowls with loads of dressing etc. And of course carbs + fats at every meal is a superb blue sway, even if your protein intake stays somewhat low. Also, let's not forget that for women with PCOS tendencies, and that seems to be a whopping 20% of us according to the Rotterdam criteria, this type of diet would aggravate the PCOS and sway blue (happened to me, hence DS1).
Of course, if you come off the SAD - Standard American Diet - full of fatty meats and processed foods and start to eat a calorie controlled vegetarian diet full of non-starchy veg, maybe even with the intent to lose weight, now THAT's a pink sway. It's just that a vegetarian/vegan lifestyle is not a pink sway per se.

None of these things are 100%. There are dozens if not hundreds of elements that work in concert to affect the gender outcome and the biggest one is LUCK. We can never know by looking at any one individual's personality or diet what gender their kids are, because swaying is not 100%. There seems to be an upper theoretical limit on the amount of variation in the gender outcome (which makes sense because Mother Nature would always want some boys and some girls born across a population) somewhere between 70-80% and so you can never know if a person was 80% likely to have one gender and then through sheer dumb luck fell into the 20% opposites. It's just not possible to see by looking at individuals. Only by looking across the population as a whole can we start to pick out the trends that we can hopefully tap into. :)

[WelcomeBaby]

Thank you for your kind post. Let's say I try to be and stay strong in what I believe.

Yep I do think the prob lies in my calories and nutrients, despite a love for full-fat dairy, I was lacking in many things (especially vitD, folic and iron). I am working on it with the supps and diet.
Hehe I've heard the same lately when I comment about cals in France. But yes, you can survive with that for years. I've heard somewhere that French women have one of the lowest BMI of Europe. There's also a strong cultural perception of how much calories you eat. If you go higher than 1500 a day without being a professionnal athlete or a pregnant woman, you're a pig and that's it. Recently, our own health.gov has been pretty worried about it (especially because they got reports of pregnant women being so worried about cals that they spent their whole pregnancy eating only a banana or apple a day). They have since raised the stakes to 1800-2000 cals and ordered docs to not comment about the weight of a patient, especially a woman, especially a pregnant woman, unless it greatly endangers his/her health.
But public opinion is very hard to change. A month ago, there was some article in the medias that said that the average size for a French woman was 14(UK)-10(USA). Cue screaming and protesting from the general population, men and women alike, of "fake news" "what has our country come to ?" "we are being invaded by SAD !"... The mini-scandal ended with everyone agreeing that a woman couldn't have a higher size than 10(UK)-6(US) "which is fat enough already", with size 8-4 being the "right size every true healthy woman should aim for".

Well those hard-sell vegans are harsh, no prob in being harsh in return. I'm vegetarian, friends with other vegetarians who are pretty much like you described. We never forced our no-meat policy down anyone's throats, not even our families and vegans have given us quite a bad name. Now I see fear in people's eyes when I have to eat outside and mention that I won't take meat since I'm vegetarian. Workers in restaurants are afraid I will destroy their building or sue them if I see meat and coworkers, friends and acquaintances are worried I will call them murderers, monsters or lecture their children about the evils of animal fats. They are so relieved when I assure them I don't care about that and enjoy my milk and cheese just fine that it would be comical if it wasn't so embarrassing.:suprise:

Well, I guess I'll happily be a pig then!! :D
But of course what you describe is not funny at all. I love France, but I really think I couldn't live among women like this. Glad you have more laid-back friends, and yes, you sound totally like my vegetarian friends (and me before the LE PCOS diet) who all had cute and healthy boys, and I'm confident you have a very, very good chance at a son. When are you attempting? Sending you all my blue dust!!

[WelcomeBaby]

None of these things are 100%. There are dozens if not hundreds of elements that work in concert to affect the gender outcome and the biggest one is LUCK. We can never know by looking at any one individual's personality or diet what gender their kids are, because swaying is not 100%. There seems to be an upper theoretical limit on the amount of variation in the gender outcome (which makes sense because Mother Nature would always want some boys and some girls born across a population) somewhere between 70-80% and so you can never know if a person was 80% likely to have one gender and then through sheer dumb luck fell into the 20% opposites. It's just not possible to see by looking at individuals. Only by looking across the population as a whole can we start to pick out the trends that we can hopefully tap into. :)

I know this to be absolutely correct because for almost 2 years I've been trying to predict newly pregnant ladies' babies' genders by just looking at their lifestyle, diet and personality, and I was right in even less than 50% of all cases!

[Sora]

Well, I guess I'll happily be a pig then!! :D
But of course what you describe is not funny at all. I love France, but I really think I couldn't live among women like this. Glad you have more laid-back friends, and yes, you sound totally like my vegetarian friends (and me before the LE PCOS diet) who all had cute and healthy boys, and I'm confident you have a very, very good chance at a son. When are you attempting? Sending you all my blue dust!!

God I hope so ! Thank you ! I'm attempting this summer. I dare not try sooner even though I was tempted because husband's work often has him away during O and like I said in another post, I'm not trying the one attempt ever again XD. So now we will TTC on the months when I'm sure he will be home for the 3 attempts around O.

Sending you all my pink dust and I hope you get your girl at the end of the year !

[hurrem]

I was on the fence about this, sometimes it seemed she would have a girl, at other times a boy. Before pregnancy Meghan was super skinny, especially her legs and that reminded me of a post about how women with skinny legs have more girls(like my uncle's wife with their 2 girls). But what we see on the outside does not matter as much of what is going on inside, and in Meghan's case, for sure she would have taken many supplements and ate healthy, organic produce to prepare for a pregnancy. Being a rich vegan, married to a prince no less, means she has selection to the best and most nutritious food available.

Also, she was glowing throughout her pregnancy, and looked even more gorgeous from the weight she put on, which leaned 'boy' to me. This isn't set in stone or applies to everyone obviously, but just something I've noticed among some pregnant women. I have also read a couple of articles about her diet, and all of them mention that she eats wholesome, healthy meals but does not diet or restrict her eating. She also loves french fries, lol. And then of course you have the Maternal Dominance hypothesis, and the fact she is married into royalty, all giving signals that the 'times are well and prosperous'. I have a similar body type to Meghan, especially with the skinny legs(I don't like mine though lol), and where she has put weight on from pregnancy, the upper body, chest and face, but her legs are still skinny, as are mine despite the diet. Seeing others with my body structure gives me hope that I can have a boy too. But I know many women who are either skinny, average or considered overweight, all have boys.

[Sora]

I was on the fence about this, sometimes it seemed she would have a girl, at other times a boy. Before pregnancy Meghan was super skinny, especially her legs and that reminded me of a post about how women with skinny legs have more girls(like my uncle's wife with their 2 girls). But what we see on the outside does not matter as much of what is going on inside, and in Meghan's case, for sure she would have taken many supplements and ate healthy, organic produce to prepare for a pregnancy. Being a rich vegan, married to a prince no less, means she has selection to the best and most nutritious food available.

Also, she was glowing throughout her pregnancy, and looked even more gorgeous from the weight she put on, which leaned 'boy' to me. This isn't set in stone or applies to everyone obviously, but just something I've noticed among some pregnant women. I have also read a couple of articles about her diet, and all of them mention that she eats wholesome, healthy meals but does not diet or restrict her eating. She also loves french fries, lol. And then of course you have the Maternal Dominance hypothesis, and the fact she is married into royalty, all giving signals that the 'times are well and prosperous'. I have a similar body type to Meghan, especially with the skinny legs(I don't like mine though lol), and where she has put weight on from pregnancy, the upper body, chest and face, but her legs are still skinny, as are mine despite the diet. Seeing others with my body structure gives me hope that I can have a boy too. But I know many women who are either skinny, average or considered overweight, all have boys.

Ah don't say that it's scary :twins: I've always had short fat legs, even when I was skinnier ! I dislike them so much I'd rather not wear a skirt or shorts because I don't want people to see them ! And of course my lower body is always getting fat first. My upper body never got fattier with the pregnancies, except the breasts obviously ! NOw with the blue diet it does but so does my legs :nails: I hope this doesn't mean I'm not built for boys !

[hurrem]

Ah don't say that it's scary :twins: I've always had short fat legs, even when I was skinnier ! I dislike them so much I'd rather not wear a skirt or shorts because I don't want people to see them ! And of course my lower body is always getting fat first. My upper body never got fattier with the pregnancies, except the breasts obviously ! NOw with the blue diet it does but so does my legs :nails: I hope this doesn't mean I'm not built for boys !

All body types have a chance for a boy! :) I know a lady with your body type and she has 5 boys, then there’s also Victoria Beckham with her sons. It’s all about what’s happening inside. Also, do wear skirts! Especially midi skirts they’re so stylish and look good on everyone. I’m self conscious of my ankles and how they look when I wear certain clothes. We have to stay positive though and keep a strong mindset about ourselves, it will only help our sway!

[atomic sagebrush]

Ah don't say that it's scary :twins: I've always had short fat legs, even when I was skinnier ! I dislike them so much I'd rather not wear a skirt or shorts because I don't want people to see them ! And of course my lower body is always getting fat first. My upper body never got fattier with the pregnancies, except the breasts obviously ! NOw with the blue diet it does but so does my legs :nails: I hope this doesn't mean I'm not built for boys !


Nope that's exactly how I'm built. Short fat legs with small arms :)

[Bobster]

I’m slightly taller than average height (5’6”) and have a very slim build with skinny legs. Don’t seem to gain weight on my lower half at all and I’ve got 2 boys. I think it’s more to do with all the other blue/pink lifestyle factors than body shape. This time I was more pink friendly in my lifestyle and I look exactly the same as the previous times including how I’m carrying my bump.

[WelcomeBaby]

God I hope so ! Thank you ! I'm attempting this summer. I dare not try sooner even though I was tempted because husband's work often has him away during O and like I said in another post, I'm not trying the one attempt ever again XD. So now we will TTC on the months when I'm sure he will be home for the 3 attempts around O.

Sending you all my pink dust and I hope you get your girl at the end of the year !

Sora, I hope very much you conceive quickly and it's your baby boy! Again, please take ALL my blue dust!!! :)
I'm finding out baby gender soon - dropped the team green idea because it started messing with my head too much - and I hope the one attempt that you're avoiding at all cost helped! :D Highly doubt it though, DS1 was conceived with 1 attempt too. But you never know! Good luck!

[Throwaway_panther]

Ah don't say that it's scary :twins: I've always had short fat legs, even when I was skinnier ! I dislike them so much I'd rather not wear a skirt or shorts because I don't want people to see them ! And of course my lower body is always getting fat first. My upper body never got fattier with the pregnancies, except the breasts obviously ! NOw with the blue diet it does but so does my legs :nails: I hope this doesn't mean I'm not built for boys !

I have loooong legs and never gain weight there, ever, so now I'm both hoping that reassures you while now I'm also having yet another thing to worry about (especially since I can quickly think of a lot of pear shaped women who got mostly boys; I'm very hourglass shaped but legs are always proportionally thinner).

[Sora]

I have loooong legs and never gain weight there, ever, so now I'm both hoping that reassures you while now I'm also having yet another thing to worry about (especially since I can quickly think of a lot of pear shaped women who got mostly boys; I'm very hourglass shaped but legs are always proportionally thinner).

I don't know if it will reassure you but most boys mothers I know are absolutely not pear shaped ! They are very tall/long and very thin, so much so for some that you wonder how they even managed to carry a baby at all ! And that's been bothering me for quite some time actually. I'm under the impression that since I'm the opposite, I will never have a boy.

Most pear shaped or apple shaped women I know are girls moms too except one but I know for a fact she was quite the blue dieter and even indulging too much in blue foods haha ! Fun fact, she came from an all-girl family and is all bewildered at not having any baby girl.

About hourglass figures, the only woman I knew had both, first a boy and 8 years after a little girl.