Pls help - going Crazy

[Strutz1233]

hello everyone!
Doctor could not say gender so I made a sono on my own... they are Not quite good, but maybe u can see gender? Pls help me ;-)

After 2 boys i would be so happy for q Girl

files.fm/u/3rzyk4h3

[Strutz1233]

Anyone?

[Blue-blue-pink]

Grom what I can see it looks very girly!!

[Strutz1233]

Thx - here a some pics 41968

[Strutz1233]

41969

[Blue-blue-pink]

Still thinking girl

[Strutz1233]

Ok - would be so happy but dont belive it...

So this is Not the nub????41970

[atomic sagebrush]

What is the gestation on these?

[Strutz1233]

13+4or6

[atomic sagebrush]

tentative pink lean but not the best for guessing for me

[Strutz1233]

What Makes u think so

[atomic sagebrush]

The nub seems flat, which is more pink friendly, but the shape and length seem somewhat boyish and makes me wary to sign off on it totally being a girl. Slight pink lean.

[Strutz1233]

Ok! Did u watch the Videos?

[atomic sagebrush]

I didn't, sorry lots of people want me to watch their videos and I literally don't have the time, I'm sorry. This is based on the photos alone. FXFXFX you get what you're hoping for.

[Strutz1233]

Ok! Sorry for Asking ;-) so you are an Expert - that‘s so nice that you help People in your free Time ;-)


I dont know why but my felling says Boy.... this is my last Baby and i hoped for a little girly After two boys 🙈 because of this i made an ultrasound on my own (i am nurse):... it is Not quite good but i hoped for better „nub shots“


Thank you for your experience

[atomic sagebrush]

Well, I'm a gender swaying expert, not an ultrasound expert, but I have looked at an awful lot of ultrasounds along the way!!! :)

Believe me - I totally understand! I have 4 boys and also hoped for a girl with my 3rd and 4th! I promise feelings don't predict gender - I was sure I was having a girl with my 3rd but he was all boy! Good luck and pink dust headed your way!

[Strutz1233]

Thank u so much for your words ❤️

But Tell me - whats a swaying expert??



I dont want to make u angry- Bit maybe u find Time to Look at the vids? They are only a vew Seconds Long

[atomic sagebrush]

There are some tricks people use to try and boost the chances that they will have a girl or a boy. We call those tricks "swaying". I'm good at using those and I've been helping people to sway for about 10 years now.

I'll try to take a peek if they're short. It may be a couple hours before I can. :)

[Strutz1233]

Thank you so much! You are an Angel!!

I know this now - i made the same Test on Facebook with my Second son and also now in this pregnancy - they told me i have a very girly Lifestyle 🙈 but tja... it was a Boy... and now i also think so

[Strutz1233]

Anyone Else?

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you so much! You are an Angel!!

I know this now - i made the same Test on Facebook with my Second son and also now in this pregnancy - they told me i have a very girly Lifestyle �� but tja... it was a Boy... and now i also think so

Swaying isn't 100%, even with pink lifestyle people get boys about 1/3 of the time. It just isn't set in stone but many of us still like to up the odds a little. :)

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry I can't see any links to videos?? Am I missing something?

[Strutz1233]

Sorry

Here

https://files.fm/u/3rzyk4h3#/view/8CB0D088-1B21-416B-A3B6-D4D96C98CB3D.MOV;play


Thks so much

[Strutz1233]

Should say again that i made them on my own 🙈 so they are Not the best

[atomic sagebrush]

One of the videos seems to be entirely of the baby's back/back of head.

The other one started off with the baby facing away, but it turned over midway through. I would give a tentative pink lean (like 52%/48% LOL) but the nub was only visible for a moment, and the baby was in motion when I thought I spotted it, so I don't have much confidence that I can guess accurately. The baby being in motion means that the angle of the dangle is not at all reliable and I just don't like getting anyone's hopes up when I can't give an accurate guess.

[Strutz1233]

Thank u so much that u took your Time for me... i took a picture of the video.... First i was sure, that this is the nub which is Stacking - but now i am not sure any More


Do u know and other expert? Dont know why - but Nobody answers at my post



Thousand thx - you are an Angel 41977

[Blue-blue-pink]

There’s absolutely no way you can determine the nub when baby is lying like this. Back needs to be straight.

[Strutz1233]

Okay... habve some more pics 41979

11+0

[Strutz1233]

Sorry this doesnt work - so the link to the photos - taken at 12+6, Videos taken at 13+??


https://www.dropbox.com/sh/2kvg08zto6hscu9/AAAebsEHxvUBeptlpqWV2HR9a?dl=0

[Blue-blue-pink]

Still a girl lean from me

[Strutz1233]

What Makes u think so??

[Blue-blue-pink]

The nub looks girly

[atomic sagebrush]

The problem is that the baby was moving all around. No one is going to be able to guess on that because the baby was not lying still. You could probably find someone to guess on them, but they would not be able to tell you your baby's gender accurately. You would be setting yourself up for huge disappointment by having people guess on these pictures because the baby was not in the correct position.

Several of us have had wrong guesses on ultrasounds. It sucks to be told the wrong thing and then find out something else - and it especially sucks if people tell you what you're hoping for only to find out it was not correct. I really urge you to wait for an ultrasound done by a trained person who can take the pictures when the baby is lying still and the nub is in view because these pictures are not accurate for guessing regardless of who is the person guessing. :) Good luck and I hope you get what you're wishing for.

[atomic sagebrush]

Okay... habve some more pics 41979

11+0

11 weeks is too early to guess. All babies look like girls at this point.

[atomic sagebrush]

Are these from the video? What is the origin of these photos? Who wrote "baby boy 3" on the one photo?

[atomic sagebrush]

I have the same problem I had before - I feel like the nub is awfully short for a girl. It's pretty straight, but at the same time it's not that clear cut obvious girl nub. I'm still about 50-50 with a slight pink lean due to what I saw on the video.

[Blue-blue-pink]

Ok. I think i have to change my mind. I watched one of your video frame by frame and zo’n afraid it has some boyish shots in it.

41986

[Blue-blue-pink]

41987

41988

[Strutz1233]

:( :(

[Strutz1233]

Are these from the video? What is the origin of these photos? Who wrote "baby boy 3" on the one photo?


"baby boy 3" i wrote on the photo - this was because i was sure, it will be a boy... but then i looked again and again and again and was unsure....


these photos which look a bit "orange" (not black/white) are from my 1st trimester screening at a praenatal diagnostic - i hoped he tells me gender, but he didnt... so these are original photos taken at 12+4


the black/white were at 11+?? and the video was at 13+??


thank you so much for your time



I don't know whats going on with me.... when i was pregnant with my 2nd son (my wish was to have a baby girlie - i was sad about 4 days, but then i stopped and began to be happy and look forward to my beautiful 2nd son....

Now everything changed.... at 11+0 I was at my doc, asked him, if he can see anything bout gender... he looked (2 times) and then he said: i am sure for 70 percent, this is a boy..... i went home, cried lots of hours.. then i searched a lot on the internet and saw, that at this gestation, nubs always look the same... so i got hope again..... and i looked forward to this 1st trim screening, because i know lots of friends of mine, who were told gender from this specialist... but to me, he only said: its too early....

so i was sad again... i took the photos and paid lots of people/homepages from gender experts to have a look..... the first second opinions were girl and i was soooo happy... then it came boy, again and again.... so i had 6 opinions from "experts" 3:3 .... i was very dissapointed..... cried again.... so i went to hospital on my own (i am nurse) to make an ultrasound on my own... these are this videos.....


the strange thing': at my second son, i was sad about days, but then i stopped... now, i try to get clear with the fact "it is possibly, no HIGH possibly a boy" i try to be happy.... two hours later, my mind says: no, this could not be.... i search for other photos on the internet, i look at my photos, etc... then its ok for a few hours, then it starts again.... wake up in the night.... dreaming about nubs... start to research again and again...

i want to stop this... i want to be sure and then trying to convince and be happy


sorry for crying on you, but my nerves are away :-(

[Blue-blue-pink]

Hun if i were you, i’d go for a gender scan asap! Cause it seems that only then you can move forward.

[Strutz1233]

I know but i think this is too early or?? In two days i am 15+0

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh ok I thought maybe a technician had told you that, and since they see way more than we do, I would have had to bow to their judgement.

The doctor should not have told you gender at 11 weeks. Baby's gender is not visible at that stage and all babies look like girls. The doctor did not know what he was doing there. We often, often have issues with doctors telling the gender incorrectly to people (to such extent that I truly believe no one should listen to a doctor's opinion on gender, ever LOL)

The reason you are getting so many varying responses is that we can't tell! You can ask and ask and ask, and you can probably, eventually, find someone who will tell you what you want to hear, but we just can't tell you what you want to know, and someone who is telling you what you want to hear still very well may be wrong. I'm sorry, I wish we could, but I think we've gone as far as we can with what we have to work with and unless you have another scan, you are 50-50 right now.

Many of us found our 3rd-in-a-row baby was the hardest (mine sure was.) We don't know why, but it seems to be a particularly hard thing to hear. My hope is that this is still a girl and you won't have to go through the experience, but if it's a boy, I promise you WILL get through it. It's hard to love a picture on an ultrasound screen, but once the baby arrives things change and you will adore him just like you do your others.

Good luck and pink dust!

[atomic sagebrush]

I know but i think this is too early or?? In two days i am 15+0

They can give you a pretty firm idea at 15 weeks.

[Nell_]

There is a mixture of girl and boy looking nubs! I would prepare for another baby boy and if you find out girl its a surprise you don't want to get your hopes up xox

[Strutz1233]

Oh ok I thought maybe a technician had told you that, and since they see way more than we do, I would have had to bow to their judgement.

The doctor should not have told you gender at 11 weeks. Baby's gender is not visible at that stage and all babies look like girls. The doctor did not know what he was doing there. We often, often have issues with doctors telling the gender incorrectly to people (to such extent that I truly believe no one should listen to a doctor's opinion on gender, ever LOL)

The reason you are getting so many varying responses is that we can't tell! You can ask and ask and ask, and you can probably, eventually, find someone who will tell you what you want to hear, but we just can't tell you what you want to know, and someone who is telling you what you want to hear still very well may be wrong. I'm sorry, I wish we could, but I think we've gone as far as we can with what we have to work with and unless you have another scan, you are 50-50 right now.

Many of us found our 3rd-in-a-row baby was the hardest (mine sure was.) We don't know why, but it seems to be a particularly hard thing to hear. My hope is that this is still a girl and you won't have to go through the experience, but if it's a boy, I promise you WILL get through it. It's hard to love a picture on an ultrasound screen, but once the baby arrives things change and you will adore him just like you do your others.

Good luck and pink dust!

Thank u so much for your words ❤️❤️

[Strutz1233]

There is a mixture of girl and boy looking nubs! I would prepare for another baby boy and if you find out girl its a surprise you don't want to get your hopes up xox

Ok thx for your opinion.... but at the end, Mostyn Girl nubs are clear, or??

I Really try to cope with it - sice 3 weeks- but its Not possible.... dont know why

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok thx for your opinion.... but at the end, Mostyn Girl nubs are clear, or??

I Really try to cope with it - sice 3 weeks- but its Not possible.... dont know why

I'm going to try to explain this one more time and then I'm going to have to move on because I have spent way too long on this.

The reason why people can't tell you your baby's gender is that the pictures are not the best for guessing. It has nothing to do with your baby's gender, we literally cannot tell on these because the pictures (even the ones the professional took) are not good enough. That is the reason you're getting mixed replies - because it's not clear and people can't really tell. I feel like you're looking to read something into us not being able to tell, but the reason we can't tell is just because we can't tell, and not because it's telling you anything about gender.

50-50 boy/girl. If you want more than that, you need another scan. Good luck!

[charlyn]

I’m afraid I think that’s a baby boy based on the last few pics people have posted

[Strutz1233]

Its definitely a Boy 🥴42020

[atomic sagebrush]

Huge congrats on your new baby boy! I know it's not what you were hoping, but he is going to be absolutely wonderful!

[Strutz1233]

Hope so... Thank u 4 everything