PDA

View Full Version : I messed up! please help. do I attempt today?


Boywisher23
October 6th, 2019, 09:05 AM
Boy sway, was trying to attempt as close to ovulation as possible. I was using OPK but they're not working for me. Ive had this problem with opk before.
To make it easiest to read: I BD on CD 12, 14, and 15. I had a positive opk on 12 and predicted ovulation on 13 but I still had positives on 14 as well. I had cramping and a little bit of EWCM on CD14. Still having cramps to now, CD 16 and I have more EWCM today. CD 15 attempt was an accidental pull out so only a tiny bit of sperm may have entered. Do I try to BD tonight or wait until tomorrow?
atomic sagebrush
October 7th, 2019, 03:11 PM
Did you BD with protection or unprotected the other days?

Timing doesn't work. It's been totally debunked. I would DEFINITELY have had you have an attempt yesterday and if you didn't, ASAP today. The odds are that you have ovulated already, but sometimes O can be delayed and the absolute last thing you want for a blue sway is a pullout attempt!!!

Can you explain more about the pullout though?? If it was just that some semen came out, that's totally normal and not a big deal at all.
Boywisher23
October 8th, 2019, 08:26 AM
Unprotected. im more concerned about frequency than timing, I suppose. but DH was not feeling well so we could not attempt on Sunday unfortunately but we did Monday morning.

The accidental pullout was that right at release, his mother had unlocked our door with a screwdriver and came barging in. So a little bit of sperm made it but not a lot . :( I feel like my sway is all messed up. im not sure when ovulation was for sure. On the positive side, I did gain weight, snacked all day pretty much, got lots of vitamin D, did baking soda rinse since I had trouble keeping my ph up. Lots of red meat. etc
atomic sagebrush
October 8th, 2019, 12:18 PM
OMword I am so sorry!!! What a bizarre thing to do that to you guys!!! :heart:

:agree: As long as those attempts were unprotected it's all good. I think you had a nice blue friendly attempt.

I"m not a huge fan of baking soda as I'm sure you know, but other than that I think you had a great sway. Sending all my blue dust, and wishing you privacy!!!