False lh surge? Help

[Mamaofdivaz]

Hi ladies

Can someone please help?

I’m trying ttc boy this cycle currently day 8 had a positive cheapie late 11.30pm last night. I usually get opk+ day 11 with ewcm. Should I go in with 3 attempts from now?
Or hold out?
Ewcm started this morning opk is - now. really frustrating

[atomic sagebrush]

I suspect it was a false positive. If you believe in timing, I'd wait. If you don't, have a couple attempts now just to cover and then wait for the next, likely true, positive!

[Mamaofdivaz]

Thanks for replay

We dtd last night (day8 pm) again today another opk+ Both equal lunchtime (day 9) then strong neg at 6pm.
I normally get opk equal then peak opk few hrs later around day 11.
Should we bd tonight again (day9)?

Ive been tracking for 4 cycles this the 1st time this has happened (of course it had to be this cycle) :nails:

[Mamaofdivaz]

Would bd on day 6,8 and 9 fall into FR
What if opk is peak day 10? That would work out day 6,8,9 10 and two attempts day 11 And DH doesn’t get a break would that sway pink?

I’ve ewcm atm only started yesterday I normally have 4/5 days (peaking day 3)

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I would have you BD again tonight to cover your bases and then see what happens.

No, BD 6,8,9 is not FR. And even if it goes to 6,8,9,10,11 that is STILL not FR. People have to do 7-10 days of sex every day to do FR, and that would only be 4 days. FR is also done with only one attempt in the fertile window (the husband releases on his own) and you would be having many attempts. Also, FR does not even work for pink. WE have all but dropped it anyway because it was barely better than 50-50.

[Mamaofdivaz]

Thanks appreciate your replies

Tested 11pm opk is equal again expect it to be peak tomorrow at some stage. Hopefully.

[Mamaofdivaz]

Hi atomic (day 11)
Cm has started to go creamy tiny bit of ew when I go looking (tmi)day 11, we dtd day 6,8 9, missed day 10 hoping opk would peak. Do you think this was good enough for boy sway? So disheartened should we bed again today? cycle was upside down for opks never blazing :( ewcm was far less than usual:tissue:
Day 6 dtd preseed
Day 7 opk+ late midnight
Day 8 dtd preseed opk+ lunchtime neg - 6pm c/ewcm
Day 9 dtd preseed opk+ pm ewcm
Day 10 watery cm tiny ew stings/creamy pm opk-
Day 11 opk - creamy w

[Mamaofdivaz]

Day 11 creamy with strings of ewcm

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks appreciate your replies

Tested 11pm opk is equal again expect it to be peak tomorrow at some stage. Hopefully.

Can you clarify what you mean by this?? Any equal line IS positive. You should not be waiting for it to be at its darkest before attempting!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi atomic (day 11)
Cm has started to go creamy tiny bit of ew when I go looking (tmi)day 11, we dtd day 6,8 9, missed day 10 hoping opk would peak. Do you think this was good enough for boy sway? So disheartened should we bed again today? cycle was upside down for opks never blazing :( ewcm was far less than usual:tissue:
Day 6 dtd preseed
Day 7 opk+ late midnight
Day 8 dtd preseed opk+ lunchtime neg - 6pm c/ewcm
Day 9 dtd preseed opk+ pm ewcm
Day 10 watery cm tiny ew stings/creamy pm opk-
Day 11 opk - creamy w

Yes you MUST keep going with your attempts!! Fine that you had CD 10 off, now hit it again CD 11, 12, 13.

I find it very unlikely a CD 7 OPK was a true positive.

[Mamaofdivaz]

Day 7 and day 11 opk+ (Equal)all neg in between
I’ve been tracking my cycles for the last 2+ years
Range from 24 to 28 days never the same month to month
My last 4 cycles I got opk+ (My line always darker than control) day 10/11with lots ewcm.

[Mamaofdivaz]

Update day 12
Purchased clear blue opk

Flashy smiley pm day 11
Solid smiley lunchtime today day 12
Strong cheapie am (10am)day 12 my line way darker than control

Feeling nervous I’ve messed up :nails:did I bd too much and too early?
Will I miss tonight to build up DH count then dtd tomorrow morning and night?

[atomic sagebrush]

NO please have your attempts still. We do not want to STOP having attempts now, because if you O sooner than you think you'll be not only having those early attempts, but you'll be stopping with likely one attempt in the fertile window. Hit it with 3 attempts now. Don't worry about those early BD, that's very much the type of patterns I got my boys with! As long as hubby can keep up it's all good.

[Mamaofdivaz]

Dtd tonight day 12 and day 11
Is tomorrow evening 6pm okay? We Can’t do morning attempt Dh is working early shift (5am) Then on the morning of the 14 so..
Day11.noon
Day12. Pm
Day13 6pm
Day14 am
Should we try for 2 attempts tomorrow day13 6pm & 11pm or will am attempt on day14 be okay?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes whenever at any time you can fit in the attempt.

I think just one attempt per day is enough since you have other attempts in the mix! Good luck and blue dust!

[Mamaofdivaz]

Thank you atomic

Fingers crossed
Dtd 11,12,13&14 + earlier attempts
Do we continue bd every 2-4 days until bfn/bfp ?

[atomic sagebrush]

YES! Exposure to the hormones in semen may make you more blue friendly