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MintJulep
June 8th, 2020, 09:26 PM
I’m now 17 days into my miscarriage cycle of an 8 week successful girl sway.

I have a lot of emotions but my biggest one is now screwing up our next sway.

I was t expecting to O so soon after a loss but I am having EWCM today. I figured we’d wait until next cycle. But plans changed. We last BD’d yesterday morning. We did 3 days in a row because he’s now out of town for 2 weeks.

I’m thinking I’ll O in the next 5 days. Which will give me a BIG cutoff, if I even catch my egg.

My heart is so broken over losing my baby girl. Please just let me have a healthy baby girl I can bring home this time.

My question is what will this big of a cutoff sway for?

My partner and I did a different type of hiking sway. He released for about a week on a daily basis while waiting on AF to start. Then on CD3 we began having sex twice a day. I ovulated on CD11. So we BD’d twice daily for 8 days and had a 24-48 hour cutoff.

atomic sagebrush
June 9th, 2020, 01:25 PM
Unfortunately timing doesn't sway, it's been debunked as it's possible for something in science to BE debunked. We know Dr. Shettles was wrong, we understand the mistake he made, we know better now, and researchers went back over his own data that he himself collected and using modern knowhow, proved that timing does not sway with Shettles' research.

I hope you get your girl!!!

tuba
June 10th, 2020, 10:17 AM
so sorry for your loss

What is a cutoff?

atomic sagebrush
June 11th, 2020, 04:05 PM
A cutoff is the Shettles timing method where people have sex 2-3 days before ovulation and then do not have any more sex after that ("cutting off" intercourse)

tuba
June 12th, 2020, 05:08 PM
thank you dear