Moms of a successful girl sway followed by a lot 3+ boys

[babygirl1]

Hi Moms,

I was wondering if any moms that had a successful girl sway after having a lot of boys (3+) would be able to write what they think the difference was between both sways/lifestyles? It would be nice to see coming from a mom of 3 boys and swaying for a girl and my final baby. Thanks so much in advance!


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[atomic sagebrush]

There's a massive amount of info in this thread: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/1877-how-we-made-girls-girl-moms-pink-dust.html?highlight=made+girls

but I have my sway here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-confirmed-girl-sway-results-details-listed-by-member/9388-atomics-stealth-sway-updated-july-20-a.html?highlight=atomic+stealth+sway

I really think the biggest differences were in not taking vitamins and the number of attempts.

[babygirl1]

That is great to know about the biggest differences between having boys and girls, thank you! I read that thread and it is AMAZING! It confirms your PCOS le diet and le diet so well! I have been reading that thread for the last two days and have been totally amazed by it.


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[*Pinkdust*]

Swaying girl, 4 weeks long enough?

Hi everyone,

I’m new here and hoping to conceive a girl early next month.. is 4 week long enough for the diet changes (low sodium and potassium, high calcium and magnesium plus Diet Coke!) and supplements (calcium, magnesium, cranberry, and maybe liquorice root) to help my sway? And are the diet and supplements for both me and my DH? Also have moms of girls been successful with the baby dust timing (2.5-3 days before O)?

I know our timing is very limited but really appreciate any advice you can give! Xx


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[atomic sagebrush]

I have your message, Pinkdust. Since this is a specific thread on another subject I'll reply there.

But just so everyone knows we are having pretty crap results with licorice root for DH and women should never ever take that anyway. Babydust is a method that does not work, has been completely debunked by scientific research, and has prevented pregnancy for a good number of people who have tried it. We just had a woman who's been trying with Babydust for 14 months and has not conceived. We have better ways to sway and I'll lay those out in your message.

To start your own thread, you need to go back to the main page and click open a forum (not a thread, but one of the forums) Then you'll get the option for starting a new thread.

To make it easier here is the TTC a Girl Forum. You'll see the "start new thread" button at the top of the page https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/

[clarkrl2]

I had 3 boys. I was 100% convinced there was no way I could have girl. But not so convinced that I didn't want to sway.
Big differences working out almost daily, one attempt, no snacking, vegan diet, no prenatal, fertility medication and nightly drink.
Before I was working hardcore overtime (SAHM by end of sway), never working out, gaining weight, eating a high cal diet, and taking vitamins.
That said I am pretty sure I did everything Atomic said to do and also tried my best to ignore all the stuff she said didn't actually work. That was huge. As a boy mom I to fight the urge to worry about supplements, the moon phase and vaginal potions. Boy moms don't tend trust authority LOL
Today I have a 2 month old daughter and I 100% credit Atomics advice.

[babygirl1]

I had 3 boys. I was 100% convinced there was no way I could have girl. But not so convinced that I didn't want to sway.
Big differences working out almost daily, one attempt, no snacking, vegan diet, no prenatal, fertility medication and nightly drink.
Before I was working hardcore overtime (SAHM by end of sway), never working out, gaining weight, eating a high cal diet, and taking vitamins.
That said I am pretty sure I did everything Atomic said to do and also tried my best to ignore all the stuff she said didn't actually work. That was huge. As a boy mom I to fight the urge to worry about supplements, the moon phase and vaginal potions. Boy moms don't tend trust authority LOL
Today I have a 2 month old daughter and I 100% credit Atomics advice.

Clarklr2 thank you SO much for what you wrote. I could cry actually. You gave me some hope. I appreciate it more than you know. I have gotten to a point in my sway where I’m doing the things that are necessary to sway for a girl and I have just kind of given up at the same time. I have zero control and that’s okay. I believe God is in complete control. And whatever I’m meant to have is what I’m meant to have. I’m still doing what I need to do but also knowing I’m not in control.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for listing those differences for you between having a boy and girl. As for me that’s new this time around is I’m working out almost daily (brisk walking for 60 minutes) no snacking, no breakfast, vegetarian diet (have eaten meat a few times but only when I’m with family and have no choice), no prenatal and by fertility medication do you mean clomid? I’m going to be taking provera to induce my period and then clomid soon. I have been on the PCOS le diet for 8 weeks and plan to be on it for another 4 more weeks before we start TTC. Did you ever have cheat days or eat a sugary cheat treat? How long were you on the diet and were you on the pcos diet? The only thing I’m not doing is drinking alcohol and the only thing that holds me back on doing that is that I am still breastfeeding my 11 month old son. What nightly drink did you have if you don’t mind me asking?

Before with my 3 boys I was maintaining my same weight, never working out, snacking lots and eating a lot of sugary treats, high calorie/high protein diet, ate fruit for breakfast. I kept a high blood sugar all the time combined with no exercise and taking prenatal vitamins.

Lastly and most importantly, congratulations on your baby girl!! [emoji175]I am so very happy for you!! You must be totally shocked. Like you I can’t imagine having a baby girl after 3 boys. Enjoy sweet mama! [emoji177]


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[clarkrl2]

Clarklr2 thank you SO much for what you wrote. I could cry actually. You gave me some hope. I appreciate it more than you know. I have gotten to a point in my sway where I’m doing the things that are necessary to sway for a girl and I have just kind of given up at the same time. I have zero control and that’s okay. I believe God is in complete control. And whatever I’m meant to have is what I’m meant to have. I’m still doing what I need to do but also knowing I’m not in control.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for listing those differences for you between having a boy and girl. As for me that’s new this time around is I’m working out almost daily (brisk walking for 60 minutes) no snacking, no breakfast, vegetarian diet (have eaten meat a few times but only when I’m with family and have no choice), no prenatal and by fertility medication do you mean clomid? I’m going to be taking provera to induce my period and then clomid soon. I have been on the PCOS le diet for 8 weeks and plan to be on it for another 4 more weeks before we start TTC. Did you ever have cheat days or eat a sugary cheat treat? How long were you on the diet and were you on the pcos diet? The only thing I’m not doing is drinking alcohol and the only thing that holds me back on doing that is that I am still breastfeeding my 11 month old son. What nightly drink did you have if you don’t mind me asking?

Before with my 3 boys I was maintaining my same weight, never working out, snacking lots and eating a lot of sugary treats, high calorie/high protein diet, ate fruit for breakfast. I kept a high blood sugar all the time combined with no exercise and taking prenatal vitamins.

Lastly and most importantly, congratulations on your baby girl!! [emoji175]I am so very happy for you!! You must be totally shocked. Like you I can’t imagine having a baby girl after 3 boys. Enjoy sweet mama! [emoji177]


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I'm so glad it gave you some hope. :) I think you have great attitude. Its not something we can ever 100% control.

I was on Clomid for a little while and then my doctor switched me to Femara.

Yes, I had cheat days. I ate sweats and junk food. I just tried to do it with my meal or in smaller portion sizes.

By the time I got pregnant with my daughter I was on the diet over a year. I was so sick of it by then LOL

I usually just had one glass of wine or a single white claw. I started in in the last several months of my sway because the results were so promising.

Thank you so much!! It was a gender surprise and I was completely shocked when she was born. I had it in my head there was no way she was a girl.

Good luck with your sway mama. You're in the right place!

[Jinky]

I had 3 boys. I was 100% convinced there was no way I could have girl. But not so convinced that I didn't want to sway.
Big differences working out almost daily, one attempt, no snacking, vegan diet, no prenatal, fertility medication and nightly drink.
Before I was working hardcore overtime (SAHM by end of sway), never working out, gaining weight, eating a high cal diet, and taking vitamins.
That said I am pretty sure I did everything Atomic said to do and also tried my best to ignore all the stuff she said didn't actually work. That was huge. As a boy mom I to fight the urge to worry about supplements, the moon phase and vaginal potions. Boy moms don't tend trust authority LOL
Today I have a 2 month old daughter and I 100% credit Atomics advice.

What do you mean with nightly drinks? just curious

[atomic sagebrush]

What do you mean with nightly drinks? just curious

We use alcohol as a sway tactic, 1 alcoholic beverage of your choice nightly. A few people do two but that's not necessary for most

[*Pinkdust*]

Does it matter what kind of alcohol? I love red wine so would happily have a glass with dinner every night but not sure I’d be as keen for a nightly spirit if it needed to be with a meal! Do we need to count the calories in the alcohol as part of our daily calorie limit (I’m quite short so aiming for 1300 each day)


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[atomic sagebrush]

Whatever kind you like. Most people do white wine or light beer or clear spirits, as we figure "well they have less nutrients" but tons of people have done red wine/dark beer and still gotten girls.

yes, you need to count the alcohol in totals for the day for calories.

Re the number of cals, be sure you start off more than you think you need. Starting off too low and then having to add calories back in can undermine your sway. Start off eating more than you figure is right, then see what your weight does. Safer to cut back than to have to eat more!

[babygirl1]

Whatever kind you like. Most people do white wine or light beer or clear spirits, as we figure "well they have less nutrients" but tons of people have done red wine/dark beer and still gotten girls.

yes, you need to count the alcohol in totals for the day for calories.

Re the number of cals, be sure you start off more than you think you need. Starting off too low and then having to add calories back in can undermine your sway. Start off eating more than you figure is right, then see what your weight does. Safer to cut back than to have to eat more!

I’m going to have white wine with my “bedtime meal” every night.

And yes start out higher in calories like Atomic said. I dropped too soon and now I have to increase my calories as I’m losing too much weight. Doh! [emoji2358]


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[hotlikemexico]

I’m going to have white wine with my “bedtime meal” every night.

That’s what I’m doing too! Glass of white wine or a spiked seltzer with my “dinner time” meal every night. My “last meal” is usually right before bed (I go to bed late, around midnight) and I found that the alcohol right before bed was messing up my temps! Different for everyone though and if you’re not temping, nothing to worry about, of course [emoji4]


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[babygirl1]

That’s what I’m doing too! Glass of white wine or a spiked seltzer with my “dinner time” meal every night. My “last meal” is usually right before bed (I go to bed late, around midnight) and I found that the alcohol right before bed was messing up my temps! Different for everyone though and if you’re not temping, nothing to worry about, of course [emoji4]


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That’s awesome! I’m actually just starting to add white wine every night after 9 weeks on the PCOS le diet. I didn’t drink any alcohol the first 9 weeks because I am still breastfeeding my almost 1 year old but now I feel more comfortable to add it in every night. I could have earlier but wanted to do what I’m comfortable with. I’m looking forward to it as I never drink alcohol and it’s so relaxing. Tonight is my first night with it.


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[hotlikemexico]

That’s awesome! I’m actually just starting to add white wine every night after 9 weeks on the PCOS le diet. I didn’t drink any alcohol the first 9 weeks because I am still breastfeeding my almost 1 year old but now I feel more comfortable to add it in every night. I could have earlier but wanted to do what I’m comfortable with. I’m looking forward to it as I never drink alcohol and it’s so relaxing. Tonight is my first night with it.


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Agreed!! I never drank alcohol either unless we went out to dinner or a party/social gathering/event (which of course is virtually non existent now thanks to covid LOL). I’ve also found it to be relaxing and now very much enjoy my nightly glass of wine [emoji4]

Also yay for being on week 10 (right?) of your diet! You’re in the home stretch now!


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[babygirl1]

Agreed!! I never drank alcohol either unless we went out to dinner or a party/social gathering/event (which of course is virtually non existent now thanks to covid LOL). I’ve also found it to be relaxing and now very much enjoy my nightly glass of wine [emoji4]

Also yay for being on week 10 (right?) of your diet! You’re in the home stretch now!


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Yes I am on week 10 now and it definitely feels like the home stretch for starting to TTC anyway. [emoji846]


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[Anna_B]

I have the same, I only use to drink alcohol when we went out for dinner or at a special occasion. I just started with the diet and already including the alcohol, I prefer 1 glass of white wine. And I also enjoy it :)

But does 1 glass of white wine count as a meal?

Because now I drink it around 9 p.m. in the evening. Not with my dinner or any food at all. (I do Intermittent fasting)
I don't have breakfast,
-I have lunch (1st meal)
-snack around 3 p.m. (2st meal)
-snack around 5 p.m. (3th meal)
-dinner around 7 p.m. (4th meal)

So if I take the wine at 9 p.m. it's my 5 th meal of the day, that would be to much right? (because I thought it's the best to have a few meals a day, like 3 or maybe 4 meals?)

[atomic sagebrush]

Technically I like you guys to have wine with a meal but that is a cheat a LOT of us had.

I definitely had alcohol independently of my meals on many occasions. So it's not terrible, but since you're already doing 4 meals I'd probably err on the side of having it with a meal if possible.