12 week scan nub theory please :)

[Laurajaynexx]

Would anyone like to take a guess please :)

[ksmom]

Looks girly but it's still early and the nub could rise. Is this at exactly 12 weeks?

[Laurajaynexx]

Thank you for your guess. Yeah it’s exactly 12 weeks I have another one I’m not sure if I can see anything in this one though 43053

[ksmom]

Yeah at 12 weeks babies often have girly looking nubs so a nub guess isn't very reliable. If it were around 13 weeks, I'd be more confident.

[Laurajaynexx]

Would anyone else like to give me a fun guess I realise it’s early but would be nice to see what people think

[atomic sagebrush]

Girly but nub can still rise as ks says

[Laurajaynexx]

This were today I’m measuring 12+5/6 now any more clues please?

[atomic sagebrush]

still girl from me

[jyotshna.y14]

Second pic is showing nub is coming down so I am hoping for girl this time,let us know wht ur expexting

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[ksmom]

Girly

[Laurajaynexx]

Thank you so much ladies 💗 I have had mixed responses people saying they see a boy nub I personally don’t know where they are looking but I’m a total newbie at this snd not even 100% know where the nub is lol! Find out early January so will definitely update you!

[atomic sagebrush]

The reason why people say that is because about 95% of people for some inexplicable reason think baby girls are meant to be perfectly smooth like Barbies and so when they see vulva, clitoris, VJ they think "oh that has to be a peen" LOL. But of course we XX folks have bits too and on babies, they're very noticeable since babies are otherwise tiny. :)

[Laurajaynexx]

Yeah I think the worse thing I did was add my pics and videos to fb group of “nub experts” giving me nub anxiety if that’s a thing haha. I’m gonna believe it’s girly until my gender scan :) I just want to say I love this page and think what you do is amazing and if bubs is a boy I will defo be back for a sway plan :)

[atomic sagebrush]

They're wrong ALL. THE. TIME. We have tons of people on here who got incorrect guesses.

You're not out yet! :) :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

[atomic sagebrush]

Did they confirm this as boy? That is so thick it could be leg bone

[atomic sagebrush]

I watched the video and I still think it could go either way. I do not think that thing is the nub. Too big, too high. I believe it is leg and I even saw on the video that stillshot fading into the leg.

The baby was SUPER active and moving a lot. I saw both what could have been a boy nub and what could have been a girl nub. 5050 from me.

[Laurajaynexx]

Thank you for having a look atomic! Yeah I thought that with the leg too but on all the “nub theory expert groups” they have all said the babies nub has risen so it’s 100% a boy a UT told me she can see male genitals already forming. I was told to paint the nursery blue which I found quite insensitive! I’m still holding onto hope the baby is a girl and like you say it was just too active to get a clear look

[ksmom]

I watched the video and I'm leaning boy but I'm not certain at all. Like Atomic said, the baby was moving around a lot and those little legs were going up and down the whole time so it's hard to tell. I'm sorry I don't have a more definitive answer for you.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you for having a look atomic! Yeah I thought that with the leg too but on all the “nub theory expert groups” they have all said the babies nub has risen so it’s 100% a boy a UT told me she can see male genitals already forming. I was told to paint the nursery blue which I found quite insensitive! I’m still holding onto hope the baby is a girl and like you say it was just too active to get a clear look

Those groups are wrong all the time. I do see why people say blue (based on the VIDEO not that nub shot, which I do not even think is a nub shot) and I saw what seemed both blue and pink nubs like I said in the video.

Anyone telling you to paint your nursery needs to offer to refund you the money for the paint LOL. 5050 from me

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you for having a look it seems everyone is going for blue they must see something blue in the video I guess. It’s sad considering my earlier scan was pink votes would the baby’s legs moving impact the nub like would it cause the nub to rise too?

As the baby moves around it can make the nub tilt up or look flatter than it really is. Imagine arching your own back and moving around, it can have a big effect. My main concern is that the leg bone is mimicking a boy nub. These just aren't the clarity ANYONE needs to guess on and the "nub experts" should know better. They are too quick to give guesses with far too high a level of confidence and cause a lot of false hope and false despair.

[Ami129]

I’d lean boy but I wouldn’t be shocked if it turned out to be a girl as it is a tricky nub.


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[Laurajaynexx]

Thank you yeah I know only about 3 people have said girl I just spend my time looking for wrong nub theory haha! Next
Time I won’t ask coz it’s just caused me more hassle as I was told girl at the beginning by Facebook groups now they’ve changed to boy and now I have slight GD and haven’t even had the scan! Gonna pray hard for pink

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes like I said I do see things that could potentially be boy nubs but the baby is moving so much they're not reliable.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you yeah I know only about 3 people have said girl I just spend my time looking for wrong nub theory haha! Next
Time I won’t ask coz it’s just caused me more hassle as I was told girl at the beginning by Facebook groups now they’ve changed to boy and now I have slight GD and haven’t even had the scan! Gonna pray hard for pink

:agree: this is why I am very down on making wild guesses and guesses too early. I see too many people who end up with GD (even when they didn't have it) because they are told one thing and then another thing. So even when they didn't have a preference, they start thinking the baby is a certain gender and it isn't.

[atomic sagebrush]

I could go either way on these. The first two look girly, the bottom one is slightly more boyish to me. Keep me posted.

[Laurajaynexx]

Scratch that I had a gender scan today just over 15 weeks it’s a boy I’m completely crushed. Didn’t think I would feel this bad. How long after having a baby can I sway?

[Ami129]

So sorry to read that you didn’t get your DG. I felt the same when I found out I was having another girl last time. She is 3 now and I adore her so I hope it will get easier for you. I think falling pregnant soon after having a baby is meant to sway girl? There is a good GD group on ingender if you aren’t already a member for support if you need it.


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[Laurajaynexx]

I had it with my first like I never wanted a boy and now I’ve got 2. I feel like those groups make me feel worse coz it just makes me think about it more and more about what I don’t have but I appreciate the thought thank you

[jyotshna.y14]

So sorry to read that you didn’t get your DG. I felt the same when I found out I was having another girl last time. She is 3 now and I adore her so I hope it will get easier for you. I think falling pregnant soon after having a baby is meant to sway girl? There is a good GD group on ingender if you aren’t already a member for support if you need it.


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[Ami129]

Laurajayne that’s fair enough if it doesn’t help you. Give yourself some time and it will hopefully get easier. I think it’s easier when they are born because you can hold them and see their little face and begin to bond with them.


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[atomic sagebrush]

Scratch that I had a gender scan today just over 15 weeks it’s a boy I’m completely crushed. Didn’t think I would feel this bad. How long after having a baby can I sway?

Oh no I'm so sorry it didn't go your way and that you're feeling upset.

How sure were they? Usually they don't give confirmation till 18+.

You can sway right away as long as you're not breastfeeding. If you're breastfeeding it's best to wait till 6 months after to be sure the baby gets the best milk.

[Ami129]

How many kids u have now?just for curious to know

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I have 4, all girls aged 11-3 years. Pregnant again and due March but haven’t found out the sex.


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[jyotshna.y14]

I have 4, all girls aged 11-3 years. Pregnant again and due March but haven’t found out the sex.


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[Laurajaynexx]

I’m not sure she didn’t say as it was put in an envelope so I don’t have a potty shot either but I guess once you see boy bits it must be pretty obvious. I can’t breastfeed it’s not possible for me so I would like to start straight away. How do I get a plan? Just to add incase it helps I drank a lot of diet drinks!

[Laurajaynexx]

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These were from a video I got not sure if that is the penis at the end

[atomic sagebrush]

Plans are here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php

I would give it 3 months to recover postpartum too of course (though most don't want to start that soon anyway.)

If you got a boy doing diet drinks I'd skip them this time. Hypothetically I have noticed that people hitting the diet drinks very hard seem to have more boys anyway.

[Laurajaynexx]

I will get the coach one as I have additional needs so does my partner lol and I already have the dream membership so makes sense to do that one.

See the 3 months would we be on the diet then too though?

I didn’t drink diet drinks with my first son and loads with my second so god know Lols

[Laurajaynexx]

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Got the potty shots

[atomic sagebrush]

I will get the coach one as I have additional needs so does my partner lol and I already have the dream membership so makes sense to do that one.

See the 3 months would we be on the diet then too though?

I didn’t drink diet drinks with my first son and loads with my second so god know Lols

Yeah I'd like you to give it 3 months to recover before starting diet. It's necessary to be sure you're able to get and stay pregnant.

[Laurajaynexx]

So will I purchase plan now or nearer the time? Can my partner be on the diet though? He needs to lose weight which I feel he will on the diet but then I’ve heard losing weight sways blue

[atomic sagebrush]

If he loses more than 5-10 lbs it will sway pink.

I would wait till nearer the time. About 3 months before you plan to start trying.

[Laurajaynexx]

Ok thank you I’ll get it just before I’m due coz I want to make sure if there’s any lifestyle choices we need to change also. I know my potty shots show a boy but do you think they look really big like compared to my son for 15 weeks I feel it sticks out loads and even the bottom looks long lol

[atomic sagebrush]

I agree it seems bigger than it should be. I wonder if the picture is manipulated in some way.

[atomic sagebrush]

I mean they blew up the picture to make it easier to see. The computer programs they have are able to do all sorts of things.