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LovePrayBlue
December 28th, 2020, 01:54 PM
We’ve been TTC for 3 months now. Kind of. My husband was away from home the first 2 months, so it’s kind of hard to count those months. We had as many attempts as we could during that time. He came home around the time I was ovulating this month and we got lots of attempts in but it still didn’t happen. I’m getting frustrated. I haven’t been on birth control since July. I had a copper iud for almost 7 years. I’m wondering if I might have scarring in my uterus from the iud or something going on that is making it difficult to get pregnant. Just looking for suggestions and advice.


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atomic sagebrush
December 29th, 2020, 03:04 PM
Well, if the first two months were not ideal it's probably just one of those things. It takes fully fertile people 3-6 months to conceive and so you're still absolutely in the wheelhouse.

That having been said if you find that your anxieties are really upsetting you, you can always go in and have them do an HSG test and then you'll be able to see there is no scarring and won't worry about it so much.
LovePrayBlue
December 30th, 2020, 02:29 PM
Well, if the first two months were not ideal it's probably just one of those things. It takes fully fertile people 3-6 months to conceive and so you're still absolutely in the wheelhouse.

That having been said if you find that your anxieties are really upsetting you, you can always go in and have them do an HSG test and then you'll be able to see there is no scarring and won't worry about it so much.

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So my period is a day late. I tested again and got this very faint line. Not sure what’s going on. I guess I’ll wait and see what happens...


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atomic sagebrush
December 30th, 2020, 02:42 PM
Could you have ovulated later than you think?
LovePrayBlue
December 30th, 2020, 02:51 PM
Could you have ovulated later than you think?

It’s possible. I was only using clear blue digital to track ovulation. I got a flashing smiley for 2 days and then a solid. I stopped testing after the solid.


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atomic sagebrush
December 30th, 2020, 03:01 PM
When did you attempt in relation to the solid?
LovePrayBlue
December 30th, 2020, 03:06 PM
When did you attempt in relation to the solid?

We BD’d 2 days before the solid. Twice the day of the solid. Once the day after. Once the day after that. We also BD’d 3 days after that.


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atomic sagebrush
December 31st, 2020, 12:07 PM
Yes in that case you could absolutely have conceived later on. Is the test still positive today?
LovePrayBlue
January 5th, 2021, 12:08 PM
Yes in that case you could absolutely have conceived later on. Is the test still positive today?

AF arrived the following day. Something similar happened a couple months ago. Not sure why that keeps happening.


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atomic sagebrush
January 5th, 2021, 01:15 PM
We have been having a lot of faint positive pregnancy tests that then go to nothing over the past few months. I am suspicious of the tests, like maybe they're using some new tech or something that is rendering false pos.