TTC pink after miscarriage

[1pink4blue]

Hi I had a second miscarriage at 9 weeks . I tested last night day 22 after miscarriage and got a positive opk . I’m just wondering if I should have an attempt tonight when my husband comes home from travelling or would this be too late to be in for pink
I haven’t been great on my diet in the last few weeks .
I haven’t dtd in a while so it would be one attempt but wondering if I should focus on next month instead
I’m 41 and desperate for a girl
Thanks

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear this.

I'm not sure what you mean by "too late to be in for pink". Can you clarify??

At 41 time is not on our side so I would have you attempt if you've gotten a clean bill from your doc after your loss. Go for it.

[1pink4blue]

I know timing does not matter in relation to gender but can’t help thinking dtd a day after a positive opk sways blue ?
Is this right ?

[atomic sagebrush]

No, it doesn't sway blue at all, it's been completely debunked. Even using Dr. Shettles' own data with modern understanding of how the menstrual cycle works, 50-50 boys and girls are conceived on every cycle day. Have your attempt!