Boy or swollen girl 13.4 weeks

[bellaaa]

We sway girl and got a scan today with 13.4 weeks. I was hoping to see girl but my feeling say it’s another boy. Please tell me what you think. Boy or swollen girl?

[bellaaa]

I have found more pictures that are maybe useful. Unfortunately no clear picture from the side with a nub what makes me think boy. Please help me with your guesses:-)4379543796437974379843799438004380143802

[bellaaa]

Anyone? Would really appreciate your guess! If it’s another boy this is my 2nd failed sway :-(

Also found this image of a possible potty shot. Any boy or girl parts visible over here?

[atomic sagebrush]

There is no nub visible on any of these. I just can't guess based on any of these photos.

[bellaaa]

Thank you so much for your reaction. That’s what I also was afraid of. I’ll have a gender scan next week and will update than but I have a feeling right know it’s a boy

[bellaaa]

Confirmed boy! Gender disappointment is real and hurt so much. Any tips / advice how to connect more with this baby?

[LindaLaetitia]

Hey i recently had my third failed sway (3rd boy) i was really really down for months. I had found to feel better while on ficus day by day not thinking in the future. A baby is a baby and i want everything as sweet as it could be bc its my last - i am 40 and i cant add one more. My most fear is about raising men as i absolutly have no persuading male role model in my head that would be useful fir that picture in my head. Fir my girls this was ready the day i conceived. So my gender disappointment is a lot about feeling lost with so many male characters. But i try to see that everything is for a reason and i will find a way to go with the boys. Its difficult nowadays to raise boys in Western culture. Masculin Features are mostly seen in a negative light. So thats another part of feeling overwhelmed with 3 boys. But ya we could take it - they chose us to be their moms and one day we will be proud of them. Take your time to grief its not your fault and try to Focus on a newborn baby soon in your Arms 🫶

[atomic sagebrush]

Confirmed boy! Gender disappointment is real and hurt so much. Any tips / advice how to connect more with this baby?

It is hard to connect with a grainy image on the screen. Just do your best to get through your pregnancy - pick out a name you like, shop for cute clothes, paint an adorable nursery, that sort of thing, but the real bonding will come once you have your little man home. Huge congrats on your new son!