hi everyone

[wish4me]

hi everyone, i am new to the site and have become a dream member. i am excited to share and hear about everyones experiences and journies. i have two boys and currently pregnant with my third son. we are looking at family balancing using pgd in thailand or the us next year. i am completely new and naive to all the procedures so I have many hours of research ahead of me im sure! anyway im very pleased to be part of your community and look forward to hearing from you all. xxx

[nuthinbutpink]

Welcome! You'll find tons of info here in but the Member HT Forum and the International forums. One of our moderators will be able to help regarding SART and we've had several cycle there with mixed results. Look forward to chatting with you.

[bubbaboo]

Hi and welcome wish4me...... good luck with this pregnancy.. I am new to this too and am finding the forums so helpful.
So much to learn. I have been reading some of other ladies experiences and feel hopeful about process....hope you do too

[wish4me]

thanks bubbaboo, lovely to hear from you. yes i know there is so much to learn!! hopefully one step at a time and we rearch our goals :)

[wish4me]

ok great thanks nuthinbutpink, as im reading up on some posts its seems the procedures in the US have more positive results? I could be completely wrong as i know I have so much more reading to do. but thanku for saying hello and look forward to chatting :)

[lobella2]

Welcome and good luck!

[Cinss]

Hello :)

[clarabell]

Hello wish4me, and all.
I'm also new to this site and like you have three boys, my youngest is 5 months and so cute. But when I found out he was another boy I was deverstated, and have been suffering GD, obviously not gone away otherwise I would not be on here. I didn't know they did it in Thailand? No chance for us as the cost is so grand. I think I will have to high tech sway, DH says not yet though. Sometimes I think he just goes along with it to keep me happy? Good luck with bump.:bike:

[bubbaboo]

Welcome clarabell. Lots of good reading on swaying that i have seen as well.
Take care of yourself and your bubba and read on......lots to learn.. I have been learning so much.

[My Fabulous Children]

Welcome!

[Myloves]

Welcome! You'll find some great tips on swaying here.

[wish4me]

hi clarabel, i know how hard it is to want a little baby girl so bad it hurts. I hope you find comfort in giving your little little boys lots of cuddles and know that you have not closed the chapter to having another baby. We did the 'girl sway' with the third and was not successful and I found it really hard when we found out I was having another boy as I was so convinced we having a girl. i wish you all the best and look forward to chatting with you. xx

[wish4me]

hi myloves, thanks for the tip but I am all too familiar with swaying! my dh and I did a very strict girl diet (the no salt etc etc etc), took many supplements, followed all the rules - ions, lavender, the whole lot you name it. but was unsuccessful and we have another little boy on the way! if anyone has any questions to my sway id be happy to answer. look forward to chatting to you lyloves :)

[wish4me]

thanks and hi my fabulous children :)

[wish4me]

hi cinss! :)

[wish4me]

thanks and hello lobella2 :)

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[clarabell]

HI to you all, great to see so many replies. Still finding my way round, and don't get to see your signatures untill I have more posts, sure this wont take me too long. Wish4me when is your little boy due? Or have you had him ? I will look at your sway. I did try to sway with DS 2 and DS3 which were based on the Shettles method of timing, which obviously didn't work for us. With DS3 I took Lydia pinkman and did a girl diet and supplements, but not as hard core as some. Plus DH wasn't on board. I keep telling myself that if we do it like others have on the forum we will get our girl, but then obviously I read threads like yours and have to come to terms with the fact I could have another boy, and I just know I wouldn't be allowed another baby after this attempt. Some how I would have to come to terms with that. I do think if someone gave me a huge pile of cash I would go the medical route. God am I a spoilt bi#*h?

[wish4me]

hi clarabel, no I havent had him yet im due at the end of august. Id be happy to share my sway with you. ill write it out for you this week and reply to this post again. our sway was really strict and I think if I couldnt concieve a girl on such a hard sway then the only option I may have is high tech. I know what you mean about the financial side of things, its such a hard decision. I know for me I keep feeling so selfish about maybe doing high tech next time, as I keep thinking if we do go to the US I will be taking away from the boys, as with that money we could go on a big family holiday or put it towards a good education. Then I think we'll just have to save much harder and it will all work out. it is an emotional rollercoaster of emotions. ill send u my sway really soon. :)

[sweetpea]

Hi and welcome!! :wave: