Can not belive I messed up timing!!!!

[Blund]

This is our 2 month trying. Trying 0+12. Last month we did great with both timing and ph.

I usually O the same day I get a positive opk. Last night I had cramps and positive opk, my ph was around 5. Usually around 4,5. We dtd last night and this morning.

Now I think I´m not O before today! My temp went down again today. I´m so stressed!!!

Probably going to dtd today as well. But I´m starting to think we dtd right in the boy sone yesterday???

[Cinss]

There is really no boy zone and girl zone. Many women have had boys and girls from all the different timing methods. Actually aiming for O+12 is really cutting your chances of pregnancy seeing as the egg only lives for around 12 hours.

[rainbowflower]

there is no "boy zone" - but what you have done is DTD in perfect conception-zone :)

[Blund]

Thanks girls!

Hoping for a girl, praying!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

i think I may have answered this on another thread already so if I did apologies.

Timing is as close to completely debunked as it is possible for any sway tactic to be. It's been studied more than any other method out there and there has been NO consistent trend whatsoever found. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-discussion/7691-trouble-timing.html and http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-best-practices/1291-o-12-part-1-history-o-12-a.html and http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-best-practices/1293-o-12-part-3-advantages-disadvantages-o-12-a.html

It's the REST of your sway that matters, not timing. So if you feel good about your sway otherwise, you should be THRILLED because rather than trying to do O+12 which actually prevents a lot of people from getting pg, you upped your odds of conception this month when your sway was good! :)

[Blund]

there is no "boy zone" - but what you have done is DTD in perfect conception-zone :)

Yes it was the right conception time, I´m pregnant! It feels just like my last time with my boy so now I@m waiting to find out. I feel I messed up my sway so I´m a bit down today. Still hoping for a girl!!!

[TTC5]

Don't panic! Timing is the least important part of swaying. You will be fine x

[Blund]

Thanks TTC5:) I feel I messed up my diet as well, but I guess I would feel that way no matter what I did..

[NeedAGirl!]

Well a AS says, you can't get your dd if you can't get pregnant! We dtd right on o!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes it was the right conception time, I´m pregnant! It feels just like my last time with my boy so now I@m waiting to find out. I feel I messed up my sway so I´m a bit down today. Still hoping for a girl!!!

I don't think you should feel down at all! I'm excited for you! HUGE congrats!!!

[Blund]

Thanks everybody! This helps:) I´m so confused, but this is it - I can only wait and see from here:)

[Indira]

Congratulations on your pregnancy!

[Irishmom]

Huge congrats!!;)

[hopingforsaskia]

Aww Lovely!! Huge congrats on your pregnancy... I am crossing my fingers for a little bundle of princess for you!! :fx:

[Blund]

Here´s my update.
5 weeks ago I had a missed abortion, 17 weeks pregnant. I lost my little girl.

I´m not sure I will try the diet and supplements again..scared I will have a new missed abortion.

[myGirl]

I am so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart to see this happen to you. ((hugs))

[atomic sagebrush]

Here´s my update.
5 weeks ago I had a missed abortion, 17 weeks pregnant. I lost my little girl.

I´m not sure I will try the diet and supplements again..scared I will have a new missed abortion.

I'm so, so very sorry. :( I totally understand your fears but just know that it is very unlikely that anything you did or didn't do caused this to happen, please don't blame yourself in any way. Wishing you the very very best for peace of mind.

[Blund]

I'm pregnant again after my missed abortion in June:)

The baby we lost was a girl! I did my supplements, low diet, little meat, abstain and O+12. Low ph.

This time we just wanted to get pregnant fast because we have a little boy that want to be a big brother:)
I was still sad, had gained some weight last pregnancy, I was craving suger and coffee, we did frequent but not om day O-2, don't know about my ph.

So what do you think? Boy again??

[atomic sagebrush]

Congratulations!!!

There's no way to know on the basis of your symptoms or anything you did or didn't do, what gender your baby will be, but I just want to wish you the very very best for a happy and healthy pregnancy and that you are able to enjoy every moment!

[Mochagirl]

I got pregnant straight away after a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks, and I'm having a girl! I've heard of many others in similar situations who've gotten girls as well. I hope you have a healthy, sticky pink bean in there!