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    Surprise bfp

    So I知 a bit gutted to have a bfp with no sway. I really feel I知 carrying a boy for the following reasons; been super stressed recently and been in and out of the fridge snacking a lot to cope with stress, ovulated from my right side (felt it and lymph nodes in right groin were raised but not in left), dtd the day before ovulation. Had sex with O and then had 2 O痴 the next day too but no more sex. Do o痴 without sex make your body think you are having sex again? Also been on vitamins with iron in them for a while.

    Things in my favour, one sex (all month!!!).
    Hub has been drinking regularly on an eve, and so had I.
    That really is about all I feel ok about so I definitely think a third boy is coming soon. Not sure how i値l Cope as this is definitely the last.. in fact baby no.2 was the last!!

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    Congratulations bobster! 1 attempt is a good sway tactic 😊

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    Thanks Nell. Feel cross with myself as had really psyched myself up to do everything I could. Nervous about how i’ll feel. Think hub is going for a vasectomy after this one ��

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobster View Post
    Thanks Nell. Feel cross with myself as had really psyched myself up to do everything I could. Nervous about how i値l feel. Think hub is going for a vasectomy after this one ��
    Most people don't sway so not worth stressing about it could easily be a girl still! everything happens dor a reason will you find out?

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    Stress does not sway blue, if anything it sways pink.

    You cannot tell the side you ovulated from based on O pain or lymph nodes being swollen.

    I had an O when I got my girl.

    I can't answer your question about Big O's and sex, we just don't know how it works to that level.

    Vitamins do sway a bit blue but lots of people get girls with them.

    Huge congrats and pink dust headed your way!
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    Thanks atomic. I just ‘feel’ that this is a boy. I can’t imagine a girl now.
    What do you think about the sneak peek test? Is it more accurate if you get bloods taken to rule out contamination?

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    Always remember that every pregnancy is a chance of a girl whether you sway or not.

    It痴 hard to imagine a girl when you have two boys but it痴 out of your control now so try not to worry or focus on gender.

    Congratulations on another blessing

    Lil


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    Thanks lilawt, you are right, it really is a blessing whatever it is and there’s no point worrying now.. just need to focus on the beauty of having a growing baby in there which is truely a blessing ❤️

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    Yes will find out. Need to know before I think.. been thinking of sneak peak as the price of NIPT is so much.. not sure how accurate it is though as read mixed reviews. Want to find out on my own really so I can gather my thoughts. Last time was awful. Cried all the way home from scan and hubby didn’t understand at that point. Want it to be better this time for him too..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobster View Post
    Thanks atomic. I just ‘feel’ that this is a boy. I can’t imagine a girl now.
    What do you think about the sneak peek test? Is it more accurate if you get bloods taken to rule out contamination?
    Do not do the Sneak Peek, even when you have the blood drawn at a lab. It's just not reliable in the way that the NIPT tests are and I can't recommend them.
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    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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