I know that answer is so different for all of us.
For me it came after my 3rd cycle that didn't work.
I feel like ever since then..God has been sending me little reminders of how truly grateful I should be, how truly blessed I am. I am glad to get these little jolts of reality every now and then so that I don't stay stuck in the past. Its funny because for the last year HT was an obsession, a focus, something to think about, post about every day, numerous times per day, now I find ...

Do any of us really know what comes next in life...we don't! We plan, we think we are prepared and yet we are not.
Yesterday I was at a birthday party and learned that a woman within the circle of my friends - her husband died suddenly, young and left behind 2 beautiful children and a wife. How does she go on? God knows, I think at times I couldn't go on without a daughter? that just seems so unfair of me at times. One would think that puts life in perspective. At times, it does and at times ...

Sometimes it takes something going wrong to realize what's really important in your Life. After 3 failed HT attempts in my quest for a girl, I could barely get out of bed for days , was saddened and truly unable to see all the good the universe has given me. since that last cycle I had a health issue that scared me enough to realize that my desire for a dd is just not as important and not all consuming as it was. Is the desire still thee - yes, will I sway- yes but I am beginning to come to a place ...