DTD every day and abstaining

[Inky]

I've always wanted to know...

WHY does abstaining for 7+ days before DTD favor girls?
WHY does DTD everyday/frequent elimination favor girls?
Is it okay to do both when trying to sway girl?

Since timing isn't important, if you are using frequent elimination when is the best to do it? Like O-5, O-4, O-3, O-2, O-1, O+1?
Or would it be better to do frequent elimination only a couple times (like O-1 and O)?

(I mean this in terms of best chances of conceiving without ruining the sway)

Thanks in advance for any feedback

[Butterfly Spirit]

My DH did FR like almost every day..and I seduced him to BD when I saw the + OPK or even the day right before it.
I did not jump and dump either..I laid there peacefully visualizing my DD but got up after 40 mins to slip on my - ion bracelet then laid there up to an hr from ending BD. lol

[Inky]

I will try that, Butterfly

Do we know why these methods favor girls?

[mummypink]

We went for FR for dh (without help from me) for our sway with bd on the day i got +opk as we had bd every day from af finishing to about a week before my next af was due when ttc the first two times and got boys both times. I think frequent bd can actually sway boy because it can change your ph but I'm sure Atomic can tell you whether that is a load of rubbish!
Abstinance and fr both lower sperm count which sways girl.

Best of luck with your sway! x

[Butterfly Spirit]

I will try that, Butterfly

Do we know why these methods favor girls?

Atomic is your woman! lol She will respond soon...

But you are on Clomid... so you won't do much else.

[Mum23boys]

On clomid id definately DTD more than once - Clomid makes your cm hostile to sperm and u want to get pregant QUICK on that stuff so if the mood takes u i would do more attempts but if your worried still do it every day but have him release first and dump it then do it properly again as soon as he is able to