Thread: DTD every day and abstaining
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September 9th, 2012, 10:47 PM #1
DTD every day and abstaining
I've always wanted to know...
WHY does abstaining for 7+ days before DTD favor girls?
WHY does DTD everyday/frequent elimination favor girls?
Is it okay to do both when trying to sway girl?
Since timing isn't important, if you are using frequent elimination when is the best to do it? Like O-5, O-4, O-3, O-2, O-1, O+1?
Or would it be better to do frequent elimination only a couple times (like O-1 and O)?
(I mean this in terms of best chances of conceiving without ruining the sway)
Thanks in advance for any feedback
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September 10th, 2012, 08:02 AM #2
My DH did FR like almost every day..and I seduced him to BD when I saw the + OPK or even the day right before it.
I did not jump and dump either..I laid there peacefully visualizing my DD but got up after 40 mins to slip on my - ion bracelet then laid there up to an hr from ending BD. lolAge 7 5 MC May 2012 BFP June 2012 My ~*Princess*~ is now 3 yrs old! MC May 2015 Chemical June 2015
DS#3 Arrived in April
I love my Rainbow Baby with all my , She took a year to conceive! Thank you GD!
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September 10th, 2012, 10:49 AM #3
I will try that, Butterfly
Do we know why these methods favor girls?
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September 10th, 2012, 11:05 AM #4
We went for FR for dh (without help from me) for our sway with bd on the day i got +opk as we had bd every day from af finishing to about a week before my next af was due when ttc the first two times and got boys both times. I think frequent bd can actually sway boy because it can change your ph but I'm sure Atomic can tell you whether that is a load of rubbish!
Abstinance and fr both lower sperm count which sways girl.
Best of luck with your sway! xDS1 - 4.5yrs DS2 - 3yrs
Swayed for a but expecting a beautiful
My gorgeous son has arrived!
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September 10th, 2012, 11:12 AM #5Age 7 5 MC May 2012 BFP June 2012 My ~*Princess*~ is now 3 yrs old! MC May 2015 Chemical June 2015
DS#3 Arrived in April
I love my Rainbow Baby with all my , She took a year to conceive! Thank you GD!
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September 10th, 2012, 11:16 AM #6
On clomid id definately DTD more than once - Clomid makes your cm hostile to sperm and u want to get pregant QUICK on that stuff so if the mood takes u i would do more attempts but if your worried still do it every day but have him release first and dump it then do it properly again as soon as he is able to
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