The law of attraction (the secret) - experiences?

[sigrid86]

I was wondering if anyone of you applied the LOA of the secret in order to get your desired gender?
And if so, did it work for you or not?
Since the loss of my baby girl I'm trying to change my life a bit by being more positive and be grateful for everything.
I hope it really works...so if you have experiences with it, please share (it even doesn't need to concern babies).

[atomic sagebrush]

My concern with these type of methods is that we seem to have better results when people put pink sways into the back of their minds and don't think about them too much. I do worry that the more you focus on getting a girl, sending positivity into the universe, picturing her in your minds, and so on, that it may sway blue a little bit. I don't know this, of course, I just feel that I've observed again and again that the people who think about the outcomes of their sways the most, get poorer results than those who try to adopt a lifestyle and stay laid back about it.

[sigrid86]

So that actually means the LOA doesn't work?

I truely understand what you mean, but being on a diet, exercising and having one attempt on O day does make you think quite a lot of swaying, no?
Do you have other suggestions then? Maybe drink a lot of alcohol to forget al this?

[atomic sagebrush]

I personally do not believe in stuff like sending positive thoughts to the universe does anything. Just not my belief system I guess.

It is natural to think about swaying some. But what I'm talking about is a morning till night, focus on "earning" a daughter or "forcing" the universe to give one up. I have seen it time and again where the people who are the most "swaycessed" (obsessed over swaying) worrying about their sways every minute, are the ones who get opposites even with otherwise good sways. The people who take on the pink lifestyle and then just live their lives as if this is their normal way of life are the ones whose sways succeed.

You have already conceived a daughter. your lifestyle is already pink friendly. So I don't want you to start thinking about getting a daughter all the time. I want you to do what you did before as much as possible and allow the sway to work for you.