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January 12th, 2019, 03:37 PM #581
TP thank you so much for updating us we have all been on the edge of our seats waiting for the news. I want to congratulate you but also know you are in pain right now so it's so hard to know what to say ( although 4 blue and others have said it so well already)
I know how much you wanted this and I know nothing can be said to make it better right now- as you said you have to take it day by day.
But just know we are all here for you- most of us know how it feels and we want to support you all we can.
Ps I must say I'm totally jealous of your labour experience it would have been my dream to labour naturally and drug free however I'm facing my third c section in the next couple of weeks. I'm in awe of your natural ability to birth so naturally xxProud Mum to two gorgeous boys
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Swayed expecting beautiful DS3 due Feb 2019
Dreaming of a in 2020
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January 12th, 2019, 03:41 PM #582Dream Vet
[QUOTE=Nell_;1019167]Well done TP on your labour and congratulations on your new bundle. So sorry it wasn't what we hoped for you but like you say take 1 moment at a time, lots of ladies on here have been where you are and will be a great support.
We are all here for you!! Do you have anyone in the "real world" you can get support from too and vent to?
sending hugs xoxox
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January 12th, 2019, 04:17 PM #583Swaying Advice Coach
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Hugest congrats Panther on new baby girl - I'm so sorry it didn't go the way we were all hoping it would. Wishing you peace and joy.
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January 12th, 2019, 04:19 PM #584
I wouldn’t have said it better...
Congrats on a healthy baby, and a great labour and supportive husband. Well done you! I’m sure your eldest is going to Be soooo proud of you, of her, of her sister.
I have been there, and so, so, so understand..my heart breaks for you because I know the place where you are at, and it.is.tough.
Don’t feel guilty for not having an immediate bond..even with the “best case scenario “/ dreamed gender etc, that rush of love is not necessarily there straight up and may take time to build. So just take it one day at a time, you are strong, and you will be strong..and be stronger than you think - even though it feels like your world is crumbling somewhat, things will get better, I promise. All in your own time. feel free to reach out whenever you need it - you will never be judged here.
Xx
Sending you so manyLucky Mummy to 4 sweet divas
(2013) (2015) (2018) (2021)
(July 2014) (November 2023)
Our sway didn’t work for #3 & we had a little oops for #4 but we love them all to bits... not sure if we ever will but somehow hoping we might add blue to the crew, to complete our family, one day...
Fingers crossed for TTC #5 (again) for early 2024!
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January 12th, 2019, 06:54 PM #585
Congrats!! I'm so relieved for you that it was so quick. Jealous too. I've been there many times, having 5 boys and we all get you. Hugs. I hope you heal well and find all the possible joys with this baby. My 5 boys look identical and have the same brown hair and brown eyes. Dh is blonde/red with blue green eyes. Every time I didn't get that girl I felt so ignored for my dreams. I just wanted even a different hair color or eye color... my whole house is blue, all their clothing passed to the next. My two sways ended in MC and now I'm due in the summer. I don't even want to check because I'm just not ready to face boy number 6. Even though I expect it. So tons of hugs from all us moms that totally get it.
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January 12th, 2019, 07:19 PM #586
Congratulations TP on your new arrival. I am so sorry this didnt go the way you hoped. We are all here for you. Xo
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January 12th, 2019, 08:17 PM #587
Oh TP you are so strong both physically and mentally. Congratulations on the safe arrival of your little girl. It's ok to still grieve that this wasn't the boy you dreamed of, I know from experience that it doesn't mean you'll love DD2 any less. For me DD2 has so much more of my personality than DD1 and as she grew and I got to see more of who she was it made me more and more proud to be her mum. For me the disappointment of not having a son hasn't gone away but when I see my two girls together it reminds me that they are not disappointed in their siblings at all and their girly bond has just become so strong over the last year that I'm actually very happy for them.
I wish you all the best in the newborn haze and know that you have a safe place here to process your emotions.DD1 (2014)
DD2 (2016)
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January 13th, 2019, 06:04 AM #588Dreamer
Congratulations TP on your new bubba and your quick labour! Your DD1 must be over the moon to be a big sister
As everyone else has said I’m so sorry you didn’t get your boy and I send you a huge hug for that but I do hope you’re recovering well and I’m sure the bond with DD2 will come xx
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January 13th, 2019, 11:32 AM #589
TP congratulations!! So sorry for how you are feeling now. I so admire your ability to birth without pain meds despite pitocin, wow you are amazing for doing that. Hoping you have a quick recovery and that all of the bonding hormones take over and allow you to find a joy in you that you never even expected. Whatever your process may be, take your time and know that all of your feelings are ok.
Keep us posted on how you are doing.
Xo
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January 13th, 2019, 11:45 AM #590
TP, congratulations that you and baby are healthy. It sounds like an amazing birth! I will try to think of your borth story of I am on Pitocin again- you are strong!
I am sorry you didn't have a boy and that it hurts so much not to have the gender you wanted. I hope you feel more peace pver time as you grieve that loss.
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