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January 15th, 2019, 11:34 AM #611
Have you had confirmation Mom25boys? X
I meant no offense to anyone with my above comments by the way. Just making a point that it's a roll of the dice every time whether you sway or not. I think I just took it for granted on DS3 that a sway meant "automatic girl!" I remember when I first got pregnant with DS3 I was literally the only person I knew that had 3 boys. I knew people online but that's different. It's only within the last maybe 12-18 months I've actually met other mother's in person who have 3, 4, 5+ boys. The vast majority of families I know have one of each. Or even just one child. I was asked recently was I keeping both twins cause I don't want to be too greedy!! It's a small community. I try not to be offended too easily! Some days that's easier said than done lol!
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January 15th, 2019, 11:50 AM #612
Honestly 4b2p thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your words have been a real comfort to me and exactly what I need to hear, despite not really admitting any of this to myself until it all just came out here!! It seems that in my community, not just my family, girls are more widely celebrated also so I totally get what you're saying there. My BILs wife had a girl two months after we had DS1. We both delivered in the same birthing centre. I had my family come visit as he was the first grandchild. My FIL and one SIL (out of 5) visited. No BILs (there's 3) Every single one of them visited her with her DD. She had a son shortly after I had my second son and none of them visited her. I even remember at my baby shower for DS1, we were team green, everyone was referring to baby as "she" and how much fun I'd have with a girl etc. One of my SILs even said I'd be lucky to not have to change a boys nappy cause it's "just plain gross" Talk about blatantly favouring one gender over the other!
Anyway lol, I'm going on and on. I just wanted to say much love and hoping you get your girl this time, though so nice to hear you are content either way. It's that contented feeling I think I've been chasing for so many years!! X
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January 15th, 2019, 11:52 AM #613
Oh ABC I am SO sorry things went so badly!! I hope you will be ok both physically and emotionally!!
Great to hear your twins are here safe and sound and wow they were absolutely amazing weights for your gestation!!
Sending so many positive vibes your way, keeping you in my thoughts xx
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January 15th, 2019, 11:54 AM #614
Oh ABC that sounds scary I'm so glad you and your babies are ok! They are here!!!!!!!!! Yeyyyy!! Honestly 5 hours in between sounds horrendous, you deserve a medal!
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January 15th, 2019, 12:14 PM #615Swaying Advice Coach
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ABC I'm so sorry the delivery was rough - but so thankful babies are here safe and sound. Hugest congrats and I hope you're smothered with love and support right now.
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January 15th, 2019, 12:15 PM #616
Oh ABC! I’m so sorry you had such a rough time! Hugs and prayers! So happy your beautiful rainbows are here!
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January 15th, 2019, 12:22 PM #617Swaying Advice Coach
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I have endless gulfs of sympathy for people who have had GD since the first because you guys have never really had the simple and uncomplicated joy of a pregnancy spent not caring about this stuff. Hugest hugs Hopper.
BTW that is still the thing that gets to me. (I know I've said this a jillion times, apologies to those who have read it before) It's the ease at which the majority of people pop out BG or GB and then act as if they've cured cancer and celebrate it like they've done something superior to the rest of us. And then they're like "We're DONE! hallelujah while it took me 6 pregnancies, five children, 2 losses, 21 years, endless hours of research, practically throwing my marriage away, selling my soul to the devil (long story but I really had to fight hard to get Susannah) and then I still couldn't really enjoy her the way that I had hoped to enjoy my daughter. Still really really hurts sometimes.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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January 15th, 2019, 01:35 PM #618
ABC Congratulations on the arrival of your twins i cant believe those amazing birth weights!! im so sorry it was so traumatic i can only imagine how scary that would be to go through, i hope you are feeling well enough to enjoy your babies but it can be hard to even do that after something so scary, we are all here if you need us, wishing you as quick of a recovery as possible and i hope the midwives/dr's have given you a chance to ask any questions you may have about what happened so you can try to mentally work through it xx
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January 15th, 2019, 01:43 PM #619
Abc huge congrats to your babies you had really hard labour i wish you recover soon
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January 15th, 2019, 02:32 PM #620
no need to thank me im glad that sharing my experience can be useful to other people, one of the worst parts of GD is feeling alone with it. Your family sound similar to mine, we received nothing for our 5 boys but the house looked like a card shop/ florist for both girls!! and not just cards, i got sent handwritten letters several pages long about how special girls are and how sisters are so so important etc etc.. that nappy comment is insane!! in a way girls nappies can be worse (excuse tmi) girls arent all external down there so when she poo's its got more places to get into.. :-/
its taken me 9 years, 7 full term pregnancies, 1 loss and finally 2 living girls to get this more content feeling, i really hope you feel it after the arrival of your twinsnow 6blue5pink
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