Due July, August, & September 2019

**GirlieCat** · January 3rd, 2019, 05:31 PM

Because this is supposed to be a safe place to share- I had a moment today where something in me just really keeps telling myself that this baby is a boy. I didn't sway this time because I didn't think I cared that much and wanted to just see what would happen...well now that I sit here and think it might be a boy I got super sad and almost cried (blame hormones). I didn't think I cared gender this time, but based on this reaction I guess I really do care and I am scared now how I will react when we find out. I know that is so selfish of me to feel this way since my first sway worked, but I still feel what I feel.
We are doing NIPT so I should know by Valentine's day or the week before.

**violagirl87** · January 3rd, 2019, 07:01 PM

@girliecat, hang in there, it does get better( the morning sickness). I’m starting to feel more like myself now at 11 weeks.
Don’t let the gender fear get you down or take over. I know it’s hard cuz it’s so strong but it’s easier when you see ur current children and remember your immense love for them and realise you are having one more sweet bundle of joy coming. Wishing u the best! We are all here to talk and support. Good luck with ur NIPT, we should get our results early next week due to the Xmas backlog and yes I’m so super nervous.

@eerised and @jasiahsmommy congratulations and welcome to the group

@raisinggentleman3 maybe you can not look at the US and just get the tech to print out pictures for you? With definitely no nub involved? Idk my hubby and I are always desperate to know things ASAP so I think I would just do the US anyway.

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**RaisingGentlemen3** · January 3rd, 2019, 09:51 PM

Originally Posted by GirlieCat

Are you a nurse? Do you mean you will get the ultrasound at work? If so, could the person doing the scan try to stay away from any nubs? Are you doing the NIPT to determine gender?

No I'm not a nurse. I'm actually a radiographer (xray and CT scan). So I work in radiology, same department as US. I did talk with dh and we are thinking about when to find out. We hadn't for sure decided yet but we're lea ing toward 16 weeks. If we decide to find out then, I will skip the US at work bc I would just have to wait 2 more wks. If we decide to wait til 20 wks, I will do the nub US at work so we can guess and have a idea. We still haven't decided tho haha. This will probably take a while ��

**RaisingGentlemen3** · January 3rd, 2019, 09:53 PM

Thanks violagirl! I will keep this in mind too depending on what we decide.

**violagirl87** · January 4th, 2019, 02:21 AM

Originally Posted by RaisingGentlemen3

No I'm not a nurse. I'm actually a radiographer (xray and CT scan). So I work in radiology, same department as US. I did talk with dh and we are thinking about when to find out. We hadn't for sure decided yet but we're lea ing toward 16 weeks. If we decide to find out then, I will skip the US at work bc I would just have to wait 2 more wks. If we decide to wait til 20 wks, I will do the nub US at work so we can guess and have a idea. We still haven't decided tho haha. This will probably take a while ��

Coooool ur a radiographer! My hubby is a radiologist lol. You definitely will have a hard time resisting a scan if u decide to wait. Good luck! Let us know what u decide!
My first two, I didn’t do much interest research about theories and guesses before 20 weeks and hubby never told me but he was quick to tell me during my 20 weeks scans while the tech was doing the scan.

Good luck!!!!! Pls take my pink dust and pass me ur blue dust

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**RaisingGentlemen3** · January 5th, 2019, 10:30 PM

Thanks for all your help ladies! I have decided to resist the scan. We set up an appt to find out the gender arpund 16 wks so I can wait that long. It's really only 10 days after I work. I didn't really want to set up a day til the week we wanted to find out but I looked up her hours and she's not open on Saturday any more and only open til 5 during the week. Which my dh doesn't get off til 5 so we set an appt so he can leave early that day. Wednesday Jan 30, I will know if I will ever get a daughter.

**4blue2pink** · January 6th, 2019, 06:58 AM

everything crossed for you Raisinggentlemen how exciting that you will know by the end of the month

**eerised** · January 6th, 2019, 10:33 AM

Yes! I did sway for a girl!

**RaisingGentlemen3** · January 6th, 2019, 10:41 AM

Originally Posted by 4blue2pink

everything crossed for you Raisinggentlemen how exciting that you will know by the end of the month

Thanks! Exciting...and scary! Haha. For now I am trying not to think about it and ignore the thought

**amelia** · January 7th, 2019, 06:47 PM

Got my BFP yesterday and did a quantitative hCG blood test today as well - due mid-September 2019! I had to do Clomid this time around to induce ovulation but Clomid also sways pink so hopefully it helped me in that regard. Good to be buddies again with you GirlieCat

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