DUE OCT /NOV /December 2019

[Bobster]

Summer I’m sure you are going to hear girl! I’m looking forward to your update.

Sonny are you feeling ok? I hope you are ok. Not long now until hopefully you’ll have some answers and can start to adjust either way.

[MrsSparkles]

Hi Ladies,

Hope you're all well.
The last few nights I keep having vivid nightmares about losing this precious baby.
I don't know why, I'm so stressed, as they're only dreams.

I remember last time having super vivid dreams, but nothing horrid like this.
Roll on the next scan to reassure myself all is well.

Anyone else relate ?

[Sonnygirl]

Hi Ladies,

Hope you're all well.
The last few nights I keep having vivid nightmares about losing this precious baby.
I don't know why, I'm so stressed, as they're only dreams.

I remember last time having super vivid dreams, but nothing horrid like this.
Roll on the next scan to reassure myself all is well.

Anyone else relate ?

I think it's very normal to have vivid dreams. Dreams are a refection of things going on at the time and if you have been feeling anxious about the baby then it is very normal for your dreams to reflect this. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong. please don't worry.


I've been off the site for a while as i'm an dealing with a lot of anxiety and feeling really low. I'm trying hard not to spiral but until I know for sure what i'm having but it's taking a lot to keep my head above water.

Hope all your pregnancies are going well.

[Bobster]

Mrs sparkles just ditto what sonny says, it’s most likely just your worries coming into your dreams. Must be so distressing though. You will be protective with the scan date looming. I’m not having the bad dreams but I am feeling mega anxious about something being wrong or having a miscarriage which is an awful feeling.

Sonny completely understand you need to do whatever you can to help how you are feeling. When I found out ds2 was a boy I left the site as couldn’t bare seeing any good news. I really have everything crossed for you. When is your scan date? Keep talking to hubby and whoever you can about how you are feeling as bottling it up can sometimes be worse x

[MrsSparkles]

Hi Sonny

Totally understand taking time away.
Another friend said she found being here very stressful during the waiting period too.

Thank you for the reassurance.
13 days until the scan

[Bobster]

I had a scare yesterday and they had to do a scan. Got to see baby again and everything looked ok thank god. I’m so nervous for the 20 week scan 12 days and counting

[MrsSparkles]

Oh no was it lack of movement ?
I am so glad everything is okay with your precious one.

Roll on that scan, 12 days for both of us.
Will be thinking of you

[Bobster]

I was having some tummy pains and had a tiny bit of spotting. All was ok and nothing so far since. Thanks for well wishes. Are you feeling any movements yet sparkles?

[Bobster]

Sparkles are you going to find out what you are having at your 20 week scan? Do your hospital tell people as I know some don’t? I’m going to tell them I don’t k ow so I can get an unbiased opinion. So anxious that the gender scan was wrong as I’ve stupidly googled and read loads of horror stories

[MrsSparkles]

So happy youre okay,pregnancy is such a worry!!!!

No movement's yet.
Yes will also tell them I dont know, even though I am 100% now.
Just instinctive.

Yours will be right, I'm sure