April/May/June 2021

[Flowergirl]

Yes it is ! Me too in a shock but at the same time over the moon too! I am trying to be positive and strong as much as I can. Same here this is my last try ! But I am sure everything will be good this time so let’s pray and start the journey together! Testing again this Morning with Frer as period was due today and so happy to see this!



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Yay that’s so exciting!! I have a good feeling. I got my 2nd lot of hcg results back and it’s jumped from 83 to 1301 so it’s doubled every 1.5 days! So relieved and happy!

[hakrueg]

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[Abifasc]

I’m sorry for your sadness and disappointment hakreug, I know how you feel!! All those things you said I’ve felt before! Congratulations on your sweet girl though- I know you’ll love her so much.

I have 4 boys in a row so a 5th will be kind of funny to me but I did the peekaboo test last night and I’m eager to know if I’ll get my girl or not! It was kind of messy, I had a hard time getting enough blood so I hope it works out ok.


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[hakrueg]

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[Flowergirl]

Thank you. I’m sure I’ll get there too. I just hate that I let myself believe this could work for me. I think I may have been overconfident. I’m still convinced there is something to swaying but I don’t think what we know, as of now, is enough for me. I’m inclined to believe I’m genetically predisposed to have girls and diet can’t undo it.

Anyways, I’ll stop being so negative on this thread. I don’t want it to hinder anyone else’s sway/pregnancy. I would hate for them to be nervous and lose joy. It is bound to work for most of us on here.


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Please don’t ever feel like you can’t talk about how you’re feeling with GD here, this is the reason why we’re all on this site and what we have in common. Our hearts long for a certain gender so it’s completely understandable that you’re feeling the way you’re feeling and if we can’t support you through that who can? Sending huge hugs. I wish I could of taken all your pink dust and you had all my blue.

[Abifasc]

I took a shower at my house before and then went to my friend’s house who has 4 daughters and her husband stayed upstairs! Washed my hands a ton and used a lot of alcohol wipes. With all the boys in my house I didn’t trust it!


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[hakrueg]

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[Flowergirl]

So I have been awake since 3am (it's 5 now) as I felt sick but I've ended up thinking too much about baby and whether its a boy or girl. I feel awful but I know I'll be really disappointed if its a boy and I'm not sure how to get past that as this will be our last baby. We won't be finding out until a gender scan at 18 to 20 weeks but I'm hoping to have a good guess from the 12 week scan. Not really sure why I'm posting, just feeling anxious about it 😳

It’s so hard not to feel anxious hey. I really wasn’t convinced we should have another baby at all because of our ages and the ages of our children so going again was a real gamble. I’m praying it’s paid off. It’s such a risk having a baby with real hopes it’s a certain gender, we are all so brave to try and hope for the best.

[hakrueg]

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[Disneylover]

NIPT results are in and they don’t lie. I’m having another girl. I’m way more upset than I thought I’d be. I kind of wish I didn’t find out because then this pregnancy would still be exciting. I know I’ll get there but it just feels like I’ve been stripped of my dreams. Oh man, I could go on forever about all the little things I’m heartbroken to give up. The things I let myself dream about for the last 10 weeks. I’m crushed and I really thought I’d be handling this better. I’m disappointed in the results and myself.
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hakrueg-I am so sorry. that's why I love this site. It's such an interesting place. You hear girl which is what some of us are dying to hear while others will hear boy-and I know that will be hard for you. Plus Gender disappointment is so frowned upon most other places, I'm glad we can talk about it so openly here. You have a right to be crushed. I know I will be as well if I don't hear the results I was hoping for. Don't be disappointed in yourself, your feelings are more than valid. We're here for you.