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    Here's the video from today's scan at 14+1. You can see the potty shot near the end so you don't have to sit through the whole time!

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    Yea I don't think there's any getting around that being a boy. I'm sorry you didn't get to hear girl and I second the idea about counseling.

    I couldn't really move on from loosing Lily either before I got some counseling and i think its best you do it now before baby arrives and before you start feeling too bad.

    Remember to still allow yourself to grieve and maybe look into doing a HT pregnancy once you're ready>
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    Where are you having your scans done Hun, I've never known NHS scan places be any good at gender at 20 weeks, let alone have experience with nubs, and you aren't even 15 weeks yet, it's so early still i don't think it's time to lose hope xxxx

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    Btw I'm Sorry it wouldn't let me open the video, I tried xxx

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    I don't know... I've seen so many scans on here be wrong. To me, that could easily be swollen girl bits too. With both my boys there was an obvious turtle.. and the penis was way thicker than just the skinny line in the middle on your video. Now I've only ever had gender predicted at 20 weeks so I know there is probably a lot of growth on a boy that could happen between 14-20 weeks so it totally could be a boy. I just could see this going either way! If you told me in 6 weeks that you were told girl I wouldn't be surprised. But I wouldn't be surprised if you also told me boy. Now I'm no expert at all, just my opinion. I'm sure this is so very devastating for you but try not to think about it until your actual scan when you can be totally sure. No point in putting your body through all that anxiety and stress when it's not 100% yet.

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    I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, Northen... When my DD* died I also had counseling about 3 years later. I wish I had done it sooner, it would have saved me so much more heartache. Nothing can make losing Evelyn* better, but talking about her can be very healing. I'll respond to your pm later, have two little boys jumping around now demanding my attention.
    Mummy to a girl, born sleeping & two gorgeous & loud little boys

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    Hugs xxx
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    OUR GENDER DREAMING SUCCESS!!
    BFP 11 dpo on FRER, ttc pink month 4, (following blighted ovum in February 2014) HB seen 6+0!!! WOW harmony test says GIRL 17/05/14 ... Please let it be true!!! Confirmed GIRL @ 30/05/14 / 16+1 gender scan!!
    Baby girl E arrived 30/10/14, our family is complete
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    Just like Atomic said, I'd fix it in a heartbeat if I could. You have suffered so much and this disappointment is not what you deserve.
    I'll pray that you find peace and comfort for all you've been through.
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    Northern I am so sorry things are looking like they might not turn out the way you dreamed.

    Please seriously consider getting counselling, I know my situation is a lill different but I so wish I had got counselling for the loss of our lill baby while I was preggie cause I dreaded the birth so much 'finally' loosing our precious baby, I gained stupid amount of weight and stretch marks and hated being pregnant and was a cow to live with. Things have got better since Naomi was born but I was a cow and really unhappy for 24weeks and hated being preggie its a long time in my lill boys lives and I regret it now I wasted my last preggie

    You have been throu so much more please consider some counselling it doesn't make you weak it makes you a brave mums doing the best for your family

    Hugs and words are never enough, look after yourself xx
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    *Update it's a girl! fx she'll make it!*

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