Results 1 to 10 of 25
Thread: Why is this so hard?
-
April 15th, 2014, 10:52 AM #1
Why is this so hard?
I have my elective gender scan on Thursday and I have been stressing non stop over it. I'm even debating if I want to go or not. DH thinks I'm going mad and I'm acting very moody around him and my DS's. I have hope for hearing girl, but my gut is saying it's a boy. My 6 week scan showed baby was on my left side- so according to Ramzi, it's a girl. My 11 week 5 day scan of the nub showed a promising girl nub, but I know it was just too early to make an accurate guess.
Is it weird that I am mentally preparing myself to hear boy or should I prepare myself to hear girl? Or neither? Should I go in as neutral as possible? I know if I hear boy I'll cry and I know I'll get over it eventually. This part is the hardest part of pregnancy I swear! Honestly, in the end, I just want a healthy baby, boy or girl. Thanks for letting me vent!B married to T
Mommy to (2011) (2013) (2014) ...They are my world!!
Thank you GOD, Atomic, and everyone here at Gender Dreaming for blessing my family with a HEALTHY BABY GIRL<33
-
April 15th, 2014, 10:57 AM #2
Sorry no advice but hope you hear girl good luck xx
[2012] [2013] TTC [2016/7]
-
April 15th, 2014, 11:02 AM #3
Awww, I hope you hear what you want to hear. For myself, when (if) I get a BFP, I'm going to prepare to hear boy. And bonus for me if it's a girl. Baby is what s/he is. Good luck deciding if you want to go through with the scan. On the plus side, if you go, you will know (with any luck) and then you can stop stressing and focus on healthy baby.
Angie
-
April 15th, 2014, 11:10 AM #4
That's true. I'm tired of stressing over it. I think it would just be better to know and move on. I can't imagine waiting a whole 9 months to find out. If I could find out at conception I would!
B married to T
Mommy to (2011) (2013) (2014) ...They are my world!!
Thank you GOD, Atomic, and everyone here at Gender Dreaming for blessing my family with a HEALTHY BABY GIRL<33
-
April 15th, 2014, 11:35 AM #5Swaying Advice Coach
- Join Date
- Dec 2010
- Location
- Eastern Washington State, USA
- Posts
- 108,141
- Post Thanks / Like
- Downloads
- 0
- Uploads
- 0
I think you should go in preparing to hear boy. I don't trust Ramzi and a nub at 11 5 doesn't tell us anything. That way you won't be devastated if it's a boy. Trust me, you will def. be ready to hear girl!
!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
If you appreciate my help with your sway plan, please consider a donation:
https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=C92U9TVWTRTDQ
-
April 15th, 2014, 11:52 AM #6
-
April 15th, 2014, 01:17 PM #7
-
April 15th, 2014, 01:18 PM #8
I agree with Atomic 100%!
7
5
1.5
newbie
Had my first and only little girl Emmerson oct 19,2014 right on her due date!
Hoping I stop calling her 'little dude, bud' and him real soon
-
April 15th, 2014, 02:43 PM #9
I completely agree with Atomic. I also think that hearing the gender before your 20 week uls is a really good idea. I did this with #3. I didn't want to be dealing with GD during my 20 week uls. How horrible is it to be crying in your 20 week uls when you have a healthy baby but you didn't hear girl? I know this would have happened to me and I was really glad I found out before hand. I think anyone who is going to have bad GD should go for an early scan as long as the place is 100% reliable.
-
April 16th, 2014, 02:40 PM #10Swaying Advice Coach
- Join Date
- Dec 2010
- Location
- Eastern Washington State, USA
- Posts
- 108,141
- Post Thanks / Like
- Downloads
- 0
- Uploads
- 0
No place is 100% reliable. Even at 20 weeks there are mistakes made.
!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
If you appreciate my help with your sway plan, please consider a donation:
https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=C92U9TVWTRTDQ
Similar Threads
-
Having a Hard Time
By BZ94 in forum Gender DisappointmentReplies: 2Last Post: August 18th, 2013, 08:35 PM -
It's really hard...
By Mommabee in forum Gender DisappointmentReplies: 8Last Post: May 5th, 2012, 02:31 AM
2 weeks before. Keep in mind that many people think they actually sway blue and WANT to be on them for their sway. OPK are fallible. We use them because it's the best technology we have, but...
Back again: blue sway planning