Already having gender disappointment from intuition...

[otisismycat]

I haven't even found out what I am having yet but I've had this gut feeling from the very beginning I am having a girl. The month before I got pregnant I thought I was pregnant that month and had the exact same strong girl feeling. Turns out I wasn't pregnant but the next month when I did get pregnant the strong feeling came back as soon as I got the positive pregnancy test. Every time I think of the baby its just instantly a girl in my mind. I had an ultrasound at 13 weeks and they did 4 potty shots. 3 times there was nothing between the legs and 1 time there was something so I just feel like that could of been the cord or a girl part... With my son I wanted a boy but tried to convince myself I was having a girl but I just couldn't do it. I just want another boy so bad but I feel like this intuition is just so strong I can't possibly be wrong and any boy dream or feeling I have is just wishful thinking... :/

(I posted this at IG too if it looks familiar to anyone)

[bunnywabbit]

I'm really hoping this is your little boy. Do you have a photo of your 13 u/s scan you could post? Maybe the girls here can put your mind at rest x

[otisismycat]

Thank you very much! I wish I had a picture. They didn't give me any photos and if I wanted a photo I had to pay 50 dollars for a CD and it wouldn't of come in the mail for 2-3 weeks. Sometimes I wish I paid the 50 dollars and got the CD just so I could obsess over the photos hahaha. I get to find out in 2.5 weeks. The upcoming weeks are going to be rough! haha

[Adia]

Why don't you want a girl?

Don't worry, you can't offend me...be truthful, that's what we are here for.

[otisismycat]

It's not that I don't want to have a girl just having a boy right now would make my life a lot easier. My son and his brother could share a room, I have everything I could ever need for a boy (they will be born exactly 2 years apart so clothes should fit perfectly) and I've always pictures myself with at least two boys close in age. I don't know I just love little boy clothes and names. Girl names and clothes disinterest me but I would love a daughter all the same. I've always been a tom boy. I dressed like a boy until i was 13, haha. And I know that all that stuff doesn't really matter and that no matter what boy or girl they will have their own interests and style and a girl can do boy things too. It's just when I think of having another little boy and all the cute clothes and fun boyish things we can do together it makes me happy. I don't think I will be upset if I am having a girl or at least I hope I won't be. I know I'd love her just as much as I would a son its just if I could pick I'd like to have another son I guess, haha. Not sure if that makes sense or not.

[carmella_marie]

For what it's worth potty shots at 13 weeks are in no way reliable. But I do understand your gender desire and how hard it is to wait! Hugs!

[otisismycat]

Thank you, Carmella_marie. Waiting is the worst part! 14 more days until I find out!

[Peebell85]

Its funny how life plays out, I really wanted my second to be a girl but we'vs had a boy guess at 13 weeks. I'm all good with it now but I really had a strong feeling it was my girl... But two boys is going to be awesome. I'm dying to get the next scan this weekend so we can know its a boy with 99% surity!!