I've been there, 3 times! It's difficult during pregnancy, but you will see that you will love him with all your heart. And this little innocent being needs you so much, as much as any daughter. We mothers must not forget how much our sons need the unconditional love of their mother. My sons are so sweet and loving, I would never swap them for the world, and not for any daughter either. Give yourself time to grieve, you will be ok. You will learn to deal with other people having daughters, it stings each time, but you will get used to it and get on with your life. You are blessed with a beautiful child and you will fall in love with him I promise!