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    ANOTHER BOY

    So... I just found out I'll be having my 6th boy. 6th. No girls. All I've wanted for the last few years is just one little girl. I thought this was it. I just felt like this was my girl. So much so that I went to find out the gender early! How do I deal with this? 😢
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    I am so sorry I wish I knew what to say to help you feel better. Do you have anyone around you can talk to about all of this without judgment, like a therapist or friend? Sometimes talking about it all out loud helps more than text.

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    Oh gosh that's rough, I'm so sorry.

    My experience has been that time really does help. You have an utterly awesome family, and before I had GD feelings, I would look at big all-boy families and think that they were super cool. What you have is so special and unique. I know it doesn't make up for missing that girl, but you are the matriarch of an amazing group of men there.
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    Thank you both. No, there isn't anyone to talk to who would understand and I also don't want to seem ungrateful. I know I'm blessed to have my boys, and I see it more and more as I watch my friends struggle with infertility or miscarriages ☹ I guess I do feel like my family is unique... I can at least display the "boymom" tag without any doubts. lol It's just going to be hard.
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    Sorry dear, I also felt the same way 2016 when I had my 5th boy. Though I have never sway before, I thought all hope was gone until I came across this very forum, which I believe I will surly get my own girl from very soon. So just keep calm and believe you can still get your girl. Have you ever swayed?

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    I just delivered my 4th boy. We tried swaying for a girl but failed. I’m having mixed emotions. Super sad, disappointed, angry. But also glad my son is healthy and grateful he is doing well. I just wanted a girl so bad. I feel selfish for feeling this way. I had no desire to help choose a name, I want to cry, I want to scream as loud as I can. I don’t know how to process these feelings or talk to someone about it. So I feel your pain.

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    Hey! I know this post is from May and maybe you decided to leave so it eases GD. Just wanted to check in how you are doing. I have 5 boys and although I'm swaying, I'm trying to make it clear to myself that 6 boys is a very big possibility. I know GD too well, spotted this post, and just wanted to check how you're holding up

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