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    Unhappy Unexpected extreme gd

    Basically as above. I never thought I'd feel this disappointed and horrible at not getting my desired gender but I do 😢
    I feel like I might need to get professional help as at the moment I feel like I hate this baby and wish he had never been conceived. I've had a rough 2 years and I think this is where it stems from (no excuse I know). I just wish I never fell pregnant and kept our family as just the 4 of us. Now I cant turn back and feel so trapped. I feel so horrible I wish I could disappear myself.

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    Can you talk to your doctor about this?? You can absolutely have some chemical imbalances going on that could be treated and you'll be feeling better at that point.

    Most people feel much better once the baby arrives. I truly think there's something inside us that isn't meant to know gender prior to birth before we have someone to associate with that gender, if that makes sense.
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    I feel bad talking about it outside of here as everyone will just say I should be grateful. I'll see how I go. I do agree with your last paragraph though. I wish I hadnt found out as im sure I will love him once I can see him. Its just going to b a hard long 20 weeks coming. I feel and but I wish I just hadnt fallen pregnant at all now

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