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  1. #1

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    Mar 2014
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    Hoping for some advice

    Iím not really sure where to turn since I ashamed of my feelings. I used to post here and there on the ttc girl board and got some wonderful advice. I thought I was living a girl friendly sway life for a long time when we made our final attempt at trying for a girl. Well, I got pregnant and with life getting real crazy, I stopped coming on this site. I am now in my 3rd trimester and chose not to find out the gender because I am just not ready to officially hear ďitís a boyĒ. However, I just know it is...everything points to boy...I know timing has not been proven but my conception date is the day we dtd, I ovulated from the right, Iíve stalked nub pics and it definitely doesnít look like any girl nub Iíve seen, itís just the vibe I got from Sonos. I donít know. But the way Iím feeling lately is just terrible. I cry everyday thinking I will never have the girl I dreamed of. I know I should be grateful for a healthy baby but I just canít shake these feelings and feel like I canít even talk to anyone about them. Iím sorry this is just a rant but if anyone actually read this, thank you and if anyone has any advice I really appreciate it.

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    Hugs to you.
    You sound so much like me with my last two pregnancies!
    Each time I was looking for anything I could find to prove to me that my attempt at a girl was OR was not successful.
    Both times I swear the ultrasound proved to me in someway the baby was a boy.
    But I this last time I was completely wrong. I couldíve sworn I saw a boy parts on all of my ultrasounds. I couldíve sworn the technician said he. Looking back I feel like I was just seeing and hearing what I wanted to see to protect myself from getting my hopes up.
    In hindsight I kind of wish I had just found and not told anyone.
    For me it was the reactions I didnít want to deal with.
    But I totally believe in doing whatís right for you because everybody handles the news differently.
    I hope this helps a little
    2007 2009 2011
    Prayed and swayed for a little
    2020 I still canít believe we have a girl!!

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