Thank you for this essay, Atomic. It was exactly what I needed to read today. This past month was my first TTC month and got myself so worked up with trying to get it all right, I'm not even sure I ovulated. I put so much pressure on myself, I started to feel really defeated with the whole swaying process. I'm taking an HPT tomorrow and am hoping for a BFN so I can start fresh and more relaxed. I have already started exercising and plan to try again in July with no supps, just diet and exercise, and one attempt at pos OPK. Thanks, again, for some perspective.