IF I don't get my BFP

**My Three Sons** · January 9th, 2013, 06:08 PM

I am not going to sway anymore. I am just going to go with the flow, see what happens. Maybe that's why a BFP hasn't happened for me yet.

Today is my sister's birthday. She is the first girl after 4 boys for my mom and dad. My mom posted on FB today that she was so shocked when she was born because she just assumed she would never have a girl. She went on to have two more.

**nuthinbutpink** · January 9th, 2013, 06:09 PM

I wish you luck with TTC. Swaying or not, it's always possible.

**Cinss** · January 9th, 2013, 06:13 PM

How long have you been trying for now? I can relate after 8 BFNs i took a break where i stopped charting and monitoring everything, i did stick with the diet, not really on purpose but because that was what i had become used to. It was only 2 months after i decided to take a break that i got my BFP and we were lucky enough to get our DG

I hope the same happens for you!

**My Three Sons** · January 9th, 2013, 08:21 PM

It's been 5 cycles, but I only have 4 more til my 40th birthday. When DH agreed to TTC #4, his stipulation was until I turn 40. I pretty much stopped this past cycle with the holidays and such, and was planning on starting the diet and all again. I've been teetering back and forth if I want to or not, and know that if I didn't get my BFP and was doing the diet, I'd always wonder if that was why. If I'm not swaying and I don't get my BFP, I'd know it just wasn't in the cards for us anymore.

**pebmcpd7** · January 9th, 2013, 08:33 PM

Originally Posted by My Three Sons

It's been 5 cycles, but I only have 4 more til my 40th birthday. When DH agreed to TTC #4, his stipulation was until I turn 40. I pretty much stopped this past cycle with the holidays and such, and was planning on starting the diet and all again. I've been teetering back and forth if I want to or not, and know that if I didn't get my BFP and was doing the diet, I'd always wonder if that was why. If I'm not swaying and I don't get my BFP, I'd know it just wasn't in the cards for us anymore.

I am 40 in September, I am back on the diet after been 'bold' around the holidays. I am gonna try in feb and march and if no BFP, we have decided to call it a day!! We are now trying 12 months, we had a MC in there too, if I had of went to term I would be due the end of this month. I really thought I would of got pregnant before that due date, but it was not to be...
I can't go on with this, I am letting go of the dream as I am getting older and I am drained at this stage!! GL to you!!!!

**mkarntz1980** · January 10th, 2013, 05:23 PM

im at the same place, im pretty much done swaying, am sticking with diet pretty good though. im throwing timing out the window, and no lubes

**atomic sagebrush** · January 13th, 2013, 02:38 PM

I totally understand...I got DD the very last cycle I was going to try. Wishing you the very best!!!

**My Three Sons** · January 13th, 2013, 06:53 PM

Thanks AS. I totally appreciate all the work you put into this site, and I'm sure that things would be different for me if I had the luxury of time, but I don't. I'd rather get pregnant and find out it's a boy and wonder "what if I swayed", then not get pregnant at all and wonder "what if I hadn't swayed".

There's still a 50/50 (almost) chance for me anyway.

I still plan on hangin around here, just for the TTC chat and such, plus it's such a great site and wonderful group of ladies, I can't imagine leaving now.

**atomic sagebrush** · January 14th, 2013, 01:44 PM

my thinking was I would rather walk away with a baby to love than none!! good luck

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