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    Advice!... Do we dtd on the word of a physic???

    I had a reading from Sandra a couple of months ago..and she said I would be fertile in April and as a result expecting in Jan with the 28th being the dd. She said it would be a girl with blonde hair and big blue eyes (all 4 of my boys are like this!)

    i wasn't really planning on trying that soon....i was thinking of trying a sway at the end of the year. For some reason a couple of days ago i checked what the due date would be if i conceived now and going by my lmp it said 28th Jan!!... Is this a huge coincidence??!!.... I havnt done any swaying and today is prob my last day to try if i want to believe in her reading....ive heard she is very accurate. Could this be my only chance of a girl??? Or do i wait and sway???... Advice needed asap!!!
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    I don't believe in that at all. She has a 50% chance of being right. I'd make the effort instead of relying on a coin toss.
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    What can you live with? If you end up with a boy, can you look back and be okay with it?
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    There is no way this is your 'only' chance at a girl. Wait until you've swayed hard and the timing is right for you. Maybe you can shoot for next April/May if it works out next year?

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    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
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    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Thanks...u are all right! In my heart i want to wait and really give it a good try as it will be our last....i think i just had a moment of panic lol. . .we have never properly tried for a baby b4 so it will actually be quite exciting when we do x

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    She was right about boy #7 before I even conceived him. Maybe off on timing but right on gender. She said #8 will finally be my girl. The first time she said I'll conceive my girl a year after boy #7 then a recent reading she says I should conceive in the summer months, June sticks out to her. But I don't see myself conceiving so soon since my baby is only 6 months old. I'm definitely waiting to ttc a girl so that I can give my all into it. I might try in the summer of another year as long as I have my sway plan in order.
    Mommy to 7 finally had #1 in 2016! Had boy #8 after. Now returning to try to sway for final child praying for #2 🤞🙏

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    No way!
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