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April 13th, 2015, 03:37 PM
#1
Dream Vet
So upset at my husband
We DTD ( one attempt last night) and my husband just told me he abstained for one month!!!
I'm so upset at myself and him since our timing of our bd was right on.
I've been driving myself crazy by looking online at scientific articles and seeing what long abstinence does to the quality and motility of sperm.
I feel like I just wasted a cycle on nothing. I spent so much money on 3 different ovulation kits trying to pinpoint ovulation for me.
Should I be hopeful for a BFP this cycle? Or am I out?
I feel so embarrassed to even bring this up 😩
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April 13th, 2015, 04:09 PM
#2
IVF Advice Coach
You can still get pregnant! It can happen.
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April 13th, 2015, 04:11 PM
#3
Moderator
Why don't you do every 4 days. That way you know what he's up to!
You can still get pregnant!
Sept 2008 & successful boy sway
June 2010.
M/C Oct 2012
Is DE in my future?
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April 13th, 2015, 04:15 PM
#4
Dream Vet
I agree with every 4 days if it's an option. Don't stress, you can still get pregnant
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April 13th, 2015, 04:17 PM
#5
Dream Vet
Well now that I know this I will do every 4 days next cycle if I don't get a BFP.
Too late for this cycle.
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April 13th, 2015, 04:34 PM
#6
I actually swayed a few years back and we DTD after a month of abstinence only once and I got a BFP! So you never know! Gud luck x
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April 13th, 2015, 04:46 PM
#7
Dream Vet
Thanks for the reassurance and sharing that info pink rose.
Did your sway work?
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April 13th, 2015, 05:27 PM
#8
Dream Vet
Sperm is sperm! If it was there you always have a chance!
DS 1
2008
DS 2
2010
DS 3
2013
May 2014 at 5 weeks
August 2014 at 12 weeks
DD1 our beautiful rainbow baby joined us october 2015. No sway...just miracles.
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April 15th, 2015, 11:39 AM
#9
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
HealthyGirl
Thanks for the reassurance and sharing that info pink rose.
Did your sway work?
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I think she has 2 boys and is going HT for a girl, so it looks like, not.
That would have been an IG-type sway tho because we do not and have not ever advised abstain for a month (please correct me if I am wrong Pink Rose)
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April 21st, 2015, 03:27 PM
#10
Big Dreamer
Two of my boys were conceived after a long abstain. So it is very possible you conceived!
2009
2011
2011 Failed IG sway
2014 Failed GD sway
August 2015
2016
Whoops
DUE February 28th 2017 with a BOY! Didn't get a chance to sway for another girl, but this little guy really wanted to be apart of our family. We love him already!
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