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I'm confused... Correct me if I'm wrong.. but in this post, atomic http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html Don't you recommend frequent BD?
Some people want to do EVERYTHING under the sun to sway. That is their choice. This is not "Swaying Atomic's Way or Else", it is a clearinghouse of sway tactics that people can use if they want to. So I have writeups of lots of different sway tactics and then people pick and choose what they want to use.
We started off thinking that frequency would be a huge swayer for people. But over time it became apparent that frequency patterns really did not do a whole lot and it was the number of attempts that swayed for reasons we can only guess at. People were doing frequency and adding attempts and ending up getting opposites doing that. So we have backed off of frequency and focused on one attempt and our results went way up and stayed up.
People want to do frequency + one attempt. Totally fine if you want to start off doing that. But over time you have to drop things to boost odds of conception, and I believe that based on our results it is most sensible to ditch frequency before adding attempts. It doesn't mean you can't try frequency if you'd like to, just that in our results it's not been a heavy lifter in terms of results. :)
This is super helpful and the complete opposite of what I planned to do from previous reading! Thanks so much. What kind of success increase did you see with the 1 attempt?
So, if we DTD a few times before O, I should have my husband not finish inside? If there was one day in the cycle that was best for the one attempt, what would it be?
We BD'd for 5 or 6 days straight through O with our last baby thinking it may sway pink... It didn't :) It did give us our 2nd sweet boy though!
HUGE. We went from 58% the year we were having people do everything (like jellies, frequency, etc) and then add attempts to get pregnant - to an IMMEDIATE increase up to about 65% and then people are getting into the 70% and up with 12 weeks on diet and exercise on top of that.
i got my 4 boys by BD right through the whole month, not quite every single day but certainly most days.
all 3 of my girls came from 1 attempt, the first 2 unintentionally and the last one as part of a sway.
I have had literally 10 more people JUST IN THE LAST 24 HOURS asking me about this!!
DO NOT DO BD THROUGH O EVER! Pink or Blue! explanation on first page