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    Quote Originally Posted by Elsie View Post
    This is super helpful and the complete opposite of what I planned to do from previous reading! Thanks so much. What kind of success increase did you see with the 1 attempt?

    So, if we DTD a few times before O, I should have my husband not finish inside? If there was one day in the cycle that was best for the one attempt, what would it be?
    Whoops I think I missed part of this, yes, you can do pullout or have him wear a condom.

    Most of us do the one attempt at positive OPK just for the sake of convenience. But you don't have to. If you ahve a regular cycle and want to do a cutoff, feel free, just be sure it's only 2-3 days as any longer than that cuts odds of conception to practically nil, esp. with using other sway tactics
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    I'm going to start posting links to threads that show firsthand the stuff that goes wrong when people try to do frequent BD. IT JUST DOESN"T WORK in a practical sense for the vast majority of people who try it.
    Husbands cannot DTD and end up shooting dust! http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...-rephresh.html
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    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    I have had literally 10 more people JUST IN THE LAST 24 HOURS asking me about this!!

    DO NOT DO BD THROUGH O EVER! Pink or Blue! explanation on first page

    When you say Din not BD through O, do you mean do not BD the entire fertile week, or like don't BD everyday from AF-O? We usually have sex 2-3x in the fertile window. With the last two being the day of the positive opk, and the day after. I was swaying blue, and got my daughter that way. I'm trying to sway blue again, but that's pretty much always our frequency. Should we be doing something different?
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    I mean do not start right after AF ends and/or don't start like a week before you expect O. Once that fertile window opens, the more the better, but what people are doing is starting BD too soon, so all the spermies die off, and then BD every day (or sometimes more than that) so by the time the egg drops, there are not many sperm left alive to fertilize the egg. All the "good batches" lived and died 7-10 days prior, and just not enough is coming out per batch to make it to the egg (it takes millions of sperm to fertilize one egg!)

    What I like blue swayers to do is BD unprotected every 2-4 days and then once the fertile window opens, hit it with 2-3 additional attempts. You're doing great, but do continue with that BD every 2-4 days, or even a few days with every other day after the pos OPK attempts if he can, even after you think you Oed in case it's delayed for some reason.
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    !!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!

    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    HUGE. We went from 58% the year we were having people do everything (like jellies, frequency, etc) and then add attempts to get pregnant - to an IMMEDIATE increase up to about 65% and then people are getting into the 70% and up with 12 weeks on diet and exercise on top of that.
    As of this year, 2017, 77% success rate for pink. (some of these people did other frequency patterns like e4d) Our results have only gone up since we started emphasizing the one attempt.
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    The stats this year are amazing!! What are the successful swayers doing that works so well??!!
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    What is UP with the BD thru O for pink lately?

    Quote Originally Posted by hopetoswaypink View Post
    The stats this year are amazing!! What are the successful swayers doing that works so well??!!
    In general, here is what has been getting the best results for pink (some of the successful sways this year had a mash up of different combinations of these):

    LE diet 12+ weeks, cardio exercise 60+ min 4-6 days a week, one attempt via at first positive opk OR BDing E4D, fiber before fatty meals, coffee, alcohol, and some of us needed to take Clomid to conceive.

    FX and GL to you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by XXforhubby View Post
    In general, here is what has been getting the best results for pink (some of the successful sways this year had a mash up of different combinations of these):

    LE diet 12+ weeks, cardio exercise 60+ min 4-6 days a week, one attempt via at first positive opk OR BDing E4D, fiber before fatty meals, coffee, alcohol, and some of us needed to take Clomid to conceive.

    FX and GL to you!

    8/2010 6/2013 11/2015
    Baby Girl EDD 9/30/2017

    I have been doing all that for 11 weeks, just hoping it will work and at 41 I'm not too old!
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    Well here is any of the pink baby dust I may have !!


    8/2010 6/2013 11/2015
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