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    I need some quick advice PLEASE! Blue sway..

    Hello everyone!

    We weren't actively ttc but decided to not prevent either... We've been on the fence about ttc#4 for a long time.
    On my cd 12 we DTD without protection and I thought O was at least 6 days off anyways, so we'd be ok. However my body is gearing up to O now at CD 14! My cervix has been SHOW for the past 3 days, today being the most fertile. I took an ovulation test just to see if I could see the surge and it's almost the same darkness as the control but not quite. So I don't know if I missed surge or it's still coming. Here is the dilemma! Chances are good I will get pregnant due to DTD 2 days ago. However if we want to sway boy we need to DTD close to O, otherwise I am afraid we'll conceive another girl. On the other hand we wouldn't be disappointed if we didn't get pregnant either and almost feel that it would be better to not be pregnant right now. In saying that are we in too deep to not try to sway boy or do you think we could potentially not end up pregnant this cycle. We'd be happy either way but don't want to push it one way or the other right now.... WWYD? Thank you for the help!

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    Hi! So sorry I only just now saw this.

    I would have probably just held steady with the attempt you had but honestly, whatever you did was the right thing. I just can't say from here and so either way, whatever you decided, that was meant to be. FX for best possible outcome whatever that may be!
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