The TROUBLE with timing!

[Prayingpinkgirl]

edit and rewrote above!

[Prayingpinkgirl]

Ok, so we will try DH release every 4 days. with 1 attempt at + opk....now does it matter when that last release happens to fall. Say for instance dh's last release falls on the day before +opk when we will bd...is that ok?

[Princessclare]

How many releases on day of baby dance do I dump ??? Before the one attempt baby dance is wed this week x

[Prayingpinkgirl]

Hey Atomic, just a quick question before I have start baby dancing lol....If dh is releasing every couple days before our 1 attempt. 1. Should there be any abstinence before the 1 bd like 24 hours, 48 hours etc. 2. If the release falls on same day as bd is that good or bad. I understand the releasing every 2-4 days. But as we get closer to the day of out 1 attempt. Is there any instructions I should be sharing with dh? Thank you so much!

[atomic sagebrush]

edit and rewrote above!

did I answer your question before or after you rewrote it? Did I give you an adequate answer?

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok, so we will try DH release every 4 days. with 1 attempt at + opk....now does it matter when that last release happens to fall. Say for instance dh's last release falls on the day before +opk when we will bd...is that ok?

No that is fine. As long as he's doing regular release like that, 2 back to back releases won't reduce his sperm count too far and he can still make a nice amount of healthy sperm for the one attempt!

[atomic sagebrush]

How many releases on day of baby dance do I dump ??? Before the one attempt baby dance is wed this week x

??? It depends on what method you're doing.

If you're doing "hurry up FR" where you release once, dump it, then DTD as soon as you're able to, just ONE.

If you're doing abstain or daily release do not dump ANY releases the day of attempt.

The only method we ever used where people dumped more than one release in a day was "compressed FR" and most of the people who tried that, didn't even stick to it properly anyway. I wouldn't bother with compressed FR, but the directions are, have him release/dump it 2-3 times per day for 2-3 days before attempt and on the attempt, have him release and dump in the morning, have attempt at night.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hey Atomic, just a quick question before I have start baby dancing lol....If dh is releasing every couple days before our 1 attempt. 1. Should there be any abstinence before the 1 bd like 24 hours, 48 hours etc. 2. If the release falls on same day as bd is that good or bad. I understand the releasing every 2-4 days. But as we get closer to the day of out 1 attempt. Is there any instructions I should be sharing with dh? Thank you so much!

1)No, if he's doing regular release every 2-4 days there does NOT need to be any special time before the one attempt. Just have it work out however it works out.

2)Doesn't matter

3)No special instructions

[Prayingpinkgirl]

THANK YOU!...Yes, you answered my questions....Hopefully this is my lucky month!!

[Prayingpinkgirl]

Hi Atomic, I just wanted you to review my 1 attempt and tell me what you think!....So my period ended 1/30. My dh Released 1/23, 1/26, 1/30, and 2/1. I got my first positive on wondfo actually 2/3 at 11p (CD 10) and blazin positive on wondfo and smiley face on cb advance on 2/4 at 11 am. My dh he didn't tell me until afterwards that he released at 10:30 am. We still BD'd at 3 pm because I knew he would be soooo into the Superbowl lol. The wondfo strips were still positive Monday, it started to lighten up by Monday night 2/5. I just hope that since he released a couple hours before we BD that there was still fresh sperm. Thank you for your input.