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    wooow thank you so much for giving me this link to read really really helped me a lot, because despite i m so looking to get pregnat of a baby girl, i really have my doubts about so many thisngs in timing and how all works or not work, you explian it all so clear. Even for me that english is not m native language. Thank you so much!
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    can you please send me the diet!? Ill DM you my email!

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    A few years ago I decided to just make a shorter version of LE Diet here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...l-version.html

    And here are a couple FAQs that will help you!
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    Hi all

    Iím getting near O (CD10) and trying to decide when to dtd, Iím planning to do one attempt. I get that the shettles method has been debunked but on the girl stats, 4 day cut off has 80% success rate. Anyone have any thoughts on what day is beat and why the 4 day cut off has such good results. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babymaking1984 View Post
    Hi all

    I’m getting near O (CD10) and trying to decide when to dtd, I’m planning to do one attempt. I get that the shettles method has been debunked but on the girl stats, 4 day cut off has 80% success rate. Anyone have any thoughts on what day is beat and why the 4 day cut off has such good results. Thanks!
    Scientific studies show the same numbers of girls conceived as boys of each day of the fertile window. O-4 has low odds of bfp so most aim for day of +opk which is likely O-1/-2 and has good odds of conception.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babymaking1984 View Post
    Hi all

    I’m getting near O (CD10) and trying to decide when to dtd, I’m planning to do one attempt. I get that the shettles method has been debunked but on the girl stats, 4 day cut off has 80% success rate. Anyone have any thoughts on what day is beat and why the 4 day cut off has such good results. Thanks!
    According to our most recent statistics https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...your-sway.html 16 out of 21 people claimed they got a baby girl with that cutoff - about 76%. But science has indicated (and I mean, using modern technology to accurately pin down ovulation day) that the odds of getting pregnant with a true 4 day cutoff are really low. (and this is especially true with pink sways sicne swaying pink lowers chances of conception, esp. with cutoff)

    Most, if not all, of the people who think they got pregnant with a 4 day cutoff in our statistics actually ovulated on a different day. And I know this because I've seen hundreds, if not thousands of people try to conceive with a 4 day cutoff while swaying and they couldn't. I have had people show up here after 2 years of 4 day cutoffs. In the real world it just doesn't work for people until/unless they ovulate early.

    I believe those statistics to be false and misleading - most if not all of them did not have sex 4 days before ovulation. But what they did do, most of them anyway, was have 1 attempt. For reasons we can only guess at, 1 attempt has been quite pink friendly - between 70-75% most of the time of the site (it's down a bit now but I believe that's because so many people have showed up and NOT done diet but relied on 1 attempt to sway for them). If you take a sample size of 16 of 21 people (76%) and have only ONE sway go another way from luck, that bumps the results to 71%, roughly what the one attempt was getting most of the time. If you have two sways go the other way, that These small sample sizes are really not very helpful because so much of this comes down to luck (plus not to mention the other things people were doing to sway) and they realy don't mean what people think they mean.

    Long story short, it's a fluke.

    I am 1 million percent convinced timing does nothing for swaying, I got 4 of my 5 as timing opposites (and the 5th was a sneak attack, he might have been a timing opposite too for all I know) So while i'ts fine to start off using timing if you'd like, please do a reasonable cutoff you can actually get pregnant with - 2 or 3 days, max - and drop it before adding attempts. DK if you noticed this but the first post in this thread has a really long involved exploration and debunking of timing.
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    Thank you Atomic! Makes sense to me!

    I have one more question, Iím CD 15 (I generally OV on CD14, think diet may have delayed it) using clear blue dual tests and got my second flashy face today and have EWCM, do you think I should DTD today or wait till tomorrow? I seem to OV quite quickly after LH surge and I donít want to miss it as only doing 1 attempt. How many days of flashy face do people generally get? Thank you!

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    People get all different amounts of flashy smileys, esp. when swaying unfortunately.

    If you're just starting off and in no hurry to conceive it's fine to have an attempt slightly on the early side. For all you know you'll get pregnant that way, and if not then we can move it a little closer in the future.
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    Hi Iím new to this but I would really like a list of the full diet for pink/girl sway. Also does dairy calcium and magnesium help to sway pink and so confused on the coffee drinking because itís says a no no on every other site any help would be much appreciated thankyou xx

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    HI Danny!

    I'll give you a short answer first and then please check out the links below for thorough answers to all your questions.

    The short answer is, the other sites are wrong. They continue to use this old outdated information that has been completely debunked by modern science and most of us on here got opposites using those methods. The entire reason we started this site is because so many of us got the "wrong" genders doing things those ways. I got 2 boys with those old methods of swaying before I decided "there has got to be a better way" and started doing my own research into actual science instead of those old outdated things and in the end I did get a girl!

    I know it's really irritating when our site doesn't do things the same way, but the reason is because we want you guys to have successful sways. We want you to get your desired gender, and those old methods just don't work. I am always happy to explain why the old ways don't work and why our methods do so whenever you have any confusion please just ask, that's what I'm here for. I answer every question asked.

    Now, the longer answer:

    Here is the Low Everything Diet we use: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...l-version.html

    I have a general FAQ for diet here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...-diet-faq.html

    And a mineral FAQ that will help answer your questions about calcium and magnesium - long story short, I would keep dairy within LE Diet limits, do NOT have those massive amounts of dairy the other sites recommend, and if you wish to use cal-mag I leave that up to you just be sure you don't take Vitamin D with it : https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...s-edition.html

    And as for coffee, they're just wrong, wrong, wrong on that. It's all based on scientific studies that were debunked ages ago. Coffee has been a great sway for us, I got my 4 boys without coffee and my girl with it, and it's a shame they keep recommending not to drink it because we've had such good results and it's such an easy thing to do. I have a full explanation of that here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...s-swaying.html
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